The UnlearnT Podcast

Send us Fan Mail What if truth and reality are not the same? This week on the unlearned podcast, we're taking a deep dive into the intriguing difference between truth and reality. We challenge the popular belief that truth is subjective and explore the idea that while our realities are personal and ever-changing, truth remains constant, existing beyond our individual selves. So join us on thi...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when you combine a divine calling with an entrepreneurial spirit? In this episode of the UnlearnT Podcast, I reconnect with my friend and former boss, Reggie Davis, to explore the risky yet rewarding world of entrepreneurship. We kick off with humorous stories from our first meeting in 2010, setting the stage for a candid conversation about embracing diversity, taking...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever stopped to consider that personal growth is more than just a solo journey?  This episode is a deep-dive into the popular phrase "do your own work" and its critical implications for personal transformation.  I'll share personal insights on why "doing your own work" goes beyond amassing knowledge to consciously shaping our surroundings. We&apos...

Send us Fan Mail How does one transition from a disciplined upbringing as a former Olympic qualifier to advising over 40 prime ministers and founding three unique businesses? Join us on this captivating episode of the Unlearned Podcast as we welcome Dr. Monique Ositelu, an extraordinary entrepreneur and data strategist whose journey is a remarkable blend of discipline, creativity, and perseverance...

Send us Fan Mail *Trigger Warning* This episode discusses domestic violence.  In this episode of the Unlearned Podcast, Ruth Abigail sits down with Karis Gilmer, who shares her incredible journey from a childhood of global adventures as a missionary's daughter to overcoming domestic violence. Karis reflects on her spiritual growth, the importance of personal scripture study, and the shift fro...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as Shamika and Patrick share their journey of balancing life and entrepreneurship. They reveal how they built a thriving coaching business, reaching clients from South Africa to New York, all while keeping a family-like culture. We’ll also dive into the story behind a unique barbershop and nail salon, where quality and personal connection have been key to its success over...

Send us Fan Mail Ever felt like you're running on fumes, both physically and mentally? Join me, Ruth Abigail (RA), on this week's Freedom Friday episode of The UnlearnT Podcast, where I share my recent wake-up call about the importance of nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls. After a summer filled with lots of travel and unhealthy eating, I found myself feeling empty and depleted. Thi...

Send us Fan Mail Reflect on the joy of forming bonds that outlast life's fleeting moments with us, RA and Jaquetta, as we take you on a laughter-laced excursion through memory lane. We'll unwrap the stories that have become the fabric of our enduring friendship, born in the harmonious halls of Furman University's gospel choir. From name mix-ups to life's trials and triumphs, we...

Send us Fan Mail In this Freedom Friday, I'll share the nitty-gritty of breaking new ground—literally—with a tiller, the unexpected wisdom unearthed in each handful of dirt, and the life lessons that sprouted alongside our tomato vines. Whether you're a veteran cultivator or your idea of a garden is the produce aisle at the grocery store, you're sure to reap a harvest of insights on...

Send us Fan Mail Fear-driven decisions and underdeveloped leadership skills can be detrimental, but they don’t have to define your journey. Learn how to bridge the gap in leadership development and turn vulnerabilities into strengths. We delve into the significance of effective communication, the nuances of following a founder’s footsteps, and the importance of leaning into your unique contributio...

Send us Fan Mail What if we told you that freedom is like a unique language, one that not everyone can understand? Join me on this eye-opening episode of the Unlearned Podcast as I recount my recent journey back into the world of music, playing the piano at a youth camp and a friend's EP release. These experiences brought to light the importance of connecting with like-minded individuals who...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how young professionals tackle perfectionism, navigate their career paths, and find a balance between personal growth and professional success? Discover the candid and inspiring stories of Amir  and Joya  in the season finale of the Unlearned Podcast, where our hosts Ruth Abigail (Ra) and Jaquetta bring you a wealth of insights and practical advice. Listen in as Amir...

