The Unscripted life of Joey

For years, I thought surviving was enough. As Season 3 comes to a close, I wanted to leave you with one final conversation—not about where I've been, but about where I'm going. This episode is a reflection on vulnerability, therapy, boundaries, acceptance, and the small choices that slowly changed my life. Looking back, I can finally see that healing wasn't about forgetting the past. I...

In this episode, I reflect on the lessons I learned from a relationship that shaped nearly a decade of my life, the emotional weight of trying to leave gently, and the realization that loving someone deeply doesn't always mean they're the person you're meant to spend your life with. I also address the assumptions made about my current relationship and why choosing happiness does not ma...

You've heard about the heartbreak. Now let's talk about the lawsuit. In this episode, I share what happened after the relationship ended, why I still showed up when his family needed support, and what it's like to watch someone reshape years of history into a story where they're always the victim. The truth is rarely as simple as the version people tell online. And since we're...

The breakup happened, but the relationship didn't end. In Part 2, I share the arrangement that kept us connected, the emotional exhaustion that followed, and the moment I realized I couldn't keep living for someone else's happiness. This is the story of reaching my breaking point, meeting someone who changed my perspective, and finally walking away for good. Since We're Telling Sto...

Every story has two sides. For years, I chose silence. But after hearing my past retold through someone else's lens, I decided it was finally time to share mine. Part 1 takes you back to the beginning: how we met, how trust was broken, why I stayed, and what really happened behind the scenes of a relationship that took years to end. This is the story I've never publicly told.

You met him on YouTube… now hear the story behind it all. In Part 2 of this 4-part series, I sit down with Anthony to dive into the world of gay party crews how it started, how it grew, and the moments that shaped us. From wild nights to real life lessons, we’re reminiscing on the experiences that defined an era we’ll never forget. If you’ve ever been part of the scene or just curious what really...

Antonio joins me on a walk down Arena and Circus night club. join the conversation and give it a listen!

New episode, same chaos. I’m back from a short break and catching you up on where I’ve been, what’s coming next, and why you should join us Saturday on YouTube for our  Cafecito Crawl . Then we get into the real tea… or coffee. What does your drink order say about you? Your personality might be hiding in your cup.

The journey with  Lola  comes to a close — but her story, her strength, and her legacy continue to shine. 🌈 From the stage to the soul, this final episode is a powerful reflection on identity, artistry, and what it truly means to live authentically. 💫 #TheUnscriptedLifeOfJoey #TheManBehindTheQueen #Lola #DragLegacy #LGBTQStories #LatinxPride #PodcastSeriesFinale #RepresentationMatters #DragCommu...

In this episode, we dive into the birth of  Lola  — the transformation, the art, and the woman behind the drag. From lashes and lace to self-love and liberation, this is where performance meets identity, and where Joey uncovers how  Lola  came to life.

Beneath the lashes, the laughter, and the spotlight — there’s a story most people never see. In this episode, I sit down with  Lázaro , the man behind  Lola the Drag Queen , to uncover the reality of identity, artistry, and the power of transformation. It’s not just about makeup and performance — it’s about the courage to become who you’ve always been. 🌈 Grab your drink… and let’s get started. 🍸

Pride was my awakening — to community, freedom, and a drag queen named Lola who redefined what it means to own your story. This episode is where it all begins: the first time I felt seen, celebrated, and a little hungover. Welcome to the Lola series — it’s about to get real, raw, and fabulous.

As Season 2 comes to a close, I’m taking a moment to say  thank you —to every guest, listener, friend, and family member who showed up, tuned in, and supported  The Unscripted Life of Joey . In this special finale episode, I’m sharing my gratitude, reflecting on the growth, the chaos, the healing, and the laughs… and reliving some of the most unforgettable moments with clips from the last 19 episo...

his Time, Joey’s the Guest Kinks, Cravings & Confessions. In this juicy, no-holds-barred sit-down, Lupe flips the script and interviews The Unscripted Life of Joey himself. From sexual preferences and steamy crushes to guilty pleasures and unexpected fandoms (did someone say Pokémon and housewives?), nothing is off-limits. Come for the laughs, stay for the tea! This one’s spicy, sassy, and una...

Joey and Alex Discuss how to work through the anxiety and stress of deportations and ICE and its unethical practices.

In this deeply personal and unflinchingly honest episode of  The Unscripted Life of Joey , we strip away the illusion of “liberty and justice for all” to spotlight the very real lives affected by ICE, immigration trauma, and the silent suffering of undocumented families as they violently get hunted and taken away by masked individuals. Joey is joined by  Adrii ,  Tanya ,  David , and  Alex  (from...

We’re back and better—after a short cosmic pause (because even podcasts need to realign 😌). Tune in as we explore the power of manifestation, signs from the universe, and how angel numbers show up in our lives. Featuring special guest  Alex from @mindfullyalex , plus the magic of  Lupe, Tanya & Mario  💫

change happens, are you with it? or do you get left behind?

A shocking discovery. An unforgettable ending. In the final chapter of this series, I share the moment that changed everything—and why I never went back.

In this episode, Joey is joined by the unstoppable Adri — fresh off her graduation! 🎓 Together, they dive into the chaos of juggling work, staying fit, and pursuing education while still trying to have a life. It’s honest, motivating, and a celebration of showing up for yourself — even when the schedule says  you can’t.

In Part 2 of this tell-all mini-series, Joey takes you behind the steamy doors of one of LA’s men’s spas. This episode dives into what it was  really  like working there. No filters, no edits, just the raw, unscripted truth.

Doing it all, following your dreams.

Sneak peek to this weeks upcoming Episode.

Do you know an Ego Vampire? Garlic won't help in this situation!

He's back, he's better, and this time—he’s got a real mic. In this reintroduction, Joey shares the heart, chaos, and cafecito behind the podcast, opening up about life, loss, and what’s happening in season 2 and what's to come in Season 3. If you’re new here, welcome. If you survived the OG Episode One… you're the real MVP. Let’s do it right this time. 🎙️🔥