This Is H.E.R.

Is Black love really dying? Or are we part of the problem? In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. Podcast , we're having an honest conversation about Black love, interracial relationships, and why some Black men and women believe dating outside their race is easier. I've heard conversations where Black women are described as too independent, argumentative, aggressive, or difficult to love. But...

SEASON 2 IS HERE. 🎙️ We’re starting with one question:  Have You Lived? Not just existed. Not just followed the routine. But really stepped outside of what’s comfortable and experienced life beyond what you already know. Season 2, Episode 1 — “Have You Lived?” Streaming tomorrow on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts. #ThisIsHERPodcast #HaveYouLived #PodcastSeason2 #NewEpisode #PodcastForWomen #...

Sometimes becoming who God is calling you to be means letting go of who you used to be. In the Season 1 finale of This Is H.E.R., we’re talking about disconnecting from old habits, old mindsets, old environments, and old versions of ourselves to make room for what God is doing next. I’m sharing the things I had to quit doing to hear God more clearly, trust His direction, and step into the woman He...

Have you ever looked at your life and asked God,  “What are You doing?” I have. There was a season where it felt like everything around me was falling apart. I was losing things I had worked for, questioning God, questioning myself, and wondering why I had to go through any of it. Then I found myself reading the story of  Job , and something shifted. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , I’m sharin...

We saw the post… but did we really see their life? In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , we’re talking about the assumptions we make from social media, how easily those assumptions turn into conversations, and why we’ve become so comfortable discussing people who aren’t even in the room. But there’s another side to it:  we can’t control what people choose to think about us either. So let people. Le...

Growth gets uncomfortable when you start recognizing that some of the things you thought were “normal” were actually patterns passed down from generation to generation. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , Chanié Marie talks about family, accountability, emotional maturity, boundaries, and what it really means to break a generational cycle. Doing things differently doesn’t mean you don’t love or a...

Back in the Day... When I Was Young  ❤️ Do you ever miss the old days? The days of riding bikes until the streetlights came on, knocking on your friend's door instead of sending a text, playing outside until your mom called your name, and making memories without realizing they would last a lifetime. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , I take a trip down memory lane and reflect on growing up i...

Does pretty privilege really exist, or is there more to the conversation? In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , we unpack the idea of pretty privilege and explore whether opportunities should be based on appearance or something deeper. We talk about beauty standards, confidence, character, and why true beauty goes far beyond what the world sees. This isn't about judging who's "pretty" and who isn't...

We spend so much time praying for growth, success, and new opportunities, but no one really talks about what comes with them. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , we're having an honest conversation about the lessons life teaches you that nobody prepares you for. From success feeling lonely, to your circle getting smaller, to protecting your vision and learning that not everyone will understand yo...

Friendships break hearts too—but we don't talk about it enough. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , we're having an honest conversation about friendship breakups, betrayal, outgrowing people, and choosing peace over familiarity. Sometimes the deepest wounds come from people you never expected to lose. If you've ever had to walk away from a friendship, struggled with disappointment, or realized th...

Would you ever give your baby's mother or baby's father another chance? It's a question that brings out strong opinions, but maybe we're asking the wrong question. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , we're not talking about whether you  should  go back—we're talking about  why . Before making a decision like that, it's important to ask yourself:  What's the intenti...

The older I get, the more I realize that protecting my peace isn't about becoming cold—it's about becoming intentional. In this episode of  This Is H.E.R. , I'm sharing what life has been teaching me in my 30s about choosing where my energy goes, accepting people for who they are, and leading with love without losing myself in the process. We live in a world that encourages us to act u...

What does it really cost to show up for the life you say you want? In this episode of This Is H.E.R., we're having an honest conversation about discipline, consistency, sacrifice, and the reality behind the grind. While people often celebrate the results, they rarely talk about the hard days—the days when you're tired, discouraged, overwhelmed, and still expected to keep moving forward. I...

Welcome to the very first episode of  This Is H.E.R.  with Chanié Marie. In this episode, I share the heart behind this podcast, why I created this space, and what you can expect from future conversations. This Is H.E.R. is for women navigating faith, growth, relationships, motherhood, entrepreneurship, and the journey of becoming the woman God created them to be. Whether you're in a season of reb...