This Is Livin'

In this episode we are excited to talk about principles of time management and the "Time Management Matrix" from the book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. When thinking about your different roles throughout the week, what are some small changes you can make to show up better as that person? Parent, spouse, employee, business owner, sibling, member of a community... these are...

What does the Devil sound like? Could you identify his voice right now? How much do you let him chirp in year and how often do his comments explode into full blown frantic freight about life and your current situation? Maybe you are having a wonderful day and out of nowhere you began to have ill feelings about someone or something. There is only ONE place that these thoughts come from. Let's l...

Do you think you are the exception to giving your best effort and controlling your own outcomes? We love you but you are not the exception and neither are we (despite having spent time thinking we were haha). When it comes to our thoughts, we were taught early in our marriage to "pull the weeds and plant the seeds". We have further learned from different sources a model that has helped b...

We are thrilled to introduce our great friend Kolby Collard! Kolby has been a great friend and resource to us through good times and tough times. One of the great strengths Kolby has is compassion for others through their challenges. Kolby shares about his challenges with alcohol and drug addiction in his early life and provides a lot of encouragement to those who are in similar situations. Listen...

Where do you look for validation? Validation comes in two forms: ACCEPTANCE and APPROVAL. The formula for Connection (which we all seek and need) is VULNERABILITY + VALIDATION = CONNECTION Does "venting" to others help you feel better about the issue you are dealing with? Does is it help solve the issue you are venting about? What is the next step we can take, beyond venting, to actually...

In this episode we talk about some breakthroughs we have had in taking accountability and personal responsibility of our lives and how it has positively impacted those around us. Just like the title says, not everything that has happened to you is your fault, BUT the context we give those events and how we reframe them to serve us is what we want to focus on, Ask yourself, "Who am I being&quo...

In this episode we go into the separate life coaching that we are both a part of at the moment. Both coaches teach very similar principles and the root is having a happy, fulfilled and balanced life. We break down the different areas of our life and how to approach improving them. Everyone is different and will need more attention in different areas but the approach we are sharing with you can be...

In this episode we are pleased to introduce Jon Harris! Jon and his family have been amazing friends to our family. We are excited to share our discussion with Jon about personal experiences and discoveries of how to avoid challenging habits in the first place. Some of these discoveries have come from scripture, modern revelation and learning from personal experiences. This is another great episod...

Are we even supposed to judge others?... What does it mean to CONDEMN someone versus JUDGE someone? “All I know is that my life is better when I assume that people are doing their best. It keeps me out of judgment and lets me focus on what is, and not what should or could be.” -Brené Brown Hear our insight on what we think are good guidelines on judging others "righteously".

In our opinion..."Weaknesses are strengths that are out of balance" "If we really care about growth, development and improvement, we will seek correction and work on weaknesses." "If someone has an extreme strength, others can seem to be weak in that area, through that person's lens." Hear us discuss our weaknesses and how we reframe them into a new way of thinkin...

In this episode, we reflect on some of the great wins we have had by being open and willing to share some of our struggles. There is strength in turning to face our challenges and sharing them is one of the quickest ways to put them to rest. Remember, as you are looking forward, setting goals and raising your own standard that attaching a "WHY" to what you are doing will anchor you when...

In this episode we are so happy and excited to introduce to you our great friend, Ashlee Turley. Ashlee bravely shares some of her journey with pornography use and accompanying depression. We learn amazing insight from the road that Ashlee has already traveled and are so happy to have her share that with the listeners. This is our first guest episode and the beginning of our "Our Sister/Our Brothe...

Lets level up from last weeks episode! When you are faced with the difficult decision of breaking a personal promise, are you "SUBORDINATING" it to a higher cause? What are these higher causes? What is the right balance of taking care of the goose in order to produce golden eggs? Join us as we discuss our individual journeys of building relationships with ourselves and how making and keeping commi...

In this episode we give our take on goal setting and resolutions during this New Year's season. What is the purpose of goals? How do you scale up and improve habits? Dylan has a systematic approach to forming new habits that is ahead of its time. HAPPY NEW YEARS!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!! This short and sweet episode takes a shallow dive into some of the reasons we, as Christians, may struggle with pornography more than other vices, addictions and habits. Struggling is a necessary part of the journey and you shouldn't feel alone or isolated because of the way that you struggle.

If you could choose between a problem-free life or a life that involved overcoming adversity, which would you choose? Maybe you have already picked the second plan! In this episode we discuss both of the plans through parable and the beautiful blessings that can be found in the "PERFECTLY IMPERFECT PLAN"

What we have learned from serving and being served by others is that you can feel God's love in these moments of opportunity. These moments don't have to be massive or life changing but we do have to look for them. We do need to engage in asking, seeking and acting on these opportunities to love and help others when God gives them to us. On the flip side, we need to be gracious recipients of servi...

Everyone knows the great feeling of serving someone else but it can be hard to allow others to serve us. We are doing a giveaway. We will be selecting one person to split the cost of Sara Brewer‘s “Overcome Pornography for Good” training. This is the same program we used and want to share it during this season of giving. DM us on instagram: @dylanandhayden Sara’s podcast: https://podcasts.apple.co...

"I am worth changing" "I'm worth putting time into to change, to improve, to grow, to expand, to live a higher law, to enjoy a better life" "I am worthy of a beautiful life" "I am worthy of exercising repentance and I'm qualified to use The Atonement of Jesus Christ"

In this episode we discuss how "Rock Bottom" is different for everyone and what some of the characteristics are. You can go to "Rock Bottom" several times in your life. What did Dylan's "Rock Bottom" look like as it relates to pornography? If you are at "Rock Bottom" right now, just hang on! Reach out to someone you love and trust! If you don't feel like you have someone who fits that criteria in...

We have felt inspired to go back to discussing our battle with pornography. We are happy to share parts of our journey if there is just one person who can benefit from it. In this episode we will give you some new perspective on struggling with addiction as well as some actual tools to utilize while in the middle of a tough mental and emotional battle with whatever struggle you are enduring, Here...

This episode may be difficult for some people to hear. Especially those who are right in the thick of their own miscarriage. In this episode we discuss our miscarriages, the hurt that followed and the good that has eventually come from those experiences. We do know there is good that can come from some of the most difficult challenges in life. We share these experiences in hopes of helping someone...

Can you build a new version of yourself? Can you change who you are NOW by addressing a younger version of yourself? We think it's possible! Listen along this week as Hayden shares some examples of changing himself through TIME TRAVEL! You will learn a few exercises and techniques to use on your personal journey of self-improvement.

In this episode we discuss waiting for the perfect moment that may never come, how waiting has paid off, being burned by jumping on the first opportunity and how jumping quickly has also been a benefit. What is the right ANSWER? Listen and laugh along as we use our experiences to dissect the question of whether patience or impatience is a virtue! Thank you to Wade and Bailee Andes for sponsoring u...

When it cones to your family, will you do anything to ensure their success? By the way, this mindset extends to the work place, community, church and other teams that we find ourselves with. Do we need to listen better? Take more time for ourselves? Admit we are wrong? Let's talk about it!