Tim & Pauline Wheeler

The W Podcast

Society EN ↓ 230 episodes

Our goal is to provide you with perspective to help you build a healthy & godly relationship. New episode of "The W Podcast" drops every Tuesday! We are Tim & Pauline Wheeler. Before we met we were both in ungodly relationships that left us empty and hurt. This led us on individual journeys to learn God's way of dating. When we met we decided to have a relationship that honored God but was still fun and exciting! We eventually started helping other couples through small groups to learn to date God's way. We have been married since 2018 and have a beautiful son.

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Tim & Pauline Wheeler

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EP 125: Should I Stay? He’s Scared To Grow…How Long Should You Date A Man Who Needs To Mature? 29.08.2023 33:17

In this video, we answer a question from a listener and give wisdom and a word on how to know if you should stay with a man who is trying to grow or if you should leave the relationship to save yourself future heartbreak. LAST DATING MIXER OF THE YEAR! IN THE BALTIMORE AREA 10/6 Men are you looking for godly women to meet and date? Come to our NEXT mixer on Friday 10/6/23 at 8pm EST! Get your tick...

EP 124: You May Have NEVER Considered This! | I'M 30 & SINGLE. AM I A CURVE QUEEN? #QOTD 22.08.2023 22:54

In this video, we answer a question from a listener and give wisdom and a word on how to determine if you are being too picky, missing out on God’s best, and a perspective on why you may still be single that you may have NEVER considered! LAST DATING MIXER OF THE YEAR! IN THE BALTIMORE AREA 10/6 Men are you looking for godly women to meet and date? Come to our NEXT mixer on Friday 10/6/23 at 8pm E...

EP 123: What Are Some Practical Things To Do During Conflict To Avoid Shutting Down? #QOTD 15.08.2023 17:14

In this video, we answer a question from a listener and give wisdom and a word on practical things you can do during conflict to avoid shutting down. Conflict is going to happen in EVERY relationship so it is something we really want to make sure we learn how to do well! DATING MIXER! Men are you looking for godly women to meet and date? Come to our NEXT mixer on Friday 10/6/23 at 8pm EST! Get you...

EP 122: Winning The Fight Against Lust | When You’re A Christian But Your Horny… 08.08.2023 30:49

In this video, we answer a question from a listener and give wisdom and a word on how to deal with lust and p**n even when it’s addictive . Being a single Christian can be complicated when you get horny but it doesn’t have to be that way! In this video we give practical advice on how to win the fight against lust in the modern age. Looking to win against lust or win your relationships? Check out s...

EP 121: What To Do When YOU WANT TO STAY In The Relationship But GOD ASKS YOU TO END IT… 01.08.2023 23:45

In this video, we answer a question from a listener and give wisdom and a word on why the man hasn't proposed yet and what to do when God ask you to end the relationship. This is a must listen for everyone because it can help you get through a similar situation or give you clues on how to avoid this situation in your dating life. DATING MIXER, this Friday 8/4! Looking for godly people to meet and...

EP 120: ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON’T MARRY THEM Before You See This! 25.07.2023 14:10

In this video, we share a story from our “story time series” where we share about the time Pauline & Tim may or may not have "broke" into a park to get Pauline's car back when they were dating. This showed Tim & Pauline how the other person handles adversity which we have learned is very important to learn in dating! DATING MIXER! Looking for godly people to meet and date? Come to our NEXT mixer o...

Single Christian Man Shares His Experience At Our Dating Mixer | 1 to 1 Singles Mixer 20.07.2023 13:44

Men’s tickets here! https://www.justdatinguniversity.com/offers/jsJnojFF/checkout Live outside the DMV? Bring our mixer to your city! https://www.justdatinguniversity.com/event-interest Join the fastest growing community of Christian singles in the DMV for a low pressure night of games, conversation, and connection! This safe environment will be filled with intentional people looking for a godly r...

