This Queen Says

In this electric, unapologetic conversation, I sit down with Laitan Ajisafe (Lola), QCOG Class of 1990 - a woman who describes herself as an extroverted introvert, a doctor who calls medicine her “side hustle,” a mother of two who went to med school at 39, and someone who has spent her entire life aiming for 99.9% authenticity at all times. This conversation explores the cost of pretending to be s...

In this profoundly honest conversation, I sit down with a dear friend, Nike Adeoti, who, according to her, passed through Queen’s College quietly but emerged years later as a revolutionary in Cuba, leading student strikes, invading embassies, and learning that standing up for yourself isn’t just acceptable, it’s necessary. Now a doctor, wife, and mother, Nike shares the moment that changed everyth...

In this deeply reflective conversation, I sit down with Yoma Okwa, from the Class of 2006. After 13 years in the energy sector, Yoma is making a bold transition into education, turning a book club she started in 2017 into a children’s book company that designs libraries for schools across Nigeria and the UK. But this episode isn’t just about a career change. It’s about the moment Yoma realized she...

In this hugely enjoyable chat, I sit down with Ify Okafor, from the Class of '97. A a woman who wears many crowns: certified wholeness coach, digital parenting advocate, and as well as her 9-5, Ify reflects on her journey from being a people pleaser to reaching a point today where she unapologetically declares: "you don’t have to be everyone’s cup of tea." At the heart of Ify's message is the cour...

In this powerful conversation, I reconnect with Dr. Ife Morrison, my classmate and Class of ‘96. Now a cardiologist at the Vanderbilt Heart and Vascular Institute in Nashville, Ife reflects on her journey from being hyper-focused in medical school to reaching a point today where she proudly declares: “It’s time to flourish.” At the heart of Ife’s message is the courage to continue evolving, even w...

In this fun episode, I sit down with Hannatu Adegboyega, a QC ‘99 girl who builds and leads high-performing sales teams in tech. This conversation explores navigating power dynamics as a young Black woman in male-dominated industry, the unspoken office politics women don’t talk about enough, and why being present matters more than having the perfect plan. Hannatu’s message is clear: prepare yourse...

In this inspiring chat, I catch up with Ogo Nwokedi, my ‘W’ classmate. With nearly 20 years of experience as a lawyer in the shipping industry and as a published writer, she shares the liberating impact of her mother’s transformative advice: “You don’t have to be good at everything.” Words I think should be printed as posters. This conversation celebrates the courage to pivot, the freedom of not c...

In this inspiring conversation, I sit down with Kemi, a brand strategist, storyteller, and founder of Chrystallis Conversations. As a proud Queen's College girl standing on the cusp of 50, Kemi takes me through the defining moments of her life that have led her to where she is finally stepping into her "golden era." This conversation explores the beauty and challenges of change, growth, the pressu...

In this inspirational conversation, I sit down with Alo, who amongst many things was the one who pushed me to start this podcast. As an economist, business owner, and mother of three, Alo shares how she found her crown in life’s darkest crucible. She opens up about the moment she asked herself “Alo, where are you? I’m looking for you,” the loneliness of building a life in the UK while juggling eve...

In this deeply honest conversation, Enitan sits down with her cousin Tumi Aijbola. As a mother of three who stopped working for 10 years, Tumi reveals her biggest regret: being so focused on the future that she never fully enjoyed being present with her children. She discusses the need to carefully weighing up opportunities before making big decisions, the prophecy she didn't fully embrace, and wh...

In this raw and revelatory conversation, Enitan sits down with her long-time friend Elizabeth Archibong (Archie). After 15 years as a caretaker, Elizabeth shares her journey through self-abandonment, the moment she found her mother's body, and the radical clarity it brought about what truly matters. From rejecting the "boss lady" label to taking daily selfies until she saw softness return to her e...

In this heartfelt premiere of "This Queen Says," host Enitan Sawyerr invites listeners to reflect on their journeys—past, present, and future and what you can expect in future episodes: honest conversations with women about life—not careers or networking, but the deeper wisdom that comes from simply living. These are discussions about growth, self-discovery, forgiveness, and becoming kinder to our...