This Cant Be Lyfe Podcast

This season of Insecure had KayTheRebel in deep thought about a few things. Can you have a business relationship with someone who is currently dating your ex? Watching the downward spiral of Issa & Molly's friendship made KayTheRebel reflect on one of her own friendships. What is the proper way to handle distance in a friendship? The episode ended with her point of view on processing pain or strug...

This week KayTheRebel dives right into the fact that she feels it is perfectly okay to dislike people even when you don't know them "like that". She discussed how important vibes and energy are and that in those moments when you don't dig someone, their accomplishments/accolades are irrelevant. Bad first impressions & character flaws should not be dismissed as they are often a reflection of who so...

This week KayTheRebel links up with @KingJeano @KingRube to gain some additional insight on last week's episode. KayTheRebel grilled the gentlemen about their indecisiveness when it comes to dating/relationships and love in general. Although it was very difficult to understand perspectives that were different from hers, she was able to take away a hard lesson: men don't approach relationships or l...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel discusses choices in love. Do we take a greater risk with love or our careers or both? While reflecting on Issa Rae's character in the recent film "The Photograph", she had so many questions surrounding why it seems black women have to walk the EXTRA mile too often when it comes to love.

On this episode, KayTheRebel speaks on what it truly means when a black woman says in a relationship "I'm not your mother". After coming across a post on social media stating that men had "shoes" to fill as they're expected to treat their women as her father did, she refuted that argument rather quickly. She also felt that a lot of times black women end up playing a mother role while in a relation...

This week KayTheRebel decided to chime in with her thoughts on all of the interesting hot topics. She revisited D-Wade and his openness about accepting Zaya, but this time defended those with an opposing opinion. Heterosexual folks don't have to walk on eggshells when they speak on LGBTQ issues. Being an introvert herself, KayTheRebel wished that extroverts would let her and others remain antisoci...

The question: What are you most proud of in your life presently? KayTheRebel's answer "finding myself". On this week's episode, she discussed her long journey to finding herself and that now that her journey is completed, she has come to the realization that there are so many people who don't really know who they are. Some are struggling with the process, while others haven't even gotten started....

This week KayTheRebel interviews her 3rd local rap artist "Keezay Fooliano". They kicked things off discussing hot topics such as Future dating Lori Harvey as well as the #girldad movement which Keezay stated he was a part of. Throughout the interview, Keezay voiced how important it is to live life to the fullest. He stays far away from negativity and instead has good times with the strong team of...

Are you a lover or a fighter? This week KayTheRebel confesses how she has been a fighter for most her life and how in recent years she transitioned to being a lover. She didn't realize all of the benefits of being a lover as she truly thought that being a fighter was some sort of badge of honor. She encourages listeners to choose love every time if you can. For this week's "A word with Kay", she g...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel stressed that you cannot change who your partner is or who they may even become. In her opinion, sometimes it's unfair to even request or push for a change especially when that person is being themselves. She then applied that same perspective to relationships with friends and family. This week's "words with Kay" involved conflict resolution.

After hearing D. Wade's interview on "All The Smoke" podcast, KayTheRebel wanted to approach the mic with similar challenges she has faced while raising her daughter. She struggled with the question of if we (as parents) truly love our kids unconditionally. Although it was tough to admit on air, she stood in her truth that she probably would not be able to embrace her son if he chose to become a w...

This week KayTheRebel discussed the "epidemic" of substance abuse in young hip hop artists after the passing of Juice Wrld. She took a trip down memory lane and pointed out how lean, pills and other drugs have always been a part of hip hop. Should we hold older rappers accountable for failing the younger artists by glorifying drug abuse in their lyrics? Should their be an example set? During the m...

I guess you can all this a freestyle. This week KayTheRebel rolls solo and breaks down her thoughts on the movie Harriet as well as the mid-season finale of Power. She then went on to discuss "girl codes" and which ones she agrees with. The episode with her ended stating that majority of relationships fail in present society because a lot of people are quick to throw in the towel and not willing t...

This week the ladies invite a second rap artist from Massachusetts who the people know as "Jeneral Mass". In April of this year, he released Out The Gate Pt. 2 which exhibits how he transitioned from being released from prison and pushing himself to the fullest limit through his conscious lyrics. Although Jeneral does not consider himself "woke", he shared keys of wisdom he developed while incarce...

This week the ladies invite Jay Gatz, one of Boston's talented rap artists, to come and chop it up. Gatz discussed the depth behind his music lyrics and how his family was the base of his musical inspiration. He released his new project "Good Food" earlier in the week and Kay The Rebel explored his growth as an artist since his previous project titled "The Real Jay Gatz". Legend Eva was intrigued...

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Episode 48- The Life Of A Millennial by ThisCantBeLyfe Podcast

The ladies keep the Male Species segment rolling as they interview their 6th male guest King Rube, 1/2 of Pretty Authentic Conversation. They discussed platonic relationships, lessons they've learned from failed relationships and how communication can be the ultimate struggle within a relationship. King Rube also shared his experience with being approached by a woman and later in the episode gave...

On this week's episode, the ladies bring on a 5th gentlemen as they continue to roll out the male species segment. Metri and two of his male friends joined the roundtable discussion with uncut/raw perspectives on relationships, dating and cheating.

On this episode, KayTheRebel takes the listeners through her journey on self-reflection. She talks about her firsthand experience with going to therapy for the first time and what she is gaining from the sessions. This is the ladies first mini episode.

The ladies have been working on a special segment which they will eventually turn into a series called "The Male Species" where they explore love/relationships from a man's perspective. What better way to begin the segment with "Darnell" from the Talking Greasy podcast? This gentlemen stood by his truth and spoke about his struggles with love & heartbreak. He answered questions about relationships...

KayTheRebel & Legend Eva took a mini trip to NYC. They attended the live show of Passport Cutty & Tahoe from the So Shameless Podcast. The ladies randomly recorded an episode that same night while under the influence; giving feedback on the live show and what their thoughts were on some of the topics discussed in regards to relationships. Should a woman's partner be responsible for paying for her...