EP 119: Why You Should Marry Your Best Friend & How To Develop That Bond In Dating 18.07.2023 27:54

In this video, we share a story from our “story time series” where we share about the time Pauline & Tim received one of the greatest compliments they could have received from a stranger on a plane! If you want to have a successful marriage please do not overlook friendship! DATING MIXER! Looking for godly people to meet and date? Come to our NEXT mixer on Friday 8/4/23 at 8pm EST! Get Tickets Her...

EP 118: What If You’ve Met Your Spouse & Don’t Know It? | God Cares About Your Dating Story 11.07.2023 25:22

In this video, we share a story from our “story time series” where we share about the time Pauline got Tim a job and was his boss! This happened before we started dating but at that moment you could not have told us we’d be married one day. The truth is you never know how God will use people in your life. If you are waiting for your spouse trust that God is ordering your steps and that he hasn’t f...

EP 117: When A Man Hasn’t Proposed When You’d Like…Should You Wait & Trust Him Or Break Up? 04.07.2023 23:55

In this video, we share a story from our “story time series” where we share about the day Pauline thought I was going to propose but I never did. We discuss how to talk to your partner about engagement and if you should leave them if they are taking to long to propose. Looking for godly people to meet and date? Come to our NEXT mixer on Friday 8/4/23 at 8pm EST! Get Tickets Here: https://www.justd...

EP 116: What to Know About ENGAGEMENT & What Intentional Christian Dating Looked Like For Them 23.05.2023 1:06:03

In this video we discuss what does engagement look like as a Christian, why you should be open to dating someone unexpected and the importance of using your friends to find your spouse CONNECT W/ Raph & Karen! -Raph IG: https://instagram.com/raphael.oduok?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== -Karen IG: https://instagram.com/heyitskyt_?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== ________________________________________ Come to our...

EP 115: Married Couple Shares Why You Need To Trust That God Is With You In The Dating Process 16.05.2023 54:56

In this video, we discuss with Bernard & Jassmire the importance of letting God lead you in the dating process, working with your spouse in marriage, and so much more! CONNECT WITH Bernard & Jassmire BOMU Website: https://www.thebomu.co BOMU IG: https://instagram.com/bomu_co?igshid=ZWIzMWE5ZmU3Zg== Join our ONLINE event "I'm dating...now what? Practical wisdom for singles and dating couples to hel...

EP 114: Dating A Man Who Won't Open Up & Other Tips For Women Looking For Godly Men 09.05.2023 45:04

In this video we discuss your submitted questions and we answer how to date someone with distant behavior, the number of chances you should give the person you're dating before you break up with them, and when you should tell someone you’re not having sex. Come to our next dating mixer on 8/4! https://www.justdatinguniversity.com/1-to-1-singles-mixer-waitlist-august-2023 Download our Couple Questi...

EP 113: 7 Keys To Emotional Intimacy Healthy Relationships START with this! 02.05.2023 17:31

In this video, we share the 7 levels of intimacy every couple needs. Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married this video will improve all of your relationships. FELLAS! We have a few tickets left for our 1 to 1 Singles Mixer do not miss out! https://www.justdatinguniversity.com/1-to-1-mixer Download our Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wear...

EP 112: How To Tell If A Guy Is Interested? & What To Do if Your Boyfriend Won’t Talk About Marriage 25.04.2023 40:45

In this video, we share our answers on what to do if you want to get married but your boyfriend doesn't. We share tips on the best way to pull back physically when you are used to dating in the world and we discuss if you need to be on the same level spiritually with your partner in dating. FELLAS! We have a few tickets left for our 1 to 1 Singles Mixer do not miss out! https://www.justdatingunive...

EP 111: Overcoming The Stigma Of Not Dating In Awhile & Processing Disappointing Dates 18.04.2023 54:40

In this video, we share perspective and encouragement reminding you that God has not forgotten about you. No matter what you are waiting on God to bring you in life the same God who answered your other prayers can answer the prayer for your dating life. We also discuss if there is a stigma for singles who haven't dated in awhile, if the dating pool has pee in it and how to not break your own heart...

