These Unprecedented Gays

Send us Fan Mail This week the boys are back in town.  We welcome a special guest -- Nick's friend Christie from Washington, D.C.  Learn about Nick's adventures as a young blossoming gay man in a big city. It is said that our friendships define us. Friends know the good and the bad about us -- even things we might prefer to forget. It was great to have Christie on the show and even bette...

Send us Fan Mail This week is our 150th episode!  To celebrate we sent Joe to Ohio and recorded without him (sorry Ohio!). Joe will be back next week.  He was just tied up working is day job.  As a treat Paul Nick and Andy talk about what going on in the world. Everything from Joe's amazing piano playing to the Momofuku Chili Crunch face plant . . . we cover all the topics.  Did you ever wond...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we offer the latest in edutainment.  The boys review some of the latest lingo, terms and slang that the kids are tossing out on the tweets, the grams, the tiks . . . Our language constantly evolves and it seems that lately, our lexicon changes so fast you can't keep up.    tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #urbandictiona...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we get to have fun in the neighborhood sharing some fun and outrageous Nextdoor app posts.  People are crazy.  People who are entitled and anonymous are even crazier! Join us for a laugh and share how positively uplifting our communities can be (sarcasm)! tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #nextdoorapp   Gay San Diego comedy L...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we are back together in San Diego and so happy to be home.  Travel give you a chance to discover and fall in love with new things, and helps you appreciate things from home that you miss having while away.  Let's talk about the old and new stuff we don't think we could live without! tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys get to record their episode from opposite ends of the world.  Nick and Joe are in our hometown, San Diego, and Paul and Andy are in Melbourne, Australia.  Hear about our adventures in Australia and New York over the last week.  The boys share their encounters with famous people. For the NYC boys, it was Aaron Tveit, Neil Patrick Harris, and Joe Locke.  For the...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe do a recap of the Season 16 of RuPaul's Drag Race, and Season 2 of RuPaul's Drag Race UK vs the World.  Hear them dish about who is giving them life, who is getting the villain edit, and who is getting the free pass (repeatedly). Today we give you the skinny on all things drag.  Be gagged and gooped. Words to live by this week . . . “It’s okay to...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe talk about family secrets . . . those things that nobody talks about, or that you only find out much later in time. Family surprises can be shocking, heartwarming, sad, and even uplifting.  But the boys find the funny in all of it.  Enjoy! @tugayspod  tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy    Gay San Diego comedy LGBT...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe are together again after a few weeks of travel and adventure.  Listen in to hear about the Adele concert in Las Vegas, Nick's fetish for expensive leather goods, Paul and Andy's assessment of the emergency room services of a Palm Springs hospital, and even a trailer park after dark experience.  After some time away, it was great to catch up with e...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe are finally together again.  We talk about the Usher concert that was televised last Sunday, the incredible and provocative advertisements that were running before and after the Usher concert, and some stupid sports ball that kept interrupting the commercials.  Haha, we're talking about Super Bowl Sunday -- an iconic American and also very gay experien...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe jump into crazy and hilarious product reviews that people have shared about everyday household products such as milk, gummy bears and headphones.  People love to share their wit, humor and sarcasm in the strangest places.  Product reviews are a perfect look into our cultural zeitgeist.  Come listen, laugh, and maybe even find a product you want to buy.  @tu...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys host a really special guest, Jordan Blaza Olsen (@thegirlwithagreatsmile).  Ms Jordan is true Renaissance woman.  She is a public health advisor, social justice advocate, cosplayer, actor, singer and model. Her professional career has been forged in public health and social justice with emphasis on HIV prevention and transgender health. Paul met Jordan at an X-...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys do another "Spit or Swallow" episode. In honor of the New Year and the common resolution to eat healthier, we are doing a Healthy Snacks edition.  Plant-based, gluten-free, vegan, organic . . . the market is filled with products that use these marketing buzzwords.  But are they really healthy for you?  And more importantly, are they tasty?  Hear our r...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe do another review of Reddit AITA Stories (Am I the Asshole?). Sometimes life is better than fiction.  The audacity!  The gumption! People are just crazy. Come laugh along with us and let us know what you think.    @tugayspod  tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #aita #redditaita   Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LG...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe catch up after the holidays and play a fun music trivia game focused on the music of the 1980s.  You will be able to play along and have a laugh. @tugayspod  tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #musictrivia #80smusic #1980smusictrivia   Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys take a look at 2023.  They share their personal journeys this year long with looking at notable news, events, tragedies, intrigues and moments that defined the year for all of us.  Of course, we do that with the same TU Gays humor and levity we bring to every episode.  It was a tough year -- for some worse than others -- but at least we can laugh together about...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys get in the holiday spirit by talking about Christmas traditions around the world. Every country and culture has different ways of celebrating Christmas as a religious or secular holiday.  Each region even has its own unique holiday characters that populate local legends and folklore. We thought it would be a fun way to get in the spirit of Christmas and recogni...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys discuss an issue that we all need to confront eventually -- getting older the ageism that can come with it.  We read that ageism is considered one of the last socially accepted prejudices out there.  Our modern "aware" world has cultivated so much sensitivity to gender, sexual orientation, race, religion, physical disability and mental illness, but di...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys draw questions from a dinner party game called "Table Topics".  The version we are using is "Not Your Mom's Dinner Party."  The cards ask provocative questions that are designed to spark conversation and connection.  We enjoyed the game and recommend it.  You can find it on Amazon and at www.tabletopics.com.  There are several versions...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe and the gang talk about gay spaces.  When traveling, do you seek out the gayborhood?  Do you check out local gay bars? Would you go on a gay cruise or gay vacation?  For our listeners who do not identify as gay, the same questions apply.  Do you seek out like-minded people and places when not at home?  It was interesting to hear our various experiences with...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Paul and Joe get to talk to the big man himself.  That's right, this week, our special guest is no other than Santa Claus. Join us to interview a real professional Santa and a bona fide graduate of Santa Claus University (SCU)! Go Reindeer!  It was amazing to spend time with someone who puts so much time and energy into making people happy.  It's a rare treat...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Joe and Paul jump into the holiday season by talking about their Holiday Hot Takes!  We all have our opinions and hot buttons.  Sometimes, what someone loves about the holiday season drives you up a wall.  Sometimes people don't understand your obsession with those products, traditions and entertainment content.  Let's do a deep dive into each of their holiday...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Joe and Paul talk about over the top parties.  Whether it is for a birthday, a wedding, a bar/bat mitzvah, or christening, some people go overboard.  Hear some funny stores about extravagant parties we have all attended, and about the parties we dream about having for ourselves.  It's time to party people!   @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com  #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #s...

Send us Fan Mail This week, Joe and Paul talk about scams.  We all get the emails about a purchase we never made, or that we have a virus on our computer.  As we all live in a connected world, there are a scary number of people trying to take advantage of us to get our money and information.  We want to share some rules of the road as you navigate the communication superhighway. @tugayspod tugaysp...

Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys celebrate the Halloween season by talking about horror films.  Whether it is ghosts, monsters, supernatural forces, or a bunch of angry birds, we have a rich history of almost 100 years of movies that scare the proverbial crap out of us.  Why do we love them so much?  What are your favorites, or least favorites?  Tune in and listen to the bitter end!   @tugaysp...