They Talk Sex

Our last episode of this season and O what fun - let’s talk cuckolding!  Join Mistress Elle for a chat with her favorite cuckold and hear how he discovered his kinky lifestyle, how he interacts most ethically with the women he worships, and please enjoy some of our funny stories, too. 3:00 how he finds women to worship 5:00 a catholic priest client - Lady Vi 8:00 legal and artistic aid for a...

We catch up with our fave herpes educator Courtney Brame for some updates and additional facts about a common virus that many of us live with, and Elle had new experience with. Let’s talk herpes again! 1:00 he gets more topless-views 3:00 a big herpes survey 7:00 clinically massive outbreak 11:00 sex workers + herpes  14:00 consented to not using barriers 17:00 sexual infidelity is a possibil...

A traumatic attack caused our guest to reframe how she was living her one life. She’s now chosen to work as an erotica writer, a legal courtesan in a nevada brothel, and she’s here to talk about making positive connections between mind-body healing and sex work. 2:00 gang bang playwriting 4:00 a traumatic event showed a bird’s eye view of life 7:00 surviving the home invasion assault 10:00 find he...

She’s been a top lesbian content creator on Youtube for a decade, now learn what’s next for Bria Kam after years of growing with her audience, and being part of the first successful UK revenge porn lawsuit. We talk love, strapons, and web work! 1:00 how we met 4:00 on making our own porn 7:00 on being “Mommy”  10:00 how did you start filming? 14:00 they won the first ever UK revenge porn laws...

Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer who saw the gaps in healthcare and the biases against trans people by their providers, and works to share info and insight about better clinical approaches to trans sexuality. 2:00 a clarifying anger 6:00 I want clients/people to feel lovable 9:00 ps...

Let’s explore Oregon and and particularly Old Town Portland, which has its roots in racism, beer, gambling and sex work, and predatory policing. This city truly was built by alcoholics and hustlers: Let’s talk ghosts of old-timey Oregon with Weird History Podcast Host and author, Joe Streckert. 3:00 why weird history is important  8:00 tour guide in Portland 11:00 a brief history of Vanport,...

Bella Cummins has owned her Nevada brothel for thirty-seven years and talks about venue management, what the regulations are like, and how to create a safer and more fun environment for everyone. 1:00 beginning the day at the brothel  3:00 administrative and staff training 5:00 only cis women working here at this time  7:00 decrim vs legalization discussion 10:00 clarification on decrimi...

Do you have sex questions? She’s a Black sex educator who advocates for HIV prevention, sex toy exploration and straightforward communication: Ashley Cobb from Atlanta, Georgia offers straightforward and candid input on common questions about anal sex, penis size, and more. 1:00 began teaching sex ed in 2015 5:00 she thinks redheads are cute 9:00 38 vs early 20’s 11:00 pRep for Black women 14:00 r...

She’s a self-taught therapeutic dominatrix and touch provider, who specializes in helping people play and explore boundaries and kinks. Meet Lara the Divine Theratrix and learn about what it’s like to explore feeling big, small, and primal. 3:00 therapeutic approaches to hands-on work 6:00 autism and body language learning 9:00 Dr Stewart Brown - on play and communication 14:00 protection from obs...

Let’s talk about male bisexuality, biphobia, role-modeling mental health and have a raunchy, fun time with Zachary Zane. He’s an advice writer and the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. 1:00 a book about bisexuality and shame 3:00 having OCD as a child and now 6:00 mental health and spirituality 10:00 bisexuality and stigma 13:00 not enjoying sex due to stress 16:00 a darn good therapist s...

What are your personal ethics around sex work and matrimony? Why do some people share their interactions with spouses and other people hide them? How to support your partner in sex work? Is it cheating to pay for services? Let’s discuss this with a happily married sex worker, Jessie Sage. 1:00 a spicy viral twitter post 4:00 cancer, and caregiver roles 7:00 what work she’s done in sex 10:00 feedba...

Who else has ADHD? Our guest noticed a lack of sexuality-related info for people with attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder. For two decades he has served people who need help with dating, sex, self-care and relating. Let’s learn and laugh with therapist and author Ari Tuckman. 3:00 he wrote the books because there was a lack of help for ADHD-ers 5:00 a lot of mental health and medical pros hav...

Why do some people pay others to teach them how to be sexual and intimate? Surrogate partners work with clients to learn their bodies and how to have consensual, boundaried, erotic contact with others. Brandon of AmpersandIntimacy expands on our previous episode about surrogate partner therapy, and the benefits and barriers to these treatments. 3:00 gaming and play, kink and sex 6:00 previously he...

