Thoughts Of An Average Joe

Thank you for joining us for part 2 of the Marriage Kit. Today’s topic is cohabitation before marriage and financial goals. Taroy’s guests The Henderson Family discuss what it was like to meet online and going through that process and their story of how they got married. they talked about the process of living with roommates while married, the way the money was divided before they got married and...

Welcome to the first episode of a three part series called “The Marriage Kit”. Taroy brings back his parents to talk about today’s topic: Is Marriage Still The Goal? His parents talk about why God should be front and center in the relationship. They assert that when dating, people don’t show their true colors. It’s often an act which is why it’s important to date long enough until the person gets...

In this first ever artist feature local artist Tazz Ali joins the podcast. Tazz Ali shares his creative process and beginnings in music. They discuss how the documentary came about, the Go Getter Movement and Tazz shares some of his work. Taroy shares his gift with music by releasing a song he did for the first time ever. Sit back and vibe with us!!! Podcast Plug Segment: Thats Not Cinema Apple po...

Joining this weeks episode are two Black Creatives Chesseburger and Keemayeyee. They discuss the process of the documentary of local artist, Tazz Ali, and a little bit of what the documentary is about. Taroy shares his FAMU journalism days. This episode explores why you can’t work with everyone, the challenges of coming together to work, and why college is more so for networking and making connect...

Taroy is back with another episode and he has new guest Diamond Hill of The March Forth Foundation. Today’s topic is Trusting The Process.  Diamond goes in-depth about what The March Forth Foundation is, the services they provide and what they bring to the community. They get into the struggles both of them have faced in being entrepreneurs and how they can use that in future testimonies. Taroy di...

Taroy is back with another episode he has two friends from his college days Tyler and David and they have a King conversation. What is a king conversation? It’s a conversation among black men about the what’s going on in the world. They discuss what happened when African Americans were on Congress before Caucasians overthrew them, why black men get labeled as thugs and white men get a pass for bei...

In this bonus episode Taroy is joined by Akeele, Jae & Dia and he gives insight into his relationship to the listeners. He shares why she gives him hope and all things relationships. In a switch in topic he also discussed the process of rebranding The Average Joe Podcast and the experiences that come with it . This episode has no outline and no script. Just four podcasters having a conversatio...

In this episode Taroy and first time guest Adam(@writtenrubies) explore the correlation between Mental Health & Social Media to close out Mental Health Awareness month. They both dig into their experiences with depression and their bounce back. Social media has a big impact on mental health. Taroy and Adam give characteristics of a mentally healthy person and dive into Adam’s book. Sit back as...

What is self-love? That’s the topic of discussion today as Taroy is solo. Why he is being selfish with himself?  How does that correlates to his family and personal relationships? He provides examples of how he didn’t use to love himself and what changed. He shares 21 self-love tips to try everyday. Beat by: DillyGotItBumpin  Podcast Plug Segment: Live Yo Life Podcast link: https://open.spotify.co...

Do you think your skin is a weapon? Well that’s the topic of hand of today’s podcast as Taroy talks about the horrendous murder of Ahmaud Aubrey and he has a newcomer and fellow podcaster Akeele (@amomentwitha) and returning guest Dia  @illuminaughdee) on to tackle this topic. They talk about how and why this happened and the actions that need to happen next. They discuss why people feel enabled o...

Taroy is back with the debut episode of season 2. Coming out the gate hot with “Race vs Prejudice” fan favorite Zay joins him. They discuss if it is possible for African Americans to be racist and what’s the difference between race and prejudice? Covering topics such as interracial relationships, real life experiences of racism and media portrayal of race and prejudice. In a country divided by Pre...

In this special bonus episode COVID-19 seems to be interrupting everyone’s plans except Pastor Rodney Howard Browne. In this bonus episode, Taroy discusses the pastor’s arrest. Was he right or wrong? Was this an attack on religion? Or was this straight ignorance? Taroy discusses this and his thoughts on the people who are stuck on the cruise ship that can’t find a place to dock. Tune in and give y...

