Hannah Hutchinson, No. 34 Collective [dba] Your Conflict Coach

The Unconflicted Podcast

Education EN ↓ 26 episodes

Brave conversations. Real boundaries. Relationships that don’t drain you. Tired of walking on eggshells, avoiding hard conversations, or spiraling after every disagreement? Unconflicted is your no-bullsh!t guide to handling conflict without losing your cool—or yourself. Let me help you understand why conflict exists, why it’s uncomfortable, and how to approach it in a way that creates resolution, not destruction. Watch on YouTube: @theunconflictedpodFollow me on Insta & Tiktok: @yourconflictcoac.hh

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Hannah Hutchinson, No. 34 Collective [dba] Your Conflict Coach

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Education

Latest episode

Oct 10, 2025

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Episodes

04: The Compassion Series - There's a lot going on... 10.10.2025

In this episode, Hannah kicks off the Compassion Series , exploring how to navigate today’s divisive world with more curiosity, empathy, and calm. Learn how to communicate thoughtfully, set healthy boundaries, and manage relationships with compassion — even when conversations get hard. If you’ve ever felt drained by conflict or unsure how to respond to differing opinions, this episode will help yo...

03: Pressure Makes Diamonds...? 18.08.2025

This episode is a short pep-talk and yap sesh. We talk about procrastination, perfectionism, and the pressure to always “get it right.” We unpack confirmation bias, tough decision-making, and the power of intentional living. We give it all we've got, and that doesn't always look the same. Host Info: Hannah Hutchinson, M.A. yourconflictcoachh@gmail.com yourconflictcoachh.square.site insta: @yourcon...

02: You Asked... (& I Answered.) 08.08.2025

Q&A-style episode, answering: How much should we change for other people? How do I know if my relationship is stagnant/lukewarm? How do I know if someone's the one? What impact has social media had on relationships? What is a conflict coach? ... & more, in under 30 minutes! References & Sources: https://rdcu.be/ezLXy https://www.gottman.com/blog/this-one-thing-is-the-biggest-predictor-...

01: The Art of a Reset 01.08.2025

There is an art to a reset. Are you eligible? Do you know what life you want? Do you know which parts of your life don't align? Do you believe you deserve an aligned life? If YES... Plan for what you want Detach from what isn't serving you Take action accordingly Host Info: Hannah Hutchinson, M.A. yourconflictcoachh@gmail.com yourconflictcoachh.square.site insta: @yourconflictcoac.hh | @theunconfl...

Knowing Best with Morgan Kilgore 16.05.2024

You can find Morgan Kilgore & her daycare on social media @lilcats870 Morgan Kilgore (Early Childhood Development Specialist, Childcare Owner, & Children's Advocate) talks with Hannah about the minds of children, and what we can learn from them. She answers questions such as: How do young children typically approach and resolve conflicts?  In what ways do children express and manage t...

Making Meaning with Tucker Partridge 08.05.2024

You can find Tucker Partridge on Linkedin, here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tucker-partridge Tucker Partridge (writer, wordsmith, comedian, & marketing expert) talks with Hannah about the power of words and language, and why our intentionality matters. He answers questions such as: How does language impact relationships, both personally and professionally, from your perspective as a writer an...

Getting Aligned with Dr. Bri 26.04.2024

(please excuse the audio issues that take place throughout this episode -- I repaired the audio the best I could, and it should be super manageable! It was just a one-off technological mishap!) Dr. Bri of Essence Chiropractic talks with Hannah about the mind-body connection. She answers questions such as: How do you believe mental health influences physical health, especially in terms of chiropra...

Leveling Up 17.04.2024

The goal this season is to provide valuable information in ways the not only make sense, but help you make positive change and level up little by little.  Summary of what to expect from Season 3: relationship between physical and mental wellness  how language impacts emotion, behaviors, relationships conflict thru the eyes of children & what we can learn from them modern medicine hol...

E9 - Finale (ft. my husband) 18.06.2023

An open, honest, vulnerable conversation in which my husband, Gage, and I inventory our compatibility together! We want you guys to have a clear example of how this conversation can look, even if it doesn't go as expected! To find my social media, contact me, follow me, or book me click here: https://linktr.ee/yourconflictcoac.hh <3 Hannah, Your Conflict Coach (& Gage)

E8 - Compatibility Inventory 23.05.2023

A walk thru compatibility types and how to assess your personal compatibility with any of the people in your life. To find my social media, contact me, follow me, or book me click here: https://linktr.ee/yourconflictcoac.hh <3 Hannah, Your Conflict Coach

E7 - Conflict Conversations 17.04.2023

"Okay I know we should talk about it... but what would I say?!" If this is a common quote in your life, this episode is for you. Let's talk about talking about it. To find my social media, contact me, follow me, or book me click here: https://linktr.ee/yourconflictcoac.hh <3 Hannah, Your Conflict Coach

E6 - Don't Take it Personal 03.04.2023

Digging into Step 5 of my Tips to Reducing Conflict in your life, the final piece of the emotional intelligence puzzle falls into place with a discussion on how our individual experiences as humans shape the way we handle conflict and relationships-- especially how to understand that that applies just as much to others as it does to us. To find my social media, contact me, follow me, or book me cl...

