This Authentic Life

In an era before social media, the danger of oversharing was just as potent. It's a risk young people take when they're isolated, a risk I took nearly forty years ago. In the painful, confusing vacuum of the 1980s, I had no one: no confidante, no guide to help me understand what was wrong with me. Through this episode of This Authentic Life , you'll see a predatory pattern emerge. The man I met th...

For such a long time, I prefaced many of my blog posts with "trigger warnings." Once I read, "learning is painful. It’s often ugly and traumatic." I believe this to be true and cannot deny that it makes sense to me. Please refrain from listening in the presence of young children. What you are about to hear is not a sanitized story. To truly understand what happened to me, I must share the parts th...

The Burden of a Mask I have long carried a crushing burden of pain, a weight that trapped me in silence. My life has been a struggle behind a mask, a facade to navigate a world that never knew me. This disconnect has been a lonely battle of unbearable hardship. Now, as my physical health declines, I am in a new fight. In battling for my body, I will win the war for my soul by finally speaking the...