Let’s talk with Leilah of A Stripper’s Guide about privacy issues and safety, queerness at the stripclub, and listen as she gives tips on setting boundaries and maintaining a healthier relationship with partners and self. 3:00 she works night shifts for a few reasons 7:00 curious but condescending  10:00 plz don’t ask her about her sex life 12:00 “gold star lesbian” discussion 15:00 on the as...

How does spirituality and sexuality relate? It depends on who you are and what you believe. For this episode we talk sex and spells with guest Serena the Blessed who is a Black, Indigenous, Jewish trans-femme tarot reader and magic-maker in Portland, Oregon. 3:00 how magic works 6:00 OYE ancestors and priesthood family 10:00 “Black” magic and Hoodoo and Voodoo, Santeria 13:00 Yoruba origins of “qu...

Let’s talk about aging and sexuality with an elder provider and playwright. Charla Hathaway became “a whore at fifty-four”, and she shares some things she’s learned. 3:00 starting her life over at fifty-four 6:00 anal play table-turning 9:00 Joseph Kramer on body healing 11:00 on the term “prostitute” 16:00 expert level hustling mastery 20:00 how to lead an erotic session 25:00 backlash 29:00 body...

How does social standing relate to sexuality and dating? Have you ever been ostracized for reasons unclear, or been targeted in a smear campaign? Licensed counselor Halle Thomas joins me to discuss the complex issues and impacts of cancel-bullying. 2:00 former Catholic, queer and Creole 4:00 writing about shame  6:00 grief, racial and sexual identity and relational problems 9:00 originated in...

She came, she saw, she conquered pornmaking and media: meet Joanna Angel and learn what her work and married life is like as a longtime porn icon of our generation. We have jokes and marketing advice! 1:00 on feature-dancing and stripclub work 4:00 she works in marketing 8:00 started stripping to pay for her porn site  11:00 a golden era of stripping 14:00 the hottest people don’t make the mo...

What’s it like for Stoney Faye to be an autistic stripper and parent? Let’s talk about the intersections of disability and sex work, and swap some ridiculous hustle tales. 2:00 disability acceptance 5:00 heightened sensitivities  8:00 on being canceled 10:00 on being a sugar baby 13:00 echolalia and decriminalization of sex work 16:00 not naturally feeling close to people 21:00 sensory stuff...

Let’s speak to Aja Corynn who made the documentary film “Pleasers”. Our guest applies her anthropological background and creative lenses to her experiences as a stripper; Let’s talk stripclubs, relationships, retirement and media. 1:00 anthropologist and former stripper 2:00 why she quit 6:00 California Girls in Anaheim, Deja Vu in Hollywood 10:00 “Black and kinky” NY dominatrixes 14:00 I’m inside...

Nate Hazen is a certified bouncer in the state of Oregon and works in downtown Portland. Meet your host’s coworker and listen as we swap stories and tips on how to be safer and more fun as a patron of the adult entertainment industries. 2:00 could you work in a strip club with the lights and loud music? 6:00 felons, veterans, and foster system kids 9:00 de-escalation and working downtown Portland&...

How might one person manage their co-occurring chronic illnesses and disabilities, and have a fulfilling sex life? Meet Katherine Harlow the Park Avenue Pinup and discover how she strategizes her health, pleasure, and functioning. Learn some care tips and disability advocacy with us. 2:00 endometriosis, pelvic floor disorder, narcolepsy, Autism, PTSD 5:00 70% of people with pelvic floor dysfunctio...

What might healthy spirituality and sexuality look like for Catholics? Let’s meet Sister Shannon who specializes in pleasure and shame-less education and self help for her online audiences, and opposition to her work. 1:00 she’s been deactivated online 3x 3:00 sexual support for Catholics: there is a need 6:00 common questions: masturbation, family shame 9:00 imagine Mother Mary as a single mother...

Tom-boys, dykes, butch females, masc4masc, men, and more: how do nonbinary , cis men, and masculine-leaning people experience our world? It’s a spectrum of intersectionality! We speak with one person about gender, licensed sex therapist Grace Ballard. 2:00 Classic psychotherapy vs Buddhist psychotherapy  4:00 some people love to be disruptive to others 8:00 on OCSB (out-of control sexual beha...

April Flores is an award winning pornmaker with almost two decades of years of experience and knowledge about the adult film industries. We talk sex, dating, and grief. Listen to her! 3:00 “Fat Girl” photo art book in 2013 6:00 on being approached by Belladonna 9:00 the actual sex part is a small part 13:00 on having fake answers for real questions 16:00 on rigorous STI screening for pornmakers 18...