This Cant Be Lyfe Podcast

This week's episode was impromptu and also unconventional. KayTheRebel was interviewed by her bestie who asked her questions regarding sex. She answered them truthfully while feeling a huge level of embarrassment and discomfort. Should you be considered "childish" for your lack of bedroom experience or reluctance to try new things? KayTheRebel feels that women often switch up their sex game based...

This week KayTheRebel brings back her fav guest, Witty Empress aka Natasha who has made it her personal business to be featured on all of the deep/raw episodes. The ladies discussed a poetry clip found on Instagram that had a powerful message regarding mistakes women make while dating. "I'm teaching my affection to not overstay her welcome". Both ladies admitted to falling victim to this mistake a...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel chops it up with one of Boston's most underrrated artist, Jay Gatz. She gave a live review of his recent album "Fire Flies" which includes the powerful single "Black Matter" and the catchy, soulful track titled "Revolve Around You". KayTheRebel analyzed each track on the album and praised Gatz throughout the interview. in return, Gatz was super vulnerable as he...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel sits down with the owners of Villeside Customs as they embark on their journey of a podcast tour in efforts to market their black owned business. Marckendy & Jabir shared their experience of being black business owners, how they survived the pandemic as well as their strategies for branding and expanding their business. They also gave the listeners advice on the...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel not only reviews Sam Levison's new film on Netflix titled "Malcolm & Marie", but she also focused on how much of herself she sees in the character Malcolm. While watching the entire film which was not just a "2 hour argument", she took the opportunity to reflect on her experience with being in a toxic relationship and how exhausting it truly is. She ended the ep...

This week don't be alarmed when KayTheRebel starts off the episode with a famous clip from HBO's unforgettable show "The Wire" using this as reference to discuss reputation vs character. She purged about the recent TI & Tiny allegations, Mrs. Gorilla Glue, the power of a "sneaky link", emotions, unsolicited opinions and a confession where she admitted that she is not always comfortable within her...

This week KayTheRebel took one of her favorite tracks by Brandy, "Scared of Beautiful" and analyzed the lyrics closely. She realized that the lyrics were an actual reflection of some of the thoughts that she has regarding her life and how she is currently in the process of trying to shift her mindset. Focusing on the lows in life often times distracts us from the highs. Change your thinking if you...

Everyone's talking about Lori Harvey right? Well this week KayTheRebel couldn't resist and wanted to chime in on the discussion. She talked about Lori Harvey's dating history leading up to her recent romance w/ Michael B. Jordan and how she feels we can learn a thing or two. Should more women approach dating the way Lori Harvey does? Absolutely!!

This week KayTheRebel felt she needed to record a refresher of an old episode titled "Karma". Back then she felt that she didn't take heed to the laws of karma that she discussed. She took the opportunity to redefine karma, what it means to her and how she feels it has visited her recently. There was discussion of the universe and how sometimes we miss signals that warn us that karma is approachin...

With her first episode of the year, KayTheRebel approaches the mic unapologetically as she discusses the topic of mothers and their broken sons. She discussed her experience first hand with being linked to a broken son, what she has learned and how she vows she will never be the mother of a broken son. The transparency in this episode is limitless!!!

On this week's episode KayTheRebel discusses dating. She decided to switch it up & focus on green flags one can focus on as opposed to the negative (red flags). Her soul sistah Natasha joined her and they each listed the 7 green flags they admire in a man. Later on in the episode KayTheRebel voiced how she is open to dating however she is emotionally unavailable and feels more people should be und...

Do you or have you ever questioned if you're enough? If so, this episode is for you. This week KayTheRebel brings back her special guest Natasha and they peel back layers and discuss what "being enough" means for both of them. They also discussed Bishop TD Jake's theory on 10-gallon folks vs pint folks. 10-Gallon Folks most often consider themselves as being enough and have so much to give, while...

This week KayTheRebel discusses heartbreaks and trauma and if the healing process is ever truly guaranteed. She compared past pain/anguish to current pain & trauma. Years ago she dealt with trauma completely different from how she does today. She gave some tips to anyone currently experiencing heartbreak and/or trauma. As always she promoted her belief that she will always be a survivor and never...

An episode filled with truth, controversy & a week's worth of clownery.

This week it was only right to come thru with a purge episode. KayTheRebel vented about Tory Lanez vs Megan, Cardi B's marriage, monogamy as well as "sex being a chore" which sparked much controversy surrounding Devale & Khadeen Ellis. Who was Amber Rose talking about? Who asked for another T.I album? Her rant came to end voicing her grievances with people who think karma is unavoidable and ugly p...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel is joined by a special guest "Natasha", who approached the mic and gave her insight on crystals, plants and the importance of spiritual self-care. They then went on to discuss the difference between vibes and energy. So many gems and definitely a moment of self-reflection for KayTheRebel.

After a 3 week break, KayTheRebel returns with more opinions and perspectives. She discussed the reactions to Niecey Nash tieing the knot with a woman and how she was not here for Monica during the verzuz battle w/ Brandy. Next on the agenda was misconceptions of self-care, how some people need to step their game up and learn how to communicate more effectively and that black women should be more...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel gives her new segment a second round. Why are people praying for Kanye again? Has Megan been hit with a harsh reality that this industry don't love you back? Vado vs Tahiry- Domestic violence: a thin line between toxic/dangerous relationships & true victims. Black is King (praises & criticism), forgiving your friends and coping with anxiety.

Two years ago, KayTheRebel remembers not being a fan of people gaining closure in many situations. This week, she returned to this topic with a change of heart. She gained a new perspective on closure and felt that it is most beneficial if the person/people are those that have value. Repairing & rebuilding were the tools she felt are needed to effectively gain closure and went down a list of relat...

On this week's episode, KayTheRebel has an in depth discussion regarding "hurt people, hurt people". She peeled back all of the layers surrounding that statement and focused on the origin of brokenness. In a huge moment of vulnerability, she shared how she has been broken a few times and how she always pushed through!!! How many people are actually willing to admit that they're shattered? What are...

This week KayTheRebel introduces a new segment where she literally purges all of her thoughts & feelings about any & all things. August & Jada were first on the list. Next, she gave some simple yet effective relationship advice & then spoke her piece about overconsumption of social media, body acceptance and the unfortunate idea of Kanye running for president.

After a brief hiatus, KayTheRebel returns after both regrouping and rethinking about all of the recent events following the tragic death of George Floyd. She discussed a timeline of events and her thoughts on all that she has witnessed. Later, she ended the episode voicing how racism and police brutality has impacted her personally and trying to process all of the different thoughts and emotions s...

This week KayTheRebel talked about issues surrounding single women or women who have failed relationships. Why do we tear the next sista down for shortcomings in her love life? Why is that some single women can often be judgmental and/or envious of women who are in relationships? She also discussed that there are some women out there who are perfectly aligned with the statement "that's why you're...

Are you comfortable with your flaws or are you constantly working on them? KayTheRebel did some self-reflection this week and listed all 4 of her flaws and how she is 100% comfortable with all of them and only works on one which was anger. She also voiced her belief that some of our flaws provide us with depth; making us more interesting or appealing at times. Sometimes you have to spend more time...

Although 5 years late, KayTheRebel wanted to voice her thoughts on Bill Duke's documentary "Light Girls". The episode began with her sharing an anecdote regarding a time she witnessed colorism without realizing it as a freshman in high school. She felt the question "What are you" sometimes makes things go south and that it leads to unintended tones/remarks especially when someone is mixed/biracial...