The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

At some point most men have heard, felt, or internalized the notion — it’s not okay to be a man. This is one of the most destructive and tragic falsities a man can believe. It’s responsible for more toxic behavior, self harm, and outward harm than any other belief men take in. When we change this, we stop the massively destructive behavior its shadow creates. Until we change this — we won’t. Men —...

The drug addiction fight is tough but not impossible to win. These addictions can cause mental health problems that eventually affect the individual, leaving them almost at a point of no return. Being necessary therapy, willpower, and a lot of support either from family, friends, or people close to the affected person. As our guest, we will have Alison Kerwin. Alison's brother passed after struggl...

Learn how to pick not only your house lock but also those on your mind to get freedom. Today's guest is Pat Watson, a man with the impressive ability of lockpicking. Pat's clients range from homesteaders to engineers and even a blind couple to whom he teaches lock picking and locking while guides them to a philosophy of life where each individual's freedom is paramount valued. In today's episode,...

We have all been rejected at one point in our lives, but each decides how to deal with it. Some deal with it focusing their attention on something else, others get depressed, and for some, it means to keep working towards their goals. Turn 10,000 no's into 10,001 chances just like today's guest Matthew Del Negro did; this is not only the number of times he was possibly rejected, but it's also the...

In this completely raw and unedited podcast I dive into the Not All Men hashtag. More importantly I dive into the very real issue of male violence and what we as men can do to be part of the real solution. Please forgive any sound quality issues, this was recorded and uploaded immediately as it needs to be out in the world. Please share this if you find it valuable. And remember — let others be sa...

There are circumstances in our life that we simply cannot control, and cancer is one of them. Today's guest is Themer Abourayan, an exceptional coach for whom I have affection and appreciation. Themer is a fantastic man and an example of overcoming. A man with brutal honesty that you can appreciate in today's episode. We will hear his story of how he survived cancer as a very young person and lear...

An impressive transformation! Going from being an incredible athlete, having a promising hockey career to changing it for Kundalini yoga, and becoming a spiritual and physical guide. Today's guest is Ra Of Earth. Known for being an incredible athlete in the world of hockey and CrossFit, Ra made the transition of his life when he discovered Kundalini yoga. Ra, found a spirituality that has only gro...

Master the game of life and business and get ready to learn which buttons to press in order to win. Today's guest is Eric Siu, a gamer and CEO of the digital agency Single Grain. Also, he is the host of the massively popular podcast Marketing School and Growth Everywhere. In today's episode, Eric will share what it is like to live through a video game perspective, turning his life into a constant...

Shame. Consent. Potential. In this solo conversation I dive into three of the areas of growth and exploration I benefited from as a member of the BDSM community. Each of them could be an episode on their own but these will give you insight into how to change your relationship, your sex life, and your view of the world. Enjoy! Traver

Society is so focused on labels that we label people as white or black, gay or straight, thin or fat, rich or poor, rather than humans from the moment they are born. The problem arises when instead of just being superficial physical characteristics, it becomes a definition of who you should be as a person. The moment you get out of the pattern of what that label entails, you become a threat to the...

Being arrested, lived in federal prison, and finally get out of it and being in a better place to find out that his long-term girlfriend was cheating on him, this is the life-changing story of today's guest, Fabian Rodriguez. Fabian is a medicine man. He facilitates ceremonies in Peru and Mexico using medicinal herbs, and for today's episode, we will have a great conversation about Ayahuasca. Ayah...

The connection with nature has been something that humans have lost over time. For today's episode we will have Darren Silver a nature-connected coach; his job is to guide people to nature. Darren will explain to us the importance of the connection with nature in the life of the human being, how the vision quest are the tools to achieve this connection and we will delve into the meaning of this co...

Raise your hand if you’re a Nice Guy. When asked that five years ago, my hand shot straight up. Now, thank god, it stays down. If you’re tired of living someone else’s life, hiding from conflict, and praying that you go through life unnoticed, this episode is for you. If you’re tired of putting everyone else first and falling asleep exhausted but unsatisfied with your own life, this episode is for...

Being an artist means having a life full of passion and creativity. Sometimes there is a lack of creativity, and other times they have a lot of it. In this episode, we will have a special guest for me, Jay Alders. Jay came into my life through his art when I was going through a difficult time. He is a fantastic artist who seeks to reach people through his artistic diversity. During this episode, w...

From having a life of adventure to turning his life into a unique experience; this is Kirk Williams's story. After suffering an accident that left him quadriplegic, Kirk figured out ways to travel the world helping others in the same situation. A trip through South America made him see the reality in underdeveloped countries, where people in wheelchairs often face difficulties in their transportat...

Herbal medicine has been considered taboo in different countries around the world to the point of being illegal. In the Amazon and South American communities, we can find expert tribes in the creation and use of these medicines, considering them as part of their culture and very proud of it, to the point that the use of these medicines is common. In this episode, we will have Erebus as a guest. Th...

Men have our own way. Of thinking. Moving. And being. When we recognize that and work from this place of truth, much of the confusion about what it means to be a man drops away. In this solo episode I break down The Five Pillars of UNcivilized Masculinity and go over each one. 1. Strength 2. Presence 3. Responsibility 4. Obsession 5. Competency You’ll walk away from this episode with an easy map t...

"We are in the midst of the greatest mental health crisis the world has ever seen."- Connor Beaton. Since 2019 we have been dealing with the Covid pandemic, even this year, which has been a radical lifestyle change for millions of people worldwide. The human being was born to live in society and now is being forced to live in isolation. In this episode, we will have a special guest who has influen...

All diversities and differences must be respected. The differences exist. Differences of opinion, thinking, acting, cultural, political, social, gender, and even race. All differences merit respect. Today's guest Shannon Rohrer-Phillips met us in this episode. She has an amazing voice on matters such as race, gender, and women empowerment. What can we do as a country to come together, the differen...

Empower yourself. As men, we have always been civilized to repress our masculinity, our body, so as not to look like pigs or deprived when it comes to our sexuality. Creating many men traumas and complexes on this subject. In today's episode with Chris Bale, we will talk about masculinity, what it is, how to achieve it, how to overcome trauma through it. You will learn that worshiping your bod...

Imagine being exploring nature and suddenly being hit by a hurricane in the Caribbean, but most importantly, having survived and been able to tell your experience not only through words but also through a film. This is the short story of today's guest, Michael Lees. In this episode, you will hear the amazing story of Michael who, after surviving Hurricane Maria in Dominica, released his film, whic...

What's meant for you will come even if you step off. What's not, won't come even if you step in. In this episode, you will meet Danh Trang. He is a man who has found his passion in the business world. As the son of immigrant parents, Danh learned about entrepreneurship from a young age,  finding his path in the world of business and technology. This is an episode that you cannot miss. We will...

In this solo, unedited freestyle episode, I share with you the three powerful frames you can adopt immediately to turn 2021 into your best year yet. Enjoy, Traver

How good is your relationship with money? Do you guys get along? Or do you keep distance from each other? Having a good relationship with money entails good management, challenges, mindset and ... maybe having a coach to teach us how to achieve it. For this episode, we will have Joetta Johnson, a financial coach whom I met 5 years ago in my search to create a good relationship with money and learn...

Life is a roller coaster full of challenges, tragedies, joys, and sorrows that bring us experiences, whether negative or positive. In today's episode, we will have a guest who takes advantage of the lows he suffered to become a leader in the eyes of many men in search of help and advice. Today's guest is Alan Crawford. After suffering a divorce, reaching the point of living with his parents, and s...