THE X&Y SHOW

Why are men called "SIMPS" or squares, just for treating a woman nicely?

For decades, period sex has been a taboo topic. Anxiety from having period sex is mainly because of women worrying about what men would say. The truth is, period sex is good for the body, and all couples should treasure it.

When will we get tired and do something about the gun violence in this country? Will we give a damn when someone who matters to us gets killed?

It seems it is inevitable that Roe versus Wade will be broght back. Are you pro-choice or pro-life? Whatever the case may be, no one should be demeaned for their point of view.

What is wrong with society today. Why don't we go to the funerals of our family anymore?

Many men and women are alone because of not receiving family approval, particularly from their parents on the people they date. There comes a time where you have to be you and say fu*k what your family says.

Many people are alone because they choose not to settle for any potential mate. Sadly, women are more guilty of this. In reality, some of the stuff people believe to be a settle is anything but that.

Sextoys are like steaksauce. It just makes the steak taste better! Every man or woman in a relationship or marriage should be open to introducing sex toys into their sexual activities. If you've never used them, you better ask somebody!

Last night will go down in history as one of the biggest embarrassments I've seen. Will Smith set us back by confirming the stereotype of what the world thinks about all Black men!

For your next relationship, should you consider the pets the person has? You may not receive the love as their four-legged friend(s) do. Could you deal with that? 

In many states stalking laws are extremely weak. So weak, they do not protect the person who is the victim. In many cases, the victim receives little to no help until it's too late.

All the hoopla for one day out of the year?  If you handled your business the other 364 days, spending your entire rent on one day would seem asinine! 

There is so much talk of anal activities from men and women these days. Is there truly any sexual pleasure from performing this act on someone? Or is it just a shi*ty phase that society is going through?

One has to wonder, why are so many women walking around crazy as hell? Why are so many women so defensive when it comes to dating men? Are men the cause of this?

Mental health is something that affects many people's lives. If you feel that you need help, talk to someone that you trust. Talk to someone that will listen, someone that will help you get better. There is no shame in needing help! Suicide Prevention Hotline 1-800-273-TALK, or text strength to 741-741.     

Why are so many women saying no to being in a relationship and believing they are better off that way?

So many women have stuck-up attitudes when interacting with men! Why?

Christmas is a time of year where you're supposed to be happy. Yet, so many are miserable and alone. Why does this keep happening? 

When was the last time you verbally expressed your gratitude to someone? 

The Christmas holidays are a joyful time of the year. Just remember that everyone may not be as jolly as you are.

Why do we men & women have so many requirements when looking for a potential mate?

Thanksgiving is being grateful for what you have and being alive. Being able to see, hear, speak, touch, and walk. About spending time with family and friends. More than just eating a damn turkey!

Would you move to another place for a loved one? How far would you go to support your spouse?

So many women are so independent these days. Women are educated, successful in their careers, financially stable, and even have babies by themselves. So do women need men?

What kind of world is this? Where children today can no longer do the things we did as kids. Will we wake up one day, and Trick or Treating is banned altogether?