Thoughts May Vary

Chris Klemens is a comedian, podcast host, and “world renowned hot mess”. His podcast, which is aptly described as a love child of The Daily Show and Tosh.0, shows off Chris’ ability to be hilariously chaotic and thoughtfully poignant all at once (our kinda energy). This Thought, Chris unpacks transition periods and shifts in identity that come with ten years of comedy on the internet and a cross-...

This week, the girl’s debunk TikTok’s spiritual bypassing, vision board preaching, law of attraction manifestation bullshit and break down manifesting from a psychological standpoint. Watch this thought on Youtube: https://youtu.be/LxGD6gEG-KY Join our patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thoughtsmayvary Follow Us https://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayvarypod https://www.tiktok.com/@thoughtsmayvarypod...

Thank you to today’s sponsor: DedCool! Shop DedCool: https://dedcool.com/ Welcome back to Season 02 of TMV!!!!! We’re starting off this season with none other than friend of the pod, Mr. Nick Viall! Nick is an entrepreneur, TV personality, podcast host, and now author (!) who is widely known for his starring role on The Bachelor & The Bachelorette. His podcast, The Viall Files, goes deep on al...

CONTENT WARNING: This episode was recorded the day after the Uvalde elementary shooting and subsequently spends some time processing this. If that feels activating to you, please take note of the timestamps below or skip this one - we can’t wait to see you next week for the start of Season 2. Take care of yourself. Disclaimer Timestamps: Austin unpacking ends around 10:36 Passing references around...

Welcome to Vicious Cycle! Where we rehash old Thoughts during our hiatus until Season 2. We're starting you off with one of the girls' favs. Enjoy! This week, the girls get personal and discuss how trauma impacts healthy sex (even years later). From positions that bring up triggers to hating giving blow jobs, this Thought is a no-holds-barred account of working through sexual abuse and tra...

Welcome to Vicious Cycle! Where we rehash old Thoughts during our hiatus until Season 2. We're starting you off with one of the girls' favs. Enjoy! In this Thought, Gaby unpacks the interplay between masculine and feminine energies while Meadow unpacks various aspects of identity formation. Also follow us (don’t let Gaby’s asana calendar live in vain) https://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayv...

Welcome to Vicious Cycle! Where we rehash old Thoughts during our hiatus until Season 2. We're starting you off with one of the girls' favs. Enjoy! Well, well, well if it isn’t Gaby’s long lost hermana. Please give a warm welcome to Tefi Pessoa, the content creator and media personality the world needs. The TikTok legend, TEDx speaker, and certified Miami mami not only solves Meadow’s iden...

Welcome to Vicious Cycle! Where we rehash old Thoughts during our hiatus until Season 2. We're starting you off with one of the girls' favs. Enjoy! For Thought 04, the girls are joined by their friend and gifted author, Cole Brown. The three discuss thoughts on: being Black in white spaces, how to move through identity formation when people project narratives onto you, separating Cole the...

Welcome to Vicious Cycle! Where we rehash old Thoughts during our hiatus until Season 2. We're starting you off with one of the girls' favs. Enjoy! This Thought is a tried-and-true stream of consciousness between the two girls as they unpack the complexities of having trauma as a part of their ~brand~  Thoughts run from: triggers as our responsibilities feelings of shame that come with gro...

For the Season 01 finale, the girls speak to you directly. The girls share their thoughts on your questions, like:  Why do men say they have a good time or say you two had good sex and then not text you? Why do men unmatch you on dating apps? Best/worst part of being freelance? How did you two meet? What kind of qualities do you look for in friends and partners? Is there overlap? Do you think you...

For the last guest episode of Season 01, the girls were joined by friend and creative activist, Dom Roberts. This girl-time packed Thought covers all thoughts from:  Dating (the hair test, sexual boundaries, etc)  Why Dom ended her ‘The Uncomfortable Podcast’ How having “digital activist” as part of your public identity, mixed with people-pleasing tendencies, leads to being robbed of your Black jo...

This week, the girls discuss mental health stigma’s reputation as a cultural flaw (when it should be viewed through a lens of racism) and how coping is valid whether you’re smoking a cigarette or making compassionate space for your feelings in a therapy setting. And other thoughts on sex, blue zones, and (as per usual) their periods.  Also follow us (don’t let Gaby’s asana calendar live in vain) h...