Send us Fan Mail What if your mistakes were the stepping stones to your greatest growth? In this  conversation, we delve into the privilege of making mistakes and how each stumble has been a vital part of our journey. We discuss the freedom that comes from trying new things, even when they don't go as planned, and the significance of embracing unpaid opportunities to build skills and knowledg...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered how a simple makeover could spark a lifelong friendship? In this episode, we invite our special guest, Producer Joy (Producer of the UnLearnT Podcast), to join us in reminiscing about nearly two decades of shared memories and the transformative moments that shaped our bond. From Ruth Abigail's early days of iconic tank tops and hair clips to her evoluti...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we challenge the idea of splitting your life into separate compartments and introduce a fresh perspective on integrity, likening it to the wholeness of an "integer." Every part of our lives impacts the others, and we explore how embracing this interconnectedness can lead to genuine personal growth. In our deeper discussion, we dive into the essence of pe...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when the discomfort you feel isn't a signal of danger, but rather an opportunity for growth? We dive into the often-overlooked challenges of making friends as adults, where the eagerness for companionship can lead to misplaced trust. Drawing from the wisdom of my father, we categorize friendships into four distinct groups: casual friends, cohorts, close friends,...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt on edge during life's transitions, questioning whether it's genuine danger or just discomfort? We dive deep into managing these feelings and offer our own experiences to help you feel more secure amidst change. From relationship shifts to job changes, we discuss how to manage rather than eliminate discomfort and the importance of facing our fears head-...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself tangled in beliefs that no longer serve you? This Freedom Friday, my best friend, Jaquetta Ross, joins me for a transformative discussion on the liberating journey of unlearning—an odyssey that is reshaping our personal narratives. We'll dive into the insights Jaquetta has gained from her recent speaking engagements, particularly during Black History and W...

Send us Fan Mail What if maturity didn't have to mean losing your joy? On this Freedom Friday episode of the Unlearned Podcast, I revisit that very question, inspired by a poignant scene from "Inside Out 2." Imagine Joy, the ever-optimistic character, grappling with the reality that growing up could mean having less joy. This revelation hit me hard and prompted me to challenge the c...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what happens when preconceived notions of faith community clash with reality? Ruth recounts her eye-opening experience at divinity school, confronting her own self-righteousness and learning to see others through a more compassionate, God-like lens. Through their stories, Ruth and Jaquetta highlight the importance of personal growth, differentiation, and the ongoing...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt shackled by your own internal rulebook?  We'll unveil the steps to identify and transform the "always" and "never" declarations that dictate our actions, urging you to evolve these rules to align with your present self and leave behind those that belong to yesterday. Prepare to confront the possibly uncomfortable but ultimately liberatin...

Send us Fan Mail RA and Jaquetta then share their diverse faith journeys, revealing how their distinct backgrounds shaped their spiritual paths. From RA's upbringing as a pastor's kid to Jaquetta's transient life as part of a military family, we uncover how different experiences can lead to a shared commitment to faith. We delve into the importance of discipline and consistency in m...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered how your childhood experiences shape your leadership abilities? Explore the surprising ways Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development impacts your growth as a leader as we dive into how each life stage, from infancy to adulthood, influences your ability to lead effectively. We share compelling personal stories and PhD research findings, shedding...

Send us Fan Mail Can effective leadership transform your team from good to great? Tune in to the Unlearned Podcast as we explore the heart of leadership with Ruth Abigail (RA) and Jaquetta. In this special two-part series, we reveal the origin story of our podcast, rooted in our mutual support and shared leadership experiences. This episode is rich with insights on preparing young leaders for the...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself paralyzed by the fear of public speaking or hesitated in crucial conversations? Imagine transforming that anxiety into confident and clear communication. Drawing from ten years of leadership, we unravel how a lack of confidence or clarity can hold young leaders back, leading to missed opportunities and unresolved conflicts. By the end, you'll not only unde...