The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Entering the world of pornography as an actor can sometimes be out of necessity or fun, but getting out of the stigmas and labels people create about you is not easy. Today's guest is a former porn actor that after more than 20 years in the industry, he decided to abandon it and teach men how to have a better sex life. You know what they say, "Practice makes the master." Discover in...

Today you will hear an unplugged episode where we will once again have the unique Perri Chase as a guest. We could describe this woman as a force in the world since her sincerity, knowledge, personality, and wisdom leaves more than one with their mouths open after hearing what she has to say. Prepared for round two of truths, today Perri will be talking to us about racial equity, religion, dynamic...

Relationships are not like in movies, where everything is rosy; every single one has its ups and downs. Imagine spending years of your life being a lone wolf and suddenly meeting someone so special that lights a spark in you by changing your life, awakening the desire to become a father and husband; this beautiful story happened to our guest, Jordan Gray. During his coaching years, Jordan has help...

It takes balls to say, "Yes, I am a porn addict." Like many addictions, pornography addiction has an origin. Wounds, pain, trauma are the foremost causes that millions of people look for unhealthy and often self-destructive ways to cope, finding a kind of "refuge" or "relief" in addictions. Today's guest is Troy Love, a man who sought to heal his pain and took refuge in pornography for many years,...

It's not only okay to celebrate your wins, it's important. Have a close, trusted group of people and celebrate your wins, both big and small. AND If you are stuck, know that it’s part of the process. Often times before a big shift is when things feel the most stagnant. Living outside the box is hard. Celebrate your wins.  Keep working, keeping pushing. Have a kickass weekend and go be UNcivil...

**Today's episode comes with an adult content warning** The movie 50 Shades of Gray came out in 2015, revealing a not very recent subject. Since it dates from the time leather, whips, and free sexual expression dominated the gay subculture. Today, this topic has given rise to much debate in our society, and everyone wants to know "What is BDSM?", To answer all your questions, we will...

You're not alone in the world! During the global pandemic, the sense of loneliness was one of the biggest battles we had to survive as a society. Today's guest Leila Dylla was able to see how connections helped heal hundreds of people. For this reason, Leila left us a message in today's episode: "Connections are medicine." On September 17th and 18th, with Leila, we will have...

The human being is the only animal that decides to sacrifice its hours of sleep. Different factors can influence its lack. We all know that stress, work, and responsibilities usually play a considerable role, but we must comprehend that this has consequences in the short and long term. Today Dr. Kirk Parsley will give us a masterclass. He will explain the importance, consequences, and benefits tha...

The only inevitable thing in this life is death. Today we have an episode full of questions, with answers that will make you think deeper and ask for a better question. This episode will undoubtedly make you appreciate every second you spend alive and make you feel better about death. All of us, at some point in our lives, have been afraid of death. Today's guest, Stephen Jenkinson, will drop...

There are different ways of conceptualizing masculinity. Today's guest is Rick Alexander, and in today's episode, he will teach us what it means to be a man from the mythological perspective. Have you ever felt that you are not answering your call? You are not the only one. Rick will share his story with us about how he went from being a military man to following his call and becoming a writer, sp...

In this solo episode I bring you back to my professional MMA day in sunny Southern California and share how a simple conversation changed my life forever. So many of you reach out to me asking about when the day will come…the magical day…when suddenly you won’t be afraid to live your life on your terms. In this episode, I’ll tell you exactly when that day will come. Enjoy, Traver If you look at th...

For many years, women were perceived as the weaker sex, unable to perform activities or carry out roles in which men were the gender determined to fulfill them, taking them to prove themselves, their courage, and strength. Women like today's guest Shelli Varela didn't have the idea that their dreams will open the door for many women in the future. After following her dreams to become a firefighter...

In this episode I dissect a Tim Grover quote and show how it applies so deeply on your path from civilized to UNcivilized. We’ll look at the potential challenges that come with living outside of the box and challenging the collective unconscious. Buckle up for this, it’s a wild ride. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podca...

Being aware of our appearance is not at odds with our masculinity. In this episode, Tanner Guzy will be part of our podcast. He will bring us an uncivilized conversation, where we will talk about style and appearance. We may think this is a subject only related to women, but it is also undoubtedly necessary in men since it can positively affect our lives, jobs, and even how children perceive their...

In this unique episode, you will have a taste of what we live in the UNcivilized Nation. Every week in our community, we enjoy The Elder Series—a conversation in which our great minds Mark Silvester and Duey Freeman, enlighten us with their knowledge, wisdom, and stories. Today we share with you this week's broadcast conversation about the elderly. Mark and Duey are the hosts in this week's duo ep...

It does not matter if you believe in the evolution theory or the divine creation of a God. What is undeniable is that the human being adapts to the environment and the situations around him. This week's guest is an uncivilized woman. She teaches people to have a deeper connection with themselves to the point of reaching the deepest roots of the human essence. Her name is Jamie Thompson, and she is...

A video that started harmlessly ended in hundreds of attacks through social networks; this is the reality today's guest Kaylor Betts lives today. After filming a video talking about mental health, Kaylor's video responses turned from applause to hatred, shocking! Today he is here to tell us what he experienced during the storm of opinions, attacks, and threats received on his social networks. Not...

Have you ever been carried away by impulses, feeling your existence has no purpose and reached a point of constant stress? Then, you're not breathing correctly. Today's guest is Brian MacKenzie, a human performance specialist. Brian educates people on how to perform at their highest biological potential, and he is here to talk to us about the five minutes breath holds and childhood traumas, everyt...

Dating after divorce can be some scary territory, but it doesn’t have to. Here are some keys to making this experience rich, safe, and enjoyable for everyone involved. Be interesting Be honest Be curious Be Safe Be a leader Happy dating, Traver

We all love good stories. The ones that make us laugh, cry, scream, and have nightmares at night; every story that generates a feeling is certainly a story to remember. My present and everything I am I owe to my story and the person who gave me reasons to share it with the world, today's guest, Kymberlee Weil. Do you want to be remembered? Then you have to listen to this episode where we will be t...

Through the years Leila and Traver have both been helping their own communities heal their wounds, deepen their connections and have taught many times together all around the world. In this episode, Traver welcomes Leila back to the podcast to discuss conscious relationships, connection and waking up to a deeper sense of happiness. They take a deep, deep  dive into living more intimately with...

The United States has been struggling with racial problems since the colonial era where dislike or rejection of racial minorities was common. Over the years, these minorities have raised their voices to ask for equality, respect, opportunities, and rights, generating enormous changes at the cultural and social levels. But, the fight is not over yet. Racism is still latent in our country and is ing...

I spent all of 2016 doing a radical social experiment, living the year as if it were my last one. It change EVERYTHING about how I exist and how I view life. In this episode, I’m asking you to ponder your existence and what in it you would or would not shift, if you only had five more years on this Earth. Light. Fluffy. Stuff. Enjoy, Traver

There is nothing better than feeling free, even if it means taking one of the most important transitions of our lives to achieve it. Today's guest, Valentine Thomas, is an example of freedom — she is a woman who decided to abandon a stable career in the world of law to immerse herself in the depths of the ocean and live daily from the wonders it offers. Valentine will join us in today's episode to...

"I am not "Anti" anything, I am pro Love."  Kiné is a die-hard optimist that embraces love as the lens through which she sees everything, she feels progress is inherantly incremental and inclusive.  Dive into this unapologetic conversation on unity and division, what is the difference between intimate and personal, the power of progress, and how to create meaningful connection. This epis...