Shannalee Pinnock-Messam

The Woman I Had to Become Podcast

Education EN ↓ 15 episodes

Welcome to The Woman I Had to Become Podcast—a space for real, honest conversations about healing, self-worth, and growth. Hosted by author and educator Shannalee Pinnock-Messam, this podcast is for the woman who is still learning, healing, and becoming. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or like you had to figure life out the hard way, this space is for you. You’re not falling apart. You’re becoming her.

Author

Shannalee Pinnock-Messam

Category

Education

Podcast website

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Latest episode

Jul 5, 2026

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Episodes

You Don’t Have To Explain Your Growth 05.07.2026

Not everyone will understand your growth—and that’s okay. In this episode, Shannalee talks about boundaries, healing privately, andlearning not to over-explain your evolution to others.  

Your Softness Is Not Weakness 28.06.2026

Being soft does not make you weak. In this episode, Shannalee talks about healing without losing yourkindness, protecting your peace, and learning that softness and boundaries canexist together.

Stop Feeling Guilty for Outgrowing People 21.06.2026

Growth changes relationships. In this episode, Shannalee talks about outgrowing people, protecting yourpeace, and learning not to feel guilty for evolving into a healthier version ofyourself.

Healing Changed My Standards 14.06.2026

Healing changes what you tolerate. In this episode, Shannalee talks about boundaries, self-respect, and howhealing naturally raises your standards and changes what you accept in yourlife.

You’re Not Starting Over — You’re Starting Wiser 07.06.2026

Starting again does not mean you failed. In this episode, Shannalee talks about growth, rebuilding, and how difficult seasons can prepare you for a wiser and stronger version of yourself.

You Can Miss Them and Still Move Forward 31.05.2026

Missing someone does not mean you need to go back. In this episode, Shannalee shares an honest conversation about healing.emotional attachment, and learning how to move forward while still processingemotions.

Becoming Her Requires Letting Go 22.05.2026

Growth requires letting go. In this episode, Shannalee talks about the difficult but necessaryprocess of releasing old habits, mindsets, and relationships to grow into theperson you’re becoming.

You Don't Need Closure 17.05.2026

You don’t always get the answers, but you can still move on. In this episode, Shannalee shares a real and honest perspective on letting go without closure and choosing peace over explanation. If you’ve been waiting for clarity or answers, this episode will remind you: You don’t need closure to move forward.

Choosing Yourself Without Guilt 10.05.2026

Choosing yourself can feel uncomfortable—but it’s necessary. In this episode, Shannalee talks about setting boundaries, letting go ofguilt, and learning to put yourself first without over-explaining. If you’ve been struggling to choose yourself, this episode will remind you: You are allowed to.

Outgrowing People Is Part of Growth 03.05.2026

Outgrowing people is not easy—but it’s part of growth. In this episode, Shannalee shares an honest reflection on what it means to change, evolve, and no longer feel aligned with certain relationships. If you’ve been feeling different or If you're unsure about where you stand with others, this episode will remind you: You’re not wrong. You’re growing.

Healing Is Not Pretty Intro 27.04.2026

Healing is not always easy, and it’s not always linear.

Healing Is Not Pretty 26.04.2026

Healing is not always easy—and it’s not always linear. In this episode, Shannalee shares an honest look at whathealing really feels like, including the ups, downs, and moments in between. If you’ve ever felt like you were making progress oneday and struggling the next, this episode is for you. You are still healing. And you are still becoming her.

The Woman I Had to Become 24.04.2026

An introduction to what the podcast will be about.

The Woman I Had To Become 23.04.2026

You’re not falling apart. You’re becoming her. 🎙️ The Woman I Had to Become Podcast — Episode 1 now live #BecomingHer #HealingJourney #SelfWorth #PodcastLaunch #Growth

I Didn't Become Her Overnight 20.04.2026

In this first episode of The Woman I Had to Become Podcast, Shannalee shares a real and honest reflection on growth, healing, and becoming. This episode is for anyone who feels like they should already have it all figured out but is still learning, healing, and growing through life’s challenges. You are not falling apart. You are becoming.

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