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Send us Fan Mail This week, the boys talk about technology etiquette.  We have all had moments where people are in public places having a video call for all to hear.  Or listening to videos with no headphones.  Everyone has ideas about hwo the world of technology should intersect with the world of real people.  Maybe you will agree with our gang.  Maybe you will disagree.  Drop a comment in our In...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we complete our television nostalgia trip by looking at TV shows from the 1990s and 2000s.  We are led by the delightful Joe Granelli as we explore his childhood shows, obsessions and the series that didn't make is radar (and there were a good number of those).  For this episode, the boomer felt old and the millennials felt nostalgic.  But, as you have learned, we...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we continue our discussion of nostalgic television.  This week, we explore TV shows from 1975 until the end of the 1980s. This was a real "golden age" of television that took the three network format of the 50s, 60s and early 70s, and gave us seemingly unlimited choices that either reflected and amplified real life, or gave us wonderful escapes from it.  We kn...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we start a multi-part series talking about nostalgic television.  Even though we are from different generations, we all grew up in a TV era.  This week's episode focuses on television shows that were launched in the 1960s through 1975.  No matter what your age, you may have seen these shows when they first aired (if you are a boomer like Andy) on reruns (like Paul)...

Send us Fan Mail This week, we bring back a new and epic "Spit or Swallow" episode.  This time, we are doing the French Fry Edition -- tasting and rating fries from national fast food brands.  If we like them we swallow.  If they disappoint, we spit.  Hear our takes on the good, the not so good, and the absolutely delicious.  Also let us know if you agree with our spits or swallows.  Wha...

Send us Fan Mail Hey all you Tuggers and Tuggettes!  It is the start of Season 7 -- Officially!  Who would have believed that our little podcast that started in the wake of the COVID shutdown would still be chugging along 6 years later!  This week, the boys reconnect with an episode focused on all the stuff that has happened this summer.  We go from personal near death experiences to what is happe...

Send us Fan Mail Happy Pride San Diego!  This is our special annual pride episode.  This week we talk about pride history, how pride has been celebrated in 2026 around the US, and we do a Pride Trivia game.  We hope that you have a summer filled with fun, joy and community.  Pride is all about community and building each other up when it seems that everyone wants to take you down.   @tugayspod tug...

Send us Fan Mail This week we finish our regular Season 6 with an episode focused on only good things.  As bad as life may feel sometimes, if you take some time once and a while to focus on the positive, you will have the endurance to weather any storm. We appreciate our loyal listeners and wanted to give you an episode that brings joy and positivity to your day.  Thank you and we look forward to...

Send us Fan Mail This week we finish our travel blog focusing on our time in Ireland, Northern Ireland and Scotland.  We end up doing a wee bit of blethering.  Lang may yer lum reek! And don't be a right arse!  :-) @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #gaytravel #travel #dublin #edinburgh #belfast #ireland #scotland @tugayspod   tugayspod@ya...

Send us Fan Mail This week we shift focus over to Paul and Andy's travels to Mexico and the UK.  Lots of fun and adventure awaits.  Come aboard! @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #gaytravel #travel #london #cabo #brighton @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy Gay San Diego comedy LGBT L...

Send us Fan Mail This week we pick up with Part 2 of our Nick & Joe globetrotting review.  For this episode we focus on New York City.  We get theater, sports, hobnobbing with celebrities. . . every gay boy's dream.   Living vicariously through Granone (that's my new couple's name for Mr. Granelli and Mr. Stone) is the next best thing to being there! @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.c...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back listeners.  We have been traveling and this week the boys debrief (ha ha) on Nick and Joe's trips to Amsterdam and Las Vegas.  We broke their travel episode into 2 parts.  Next week we will share the last segment of their travels focusing on their adventures in New York City.  We hope you enjoy hearing about these trips.  @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgb...

Send us Fan Mail This week Joe and Paul play "Cash Couch", a mock version of one of their favorite TV games modeled satirically (in a copyright fair use kind of way) after Cash Cab - but without the automobile, or New York, or real money. For these boys, there is no trivia question that is too trivial.         @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #...

Send us Fan Mail This week Joe and Paul go behind the scenes to dish about some of their favorite reality television shows.  Hear some of the rules that contestants have to follow, what can they do and who can they talk to before and after their filming. If you are like us, you enjoy these types of shows.  Hearing all that it takes to produce them is something we can talk about for hours. Give a l...

Send us Fan Mail This week the boys talk about ever-evolving lingo of Gen Alpha. We are always looking for ways to feel younger, and promote understanding throughout the alphabet community.  This week, we don't teach the children -- we teach the adults what they children are talking about.  No cap!  You will find it more sigma than Ohio! FR FR!       @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbt...

Send us Fan Mail This week the boys talk about friendship.  We deep dive into some reddit posts about times when friends failed you, or weren't there for you. It makes you appreciate the friends you have and makes you think about how you can be a better friend.   @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #friendship Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBT...

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes you just have to catch up with the people you love.  This episode is one of those times.  No major topic, just a great time and a lot of laughs.    @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy  Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy Gay...

Send us Fan Mail This week we do a wrap up on the Milan Winter Olympics.  It was a great few weeks with lots of amazing stories and intense drama.  Hear all about the thrill of victory and the agony of the feet.  :-)    @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #gayslikesports #winterolympics26 @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #...

Send us Fan Mail This week we play a game called Delve -- a card game that fosters opportunities to share all kinds of things.  We hope you have as much fun listening as we did playing!    @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy  Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #...

Send us Fan Mail This week Paul and Joe share about their relationships with their parents.  For most of us, biological and adopted parents are where we first learn about living with and loving others.  We wanted to give you a chance to get to know us even deeper, and sometimes to do that, you have to go back to the source.    @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysan...

Send us Fan Mail This week we focus on the Grammys, the Super Bowl and the upcoming Winter Olympics.  So much happening and going on!   @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy  Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ P...

Send us Fan Mail This week we focus on fashion.  They say that the clothes make the man.  The boys reflect on their personal fashion and how it has changed over the years.  I give it a toot (not a boot)!  I hope you do too. @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #style #fashion Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.c...

Send us Fan Mail This week we keep our focus on the positive by talking about all the things that we look forward to in 2026.   @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #cantwait #focusonthegood Gay San Diego comedy LGBT LGBTQ LGBTQIA+ @tugayspod   tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy Gay San Diego comedy LGBT...

Send us Fan Mail This week we bring you another "Spit or Swallow" episode where we bravely sacrifice our stomachs and pallets to tell you the best and worst of what is out there for you to enjoy.  This week our brave, selfless podcasters bring you Spit or Swallow - Chocolate Chip Cookie Edition!  I know.  I know.  How can we possibly ask the boys to eat and rate a bunch of chocolate chip...

Send us Fan Mail For our first episode of 2026, we talk about resolutions we are making (and breaking) for this year.  We also play a fun game about stuff you should know.  You will want to listen because for once, the right person wins the game.  :-) @tugayspod tugayspod@yahoo.com #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #sandiego #gaysandiego #gaycommedy #newyearsresolutions #2026happynewyear Gay San Diego comedy...