Taroy interrupts his hiatus due to the current pandemic. He brings on a returning guest Mimi (@kweenm_said it) to discuss all things Corona Virus. What exactly the disease is, the symptoms, how this disease impacts the US and the lasting impact it has on the world. They discuss what happens Next with schools closing everywhere. When will the workplace follow suit? Finally, they share the different...

Taroy is back with the season finale and anniversary episode. He brings on fellow podcaster Nikki (@letstalkaboutwith_nikki) to discuss how being a content creator isn’t easy. They share their struggles of being content creators and the creative process. Why is it necessary to take breaks? What happens when you have to scrap an episode? In this season one wrap-up, Taroy also reveals some plans on...

Taroy is back with another episode. We are just one episode away from the season finale! First time guest and creator of “Shaunciology”, Shaunci joins Taroy as they discuss toxicity in relationships. Have they been a toxic partner? How do you move on after a toxic relationship?  All this and more are explored. Shaunci social media: Instagram: (@Shaunciology) Snapchat: (@shauncijay88) ****IF YOU WA...

Happy Black History month!!! February is a packed month focusing on Black excellence and love. In this episode Taroy is joined by Dia (@illminaughdee) and Ann Marie(@tinursemarie1) the hosts of  “Reclaiming My Power Podcast".  Together they define the concept of “Black Love”, share their past and present romantic relationship experiences, and the all important  Valentine’s Day. From long dista...

Taroy is back with another episode with first time guest Ondraus as they discuss the life and legacy of Kobe “Bean” Bryant. The topics include where they were when they heard the news, their initial reactions and how he impacted the game. Paying their condolences and respects to all the members of the helicopter crash and how difficult this is for Kobe’s late wife Vanessa Bryant. Ondraus shares hi...

What’s better than the new year? A new episode from Taroy. Flying solo for this episode he discusses asking a girl out. He proposes that being direct provides more clarity than if you leave her to her own assumptions. Taroy gives stories of when he has asked some of his exes out as well and lists reasons why you have to ask a girlfriend out. He also calls out the ladies for saying that if they hav...

Happy New Year everyone! Taroy is bringing in 2020 with a new episode. This  chapter of his life is titled “Stability”. He discusses his evolution to becoming more financially stable and what steps are needed to get him there. He recaps 2019 including what happened in his personal life and how happy he was to start the podcast. He shares what he has in store for the rest of the year for the podcas...

Join us for a special episode with Taroy and his family is for the holidays. They discuss what Christmas means to them growing up verses now. By reliving memories as a family and sharing their least favorite & memorable gifts this episode is definitely a treat. And what’s a good story without a laugh about special moments and a few embarrassments? From my family to yours  and from Thoughts Of...

A lot of people don't properly heal when they get out of a relationship and it can be detrimental. Taroy and his first time guest DJ, talk about how healing from relationships is essential. The duo discusses how men are more patient when it comes to relationships & love, how self healing is important, and how its important to realize how you get someone is how you lose them. They both give...

A discussion in the Black Community is the topic of choice this week. Taroy welcomes guest Philiipa as they examine issues involved with parenting in the black community including discipline, child support, and how culture impacts our parenting decisions. They also explore the equitable father law, the double standard when it comes to child support and abortion. This is definitely an eye opening c...

When is the right time to settle down? That’s the question Taroy and first time guest and former college classmate Victor(@Yungmuny28) debate on  this episode. Does Age come into play? Is the pressure from society and social media play a role? Would you rather wait to settle down late or settle early? They also touch on would you move to a different state if your significant other got a better job...

In honor of Florida Classic Weekend Taroy is back with another episode with his best friend and returning guest Antoine (@blk_pantera) as they discuss the HBCU Experience. This includes how going to an HBCU changed their life, the friendships they made, the struggles of attending an HBCU, and their journey getting there. They also discuss how an HBCU is totally different than going to an PWI (Pred...

Millennials are known as the “Netflix and Chill” generation with commitment seeming to be at and all time low. Taroy and returning guest Monique explore explore why they are single. The stages of being single and their past relationships. Want to share your experiences? After listening send in a voice message on the anchor app to share your reasons for being single and we will do a Part 2 of this...