This Beautiful Struggle : Adoption, Family, Life, and Relationships

Welcome back to another episode of 'This Beautiful Struggle'! We’re wrapping up Season 1, and we’re thrilled to have our lovely co-hosts, our daughters, with us for this final episode. we reflect on our wonderful journey with our daughters joining in for some light and fun moments. We discuss favorite snacks, summer highlights, and future aspirations. Emotions run high as we share what we...

Welcome back to another episode of 'This Beautiful Struggle'! In this episode, we dive into the popular phrase 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' We analyze its meaning, origins, and implications for both partners in a marriage. The discussion explores whether the saying unfairly prioritizes the wife's happiness over the husband's and introduces alternative slogans like 'Happy S...

Welcome back to another episode of 'This Beautiful Struggle'! In this episode, we're diving deep into the crucial topic of boundaries. We share our perspectives on living with strict boundaries in every relationship, emphasizing the importance of protecting one's peace. We discuss the mutual aspect of boundaries and the necessity of clear communication. The episode highlights the d...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we take you along on our recent trip to Oahu, Hawaii. We dive into our experience with the island's humidity in July, sharing both the highs and lows of staying in Waikiki. From must-visit spots like Diamond Head and Pearl Harbor to local favorites like Leonard's Bakery and Matsumoto's Shave Ice, we cover all the essenti...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we're freshly returned from a humid and hot Hawaii trip. In this episode, we share our experiences and reflections from our vacation, touching on the joys and challenges of traveling without our kids. We then dive into a dynamic discussion about family structures, exploring how birth order and gender affect how children are trea...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we dive into your questions! From fun topics like family theme songs and our silliest arguments to deeper conversations about feeling like giving up and what kept us going, we cover it all. We share insights on our kids' adoption stories and how we communicate them, laugh over the funniest parenting moments we've experienced...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we discuss the changing nature of family gatherings, cookouts, and social events. They explore whether family traditions have faded with newer generations and the impact of losing elder family members who often acted as the glue holding everyone together. They reflect on their own family experiences, emphasize the significance of co...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we discuss the topic of living together before marriage, commonly referred to as 'shacking up.' We share our personal experiences and perspectives influenced by our upbringing, beliefs, and relationship dynamics. We also touch on financial and practical considerations, stressing the necessity of clear communication and mutua...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we dive into a thought-provoking discussion about whether men and women can be just friends, especially when they're in relationships with other people. We, Erin and Casey, share our personal perspectives and delve into scenarios involving single and married individuals. We discuss the nuances of attraction, the importance of bo...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today dive into the world of friendships as we hit our forties. We'll chat about how priorities shift as we age, the importance of personal peace, and why we stop caring so much about what others think. We'll also explore what true friendship means to us now, the challenges of making new friends in a new city, and how we deal with...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we chat about the current economic struggles that are hitting everyone hard, including us in Las Vegas. We dive into how tourism is down, the craziness of resort fees, and just how expensive living has become. We share our own stories about side hustles like DoorDash and Instacart, and why having multiple streams of income is crucia...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we play a fun game with the help of Rubi. We dive into questions about who’s more likely to remember anniversaries, apologize first after an argument, plan surprise dates, and much more. We also talk about our personal habits like who wakes up earlier, who’s messier, and who’s more creative. Plus, we share some stories about our gamblin...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! In this episode, we catch up on our crazy summer so far. We chat about the struggle of homeschooling, especially with our oldest at home, and our decision to keep Savannah busy with schoolwork over the summer — though all they seem to do is fight! We recap our fun yet challenging trips to St. George and Zion National Park, and I (Erin) sh...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today we address our viewers' questions about our political stance, revealing that we're independent and middle-ground on various issues. We emphasize the importance of understanding multiple perspectives while avoiding rigid political affiliations. We then shift our conversation to gender roles and the double standards we encount...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today I sit down with my amazing 13-year-old daughter, Kaelynn, for a heartfelt and fun-filled conversation. We talk about her hobbies, talents, and school life, where she shares her love for drawing and her recent achievement in math. We also chat about our life in Las Vegas, the joys and challenges of being an older sister to Savannah,...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Today it's a KC and Savannah take over! In this episode KC asks Savannah a bunch of questions from school, to family, to future plans. Tune in to meet our youngest! Let's Connect:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.instagram.com/thisbeautifulstrugglepod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.thisbeautifulstruggle.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Produced by Podcast & Co.

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle! Kaelynn and Savannah are taking over the show and we are their guests. Last episode, the girls tried to guess our slang today we try to guess theirs. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they explain the meanings and usage of popular terms like 'cap,' 'slay,' 'cooked,' and 'Riz.' They educate us about...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle!' In this episode the girls have a blast diving into the world of generational slang. It's always amusing to see our kids use new terminology and slang, thinking they’ve invented it, while we try to keep up. We play a fun game where we say different slang terms and see if the kids can figure them out. From deciphering phrases like...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle!' In this episode the tables have flipped and we dive into a fun Q&A session about our girls. We answer questions like who’s the loudest, the early bird, the biggest goofball, and more. You’ll get to hear some hilarious anecdotes and learn about our daughters' personalities. We also share some of our favorite family pranks and...

Welcome back to another episode of 'Beautiful Struggle!' This time, we are joined by our daughters Kaelynn and Savannah for a super fun game of 'Which Parent Is...?' As we dive into these playful debates, you'll get a glimpse into our family dynamics, filled with lots of laughter and a few surprises. We even touch on who’s the most fun on vacations, who’s stricter, and who burn...

Welcome back to 'This Beautiful Struggle'. In this solo episode, I dig deep into my life's journey, offering a candid look at my experiences and struggles. I open up about being a middle child from Oakland, California, and the challenges it brought me in my family dynamics. I also share my ongoing battles with confidence and imposter syndrome, influenced by my diagnosis of ADHD at 19....

Welcome back to 'This Beautiful Struggle'. Today, I take you through my personal journey of becoming and serving as a police officer in Oakland, California. I share how my childhood experiences led me into the Police Explorer program, joining the military, and eventually donning the police badge. I open up about the adrenaline highs, the tragic lows like the 2009 incident where we lost four office...

Welcome back to This Beautiful Struggle. Today we're diving into our busy, exciting lives here in Las Vegas. From sweltering summer heat to surprising winter cold, we share how we handle the Vegas weather. We also talk about the local traffic quirks and the scarcity of rain. Casey's retired life lets him spend more time with our kids, especially with their softball activities. Speaking of...

Welcome back to This Beautiful Struggle. In today’s episode, we dive into the importance of mental health, especially in the law enforcement field. We share our experiences with trauma, the impact on our personal lives, and the stigma that often prevents people from seeking help. We're talking about everything from PTSD to the daily stressors both officers and dispatchers face. We highlight th...

Welcome back to This Beautiful Struggle. Today, Erin and K.C. dive into the fun and challenges of their unique emergency response roles. Erin shares her perspective as a 911 dispatcher, while K.C. provides insights from his experiences on the street as a police officer. Discover the dynamics of working together, their most intense and memorable moments, and the lighter side of the job. From high-s...