THE X&Y SHOW

All of a sudden, you have been ghosted! What do you do? Do you need closure? Do you need to know why? Or should you just move on?

How many times do we ignore the red flags from the other person, of them telling either directly, or indirectly that they do not want what we want?

What kind of society have we become, where we abandon our mothers and fathers in nursing homes, to be in the care of strangers?

So many women are choosing to be single mothers by having babies from men who have no desire to ever get married. Why are so many women choosing to make their lives harder by allowing themselves to be impregnated by losers? What are the reasons why single-parent households are on the rise, instead of a decline?

Has society grown so shallow, that people only look at the physical assets of a person, to determine if they could be in a relationship or marriage with that person?

So many middle-aged women and men are walking around through life alone, and having no one to grow old with. Why is this happening so much in our society? Whose fault is it? Is it just the way the world is, or are our preferences too high?

Compared to other countries, kids in the US are falling short when it comes to education. What are the reasons for this? Teachers? Politicians? Parents? Or all of the above?

Sexual intercourse is a wonderful thing. However, like anything else, too much of something can be a bad thing. So bad, that it could affect one's life in the same negative manner as alcohol or drugs. Join me in a conversation with recovering sex addict Adrienne MacIain.

Before entering a sexual relationship with a true friend, one has to ask, is it really worth risking a good friendship, just to have sex?

Kids these days don't respect anyone! Because of silly-ass psychiatrists and psychologists feeding a lot of bull to lawmakers and parents, kids are not being disciplined as they should. As a result, little spoiled brats, are growing up to be big dangerous brats!

This is a world event that is affecting us all. This is a virus that doesn't give a damn what race, creed, class, or political affiliation you're apart of. Only together can we beat this, and beat this, we will!

Many people in society are walking around fuc*ed up in the head because they never received the mental help they needed after a bad relationship. How do you know when it is needed? Join me in a conversation with author, podcast host & dating coach, Kelly Smith.

The act of reproducing feels good at the moment. However, how many people actually plan before they start having kids? Should couples plan for children?

Never stop feeling great about yourself less around someone who doesn't feel great about themselves. Instead, find out why that person isn't feeling good about themselves, you might just save their lives.

We've all either experienced bad events first hand or witnessed negative events happening to others. Negative events will happen, but the key is how does one heal after those events. Without true healing, there will never be true happiness in future relationships.

In today's new society, women are always stressing the point, that marriage is not needed in order to obtain happiness. Deep down, do women really feel that way, or just caving to the social norm?

How many people in your life that you call friend, are really a true friend?

Christmas of 2019! This episode is a friendly reminder of how to receive and give gifts on this special day. Always remember that gifts should be given and received from the heart.

When looking for a potential husband or wife, so many folks are looking for the wrong traits in a person. Instead of looking for love, everyone is worrying more about the material stuff.

People want many things, from financial comfort, physical lust, and status. Just because someone desires you, doesn't mean they actually care about you, it just means they desire you because you could aide in getting those "things" for them.

Family members, and especially parents, should always make their support visible. A person hearing those simple words, "I'm proud of you", will go a long way.

So many of today's families are messed up because men are not in their proper role as leaders. In addition, there are far too many families being led by women.

In today's world, many women fail to know the importance of preparing a simple meal for their man. Some women are ignorant, some just plain lazy as hell, some just don't give a damn! Whatever the reason, women should know that preparing a simple meal could mean the difference in being married or being forever single.

Before you have sex with someone, what do you really want to know about them? What "should" you know? Cleanliness? Are they crazy? Health issues? What would matter to you?

After a divorce or breakup, many men & women also break-up from their kids. What real rational explanation can one have for neglecting their own flesh and blood???