E5 - Reactive or Responsive? 25.03.2023

Everything you'll need to learn more about reacting vs. responding on my social media, contact me, follow me, or book me can be found here: https://linktr.ee/yourconflictcoac.hh <3 Hannah, Your Conflict Coach

E4 - Emotionally Hijacked 16.03.2023

Our brains cannot process logic and emotion at the same time, so we HAVE to learn how to recognize our emotional surges and interpret/process them (and prioritize that over the immediate release of emotional tension). In order to understand others, we have to understand ourselves- when we do that, we learn just how unique and intricate humans are, and it makes empathy much easier. Let me walk you...

E3 - Boundary Basics 10.03.2023

Boundary setting is becoming more and more crucial every day, and society knows it -- ICYMI, boundaries are kind of trending right now. But why are they important? Why do I struggle to set them and keep them? Why do I feel so bad about setting them? What if they get mad? Let me walk you through how to start making these changes in your everyday life. Everything you'll need to contact me, follow me...

E2 - Expectation Management 03.03.2023

Managing our expectations is one of the hardest things we can do, but it has a significant impact on the amount of conflict in our lifes (aka: DRASTICALLY REDUCES IT). Let me walk you through how to start making these changes in your everyday life. Instagram: @yourconflictcoac.hh Facebook: @yourconflictcoac.hh YouTube: @yourconflictcoachh TikTok: @yourconflictcoac.hh

E1 - Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself 20.02.2023

Overview of what to expect in Season 2 -- Updates and Changes What is a conflict coach? Why did I choose conflict coaching? What can you do to reduce conflict in your life? 5 shifts that will change your life. Instagram: @yourconflictcoac.hh Facebook: @yourconflictcoac.hh YouTube: @yourconflictcoachh TikTok: @yourconflictcoac.hh

PEACEMAKING - Reorganizing the Way We Process Conflict Situations 03.04.2022

FAQs Covered: Is my conflict style permanent? Is it something I just have to live with? Absolutely not. You can put in work to change your natural reactions to things. It takes several times doing something to build a habit. It definitely can be situational, but just because something's your instinctual reaction doesn't mean you're stuck with that. It's not like a self-identification or personalit...

STONEWALLED - What Comes Next When Nothing is Working? 30.03.2022

Stonewalling is what happens when someone mentally checks out of a relationship, any type of relationship -- they're refusing to resolve issues, have conversations, or react and respond to other people's attempts at connection or resolution. With stonewalling, there's no immediate step forward. You can eventually get to the forward point you want to be at, but you can't walk through a stone wall....

EXPECTATIONS - Establishing Peaceful Foundations in Relationships 23.03.2022

FAULT RESPONSIBILITY What are my responsibilities in this relationship? What are their responsibilities in this relationship? Was everyone upholding their responsibilities? Are these responsibilities agreed upon? And if not, why not? Would their answer to those questions be the same? If you think that it would, how do you know? Even if something is 1000% someone else's fault or if it's 1000% your...

RESPONSIBILITY - Focusing on What Really Matters in Conflict 14.03.2022

When we’re seeing the conflict through the filter of our emotions, we attack the relationship instead of the problem. We ask ourselves “WHO made me feel this way?” instead of “WHAT is making me feel this way?” or "WHY am I feeling this way?" That’s why emotions are such a huge part of our individual perception of a conflict, BUT you have to be able to recognize that everyone’s individual perceptio...

RESOLUTION - Finding Constructive Solutions to Destructive Conflicts 06.03.2022

Most Common Destructive Reactions: Active -- Winning at All Costs Blind Anger/Rage Demeaning Others Retaliating Passive -- Avoiding Accomodating Hiding Important Emotions Self-Criticizing Most Common Constructive Reactions: Active -- Perspective Taking Creating Solutions Expressing Emotions Reaching Out Passive -- Reflective Thinking Delay Responding Adapting FIND ME ON SOCIALS!! ig : @yourconflic...

COLLABORATING - Retraining Our Instinctual Reactions to Conflict 27.02.2022

If you take nothing else from this episode, take this: Peace does not come from avoiding conflict. Peace comes from avoiding destructive reactions, and retraining ourselves to react constructively instead. 3 Circle Exercise Smallest Inner ("Core") Circle --> 3-5 primary pieces of your identity as an individual Next, Wider Circle --> 3-5 important pieces of your identity that aren't central t...

REPAIRED - Why We Should Relearn How to Approach Conflict 20.02.2022

If you take nothing else from this episode, take this: We are in this together. If all you've done lately is take baby steps out of the darkness, that's enough. Getting from the valley to the mountain top takes some climbing. Notes: Compromising is a good "back-up" for collaboration when you (or anyone else involved) does not have the mental/emotional capacity to handle the conflict collaborativel...

DAMAGED - Understanding What Makes Conflict Destructive 13.02.2022

This week: Avoiding, Dominating (AKA: Competing), Accommodating Next week: Compromising vs. Collaborating FIGHT OR FLIGHT = [Dominating] or [Avoiding] When can you use the "bad" conflict styles? Avoiding is ideal when : issues are trivial, there's a 0% chance of a mutually satisfactory resolution, or someone needs time to process the conflict before confronting it Dominating is necessary when : th...

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