EP 110: My BF Won’t Take Me On Dates B/C I Stopped Having Sex W/ Him + Soul-ties, Church Hurt & More 11.04.2023 57:04

In this video, we share our answers from singles just like you with topics ranging from how to stop having Sex Before Marriage, Healing From Soul-ties, Dating Someone Who Has Church Hurt, and If You Should Pray with Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend. Get tickets to our singles mixer! No speed dating and equal men to women ratios! https://www.justdatinguniversity.com/1-to-1-mixer Download our Couple Que...

EP 109: Spotting Red Flags, Healing After Heartbreak, & Signs You’re Ready To Date again 04.04.2023 51:55

In this video, we discuss breakups. We cover 4 different perspectives on breakups from dating after divorce, to dating someone who just got out a relationships to healing from breakup and more! Download our Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources || NEED HELP BUILDING A GODLY RELATIONSHIP? Join Just Dating University: JDU is a m...

EP 108: Dating As A Christian Is Harder When You Don't Do This... 28.03.2023 39:12

In this video, we discuss engagement, finding your person, and how to share your faith as a Christian. CONNECT WITH BLAKE! -Clothing Store: https://www.jesusfreakclub.com -Tik Tok: https://www.jesusfreakclub.com -Instagram: https://instagram.com/jesusfreakclub ___________________________________ Download our Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wearejustd...

EP 107: Sex & Dating, Staying Pure, Practical Tips For Overcoming Nervousness On Your Wedding Night 21.03.2023 25:53

In this video, we share our answers on 2 different topics regarding sex. How do you not have sex when you are just dating? What happens if I’m a virgin and their not should I be nervous? This is a GOOD one! Download our Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources || NEED HELP BUILDING A GODLY RELATIONSHIP? Join Just Dating Universit...

EP 106: Dating Someone With Kids | Dating If You Already Have Kids | What To Expect 14.03.2023 36:42

In this video we discuss key tips to help you date if you have no kids but are considering someone who does have children and key tips on how to date well if you are currently a single parent. We also discuss some of the best methods to having a healthy blended family. CONNECT WITH Scott & Vanessa Martindale -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blendedkingdomfamilies/ -Book: https://blendedkingdo...

EP 105: Hey God: How do I get relationships right & heal from heartbreak? W/ @kingofsolomon 07.03.2023 1:20:48

In this video, we discuss with @kingofsolomon the proper way to heal after heartbreak, tips for healthy communication, and so much more! CONNECT WITH SOLOMON! -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kingofsolomon/ -Hey God Book: https://a.co/d/1UB134k -SUPPORT Jeanette McGowan & her baby:https://www.gofundme.com/f/jeanette-mcgowan/donate?utm_source=widget&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=p_cp+share-...

EP 104: Are Your Standards Too High? (Our Answer May Surprise You) 28.02.2023 33:11

In this video, we discuss how to identify if your dating standards are to high or if you simply just have clear values. This is a must watch! Download our Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources || NEED HELP BUILDING A GODLY RELATIONSHIP? Join Just Dating University: JDU is a membership for Christians not yet married looking to...

EP 103: 3 Keys To A Healthy Relationship; Trust, Therapy, & Serving At Church 21.02.2023 1:15:33

In this video, we discuss everything from the importance of therapy, to building trust after being heart broken, and more! CONNECT W/ Sammy & Brittany -FRAIS Chruch Website: https://fraischurch.com/?fbclid=PAAaYGGuDYF5uIaUyLhijvVA14_EXs69ZUHgTBOe7s6km2m3Qaf20TVkQeB7o -FRAIS Church IG: https://instagram.com/fraischurch?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= -Sammy IG: https://instagram.com/sam.i.gomes?igshid=YmMyMTA2...

EP 102: She’s 5’11 And Her Husband Is 5’8…Rip Up Your “List”…How To Identify God’s Best! 14.02.2023 57:31

In this video, we discuss the importance of making sure your “list” isn’t superficial and the benefit of marrying someone you weren’t expecting to date CONNECT With Susana! Instagram — @iam_susanaalba TikTok — @iam_susanaalba LinkedIn — Susana Briscoe-Alba Email — info@susanaalba.co ________________________________________ Download our Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT l...