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- This week we have a very special guest, the matriarch of our family. Nicole is an incredible mom and more recently a very passionate pickleball player. She joins us to talk about her journey getting back into fitness after having kids, why it is never too late to start, why working out is an important form of self care and how learning to appreciate your body changes everything. Connect with us:...

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- In this episode, we explore the quiet wisdom our animals carry and what it might mean to actually learn from them. From the dog who greets every morning like it's the best day of his life, to the cat who has mastered the art of setting boundaries, our pets model behaviors we often struggle to practice ourselves. Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/onthetest.pod/ Writ...

As members of the Dead Dad Club, we know a thing or two about grief. How do you talk about a loved one who's died without it becoming a whole thing? And what's the right way to support a grieving friend? In this episode, we share our experiences, discuss the awkward moments no one prepares you for, and explore what actually helps when someone is grieving. Connect with us: Follow us on IG...

- Standing up for yourself sounds simple until you are actually in the moment and your voice is doing something weird and you are pretty sure you are about to cry. This episode we talk about what to do when it goes wrong, why sometimes the second conversation matters more than the first.

For this milestone episode, we're joined by our brother, who has completed long-distance swims, a marathon, and both half and full Ironman races. We talk about what inspired him to take on these endurance challenges, what training for an Ironman actually looks like, the mental and physical hurdles along the way, and the lessons he's learned from pushing his limits. Whether you're th...

Nobody teaches you how to study. They just hand you a textbook and wish you luck. This episode, we get into the habits that actually helped, the ones that did absolutely nothing, and whether any of us retained anything past the exam. Spoiler. Consider this the episode your teachers never gave you.

Seeing as we’re both at the 3- and 7-year marks in our relationships, we thought it was fitting to do an episode on this topic. One of us definitely experienced a shift right around the 3-year point. Is the “3-year glitch” (or is it “itch”?) a real thing, or just an overhyped fad? Listen in as we share our opinions, experiences, and unofficial tips. Let us know what your thoughts are on this topic...

We all know we're supposed to love ourselves. But what does that actually mean and is it possible without tipping into arrogance? This episode, we get honest about that pressure, what it actually looks like in real life, and whether self-love is a radical act or just a rebranded excuse to stop growing. We also end up in one of our favourite conversations yet about ... white guy confidence. Th...

Turning 18 doesn’t make you an adult—hosting your first dinner party does. In this chaotic episode, we attempt to play host… and quickly realise we have no idea what we’re doing. From forgetting to ask about dietary restrictions (oops) to uncovering all the little ways we’re wildly unprepared, it’s less of a how-to guide and more of a “learn from our mistakes” situation. If you’ve ever hosted—or a...

Starting school can feel like a lot, for kids and parents. In this episode, Ami and Lydia break down what actually helps when preparing a child for school, what parents should focus on, and what teachers are hoping kids come in with. It’s a practical, honest look at how everyone can make the transition smoother. Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/onthetest.pod/ Write us an...

Does a good partner need to give daily foot massages? Would that really be asking too much? In another life-altering episode we discuss what qualities an ideal partner has. Leave a comment with your suggestions.  Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/onthetest.pod/ Write us an email: onthetestpod@gmail.com Feel free to leave a comment and tell your friends about the podcast.

This week we set out to design our dream school. It starts off hopeful and quickly turns into a list of things we would change, fix, and question. Somewhere along the way, we may or may not go on a bit of a rant about the role of parents and what actually needs to happen for kids to thrive. It’s part vision, part frustration, and very real. Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.c...

In case you haven’t noticed, going slow isn’t our forté. However, it’s something we’re trying to learn. To do that, we dive into crucial “Would you rather” discussions. Along the way, we realize we might actually have what it takes to run forever—we just never gave it a try. It’s life-altering stuff we’re talking about here.  Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/onthetest.po...

This week, Ami and Lydia are preparing for the apocalypse. Or at least talking about it. Do you need a prep kit. What would actually be useful to know. And how prepared is prepared enough. We explore survival skills, everyday preparedness, and the fine line between being ready and overthinking everything. Expect some questionable survival strategies, honest thoughts, and the realization that we mi...

It's our twentieth podcast episode! We decided that we wanted to give you something extra special. As (former) teachers we've heard and experienced the craziest things. Can you guess who has been told to wear more makeup? Or which one of us was pranked by her whole class on a whim? Listen in to see if you got it right.  Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/support Connect...

This week, we’re talking about the basics of a balanced diet. It sometimes feels like there are a thousand rules about how to eat, and somehow most of them contradict each other. So what does balanced eating actually look like in real life? Ami and Lydia talk through simple ideas, what they personally aim for, and why gummy bears and ice cream are still part of the discussion. Become a patron: htt...

Marriage. People do it all the time. But should we?  In this episode, Ami and Lydia dive into the big question of whether marriage is actually something they want. They talk expectations, cultural pressure, the romantic version, the realistic version, and why the whole thing sometimes feels like a very big decision people make surprisingly casually. Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544...

Yes, we were homeschooled. No, we did not live in a prairie dress. Lydia was homeschooled until 6, Ami until 11, and in this episode we talk about the realities behind the stereotypes. The benefits, the struggles, and the moments that shaped us more than we realized at the time. Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/support Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/...

Most of us had to read some really boring books in school — especially educational ones. Sometimes that can take the fun out of reading altogether. Since we know how beneficial reading is, we share  a few tricks to make it more enjoyable. Thanks for listening! Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/support Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/onthetest.pod/ Writ...

This week we’re talking about laundry. Yes, laundry. Do you actually wash your sheets every week, and should you?  If you want to be just a little bit sexier, start with knowing how to properly do your laundry. Ami and Lydia unpack the basics, the mistakes, and the small habits that make a surprisingly big difference. Listen in for your weekly dose of nonsensical advice.  Become a patron: https://...

Ever wonder what a wine-marathon is? You're about to find out. Hear us debate whether or not we would part take in such a thing and hear how we prep for sports events. Thank you for listening! Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/support Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/onthetest.pod/ Write us an email: onthetestpod@gmail.com

House plants sound relaxing until they’re not. This week, Ami and Lydia talk about taking care of plants while asking the real questions. Are plants more important than relationships? Why is it illegal to bring seeds over the border? And how does one manage to kill a plant with water? Expect honesty, laughter, and even a little plant expertise. Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/s...

Have you ever wondered whether you're pursuing the right career? Welcome to the club! Ami ist currently changing careers and has some insight in the topic. Lydia finds almost job possibly exciting and is always on the look-out. Listen in for your weekly dose of nonsensical advice.  Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/support Connect with us: Follow us on IG: https://www.instag...

This week we are learning about periods and endometriosis. If you have a uterus or know someone who does this episode is for you. Ami and Lydia talk about their experiences and how we can support each other. They discuss methods that have helped them and remind us it's ok to advocate for ourselves.  Become a patron: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2544098/support Connect with us: Follow us on IG:...