You may recognize Maryah Greene, Plant Stylist & Consultant, otherwise known as “that plant girl”, from such places like AD, Vogue, NYT, and Headspace, saving your snake plants and reminding you of mindfulness effortlessly along the way. Or, maybe Maryah and her sock drawer popped up on your FYP this past month "solving racism". Either way, you’re welcome for the presence of this hilar...

The most grounding and validating pod we deserve to start our Mondays with - please give a warm, TMV welcome to Jesse Israel. Jesse is a social entrepreneur, meditation leader, and former record label executive who is a master of community. You might have heard of him - his meditation movement, The Big Quiet, has led mass meditations in iconic places like Madison Square Garden, featured musical pe...

This week, the girls get personal and discuss how trauma impacts healthy sex (even years later). From positions that bring up triggers to hating giving blow jobs, this Thought is a no-holds-barred account of working through sexual abuse and trauma. If this feels activating to you in any way, please reach out to the resources below and/or come back and listen to us next week instead. Also follow us...

Well, well, well if it isn’t Gaby’s long lost hermana. Please give a warm welcome to Tefi Pessoa, the content creator and media personality the world needs. The TikTok legend, TEDx speaker, and certified Miami mami not only solves Meadow’s identity issues and Gaby’s q’s about masculine and feminine energies, but also gives Meadow an intro into what being from Miami means while reminding Gaby who t...

In this Thought, Gaby unpacks the interplay between masculine and feminine energies while Meadow unpacks various aspects of identity formation. Also follow us (don’t let Gaby’s asana calendar live in vain) https://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayvarypod DISCLAIMER: We are not licensed professionals. If you are seeking licensed and professional mental health support, please reach out to 741-741 (The C...

People tend to act like life begins at the age of fame for those thrown into the spotlight. It’s an ironic story for someone who is the living embodiment of ‘leading your own charge’. Natalie Joy, certified surgical technologist and model, was thrown into said spotlight primarily through the lens of her partner, entrepreneur and former Bachelor, Nick Viall. Little does that following know how resi...

This week, TMV welcomes icon and role model Chrissy Rutherford to the pod! Chrissy is a living embodiment of everything the girls love: an editorial and social media legend with over 12 years in the industry who also champions mental health and cofounded 2BG Consulting with fellow editor Danielle Prescod to consult for fashion and beauty brands (along with influencers) on how to implement anti-rac...

This week, Gaby vulnerably and generously shares her thoughts on her experience at the Hoffman Process (a week-long healing retreat of transformation and development for people who feel stuck in their life). As a Hoffman legacy, she knew this therapy bootcamp would as expected as going to college in her family, but she always stood firm on going on her own terms. And thankfully so, for this very l...

This week’s Thought is a post-holiday catch up between the girls as they both unpack their same resolution - to own their spiritual power. This episode is even more “woo woo” than usual as the girls mainly speak about the dynamics between spirituality and mental health and their recent experiences speaking to an intuitive worker.  Also follow us (don’t let Gaby’s asana calendar live in vain) https...

Well if it ain’t the girls who started it all. This week, miss Maddi Bragg, the queen of all things food and feelings on the internet, gracefully took her thrown upon the TMV platform. The-three-best-friends-that-anyone-could-have all met each other in the lonely summer of 2020 and have blossomed into the healthiest and happiest friendships ever since. So naturally, this episode the girls/besties...

Three best friends sit down to talk all things sex. You’re welcome. This week’s thought features the pod’s resident sex fairy, Meadow’s long-time bff, Gaby’s new(ish) bff, and founder of the best underwear company in the world b. WR, Sara Shokouhi. From the brand’s birth-story and it’s sexual wellness roots to pity fucking, slut-shaming, why Gaby refuses to have mediocre sex and why Sara deserves...

This week is a tried-and-true stream of consciousness between the two girls as they unpack the complexities of having trauma as a part of their ~brand~  Thoughts run from: triggers as our responsibilities feelings of shame that come with growing and healing  redefining “vulnerability” when trauma is your brand  how siblings raised within the same household can have vastly different parents  breaki...

Friend, entrepreneur, model, and pilates instructor - Tasha Franken - joins Gaby and Meadow for Thought 07 where the three begin to scratch the surface on the mind-body connection.  Tasha’s thoughts move from her experience healing with an eating disorder, to her “scout story”, to how the phrase ‘do what feels good’ is extremely irritating when you can’t trust yourself yet or don’t understand how...