The Unchased Life

Why do you repeat a relationship pattern when you already know where it leads? In this episode, Mara unpacks the painful gap between understanding your attachment pattern and being able to interrupt it in real time. You’ll learn why sending the text, checking the phone, or reaching out again doesn’t mean you’ve failed. These reactions are often old instructions moving faster than your conscious ch...

What if you’re not chasing the person, but the feeling you hope they’ll finally give you? In this episode, Mara explores why emotionally unavailable relationships can feel so difficult to release. You’ll learn how old attachment rules can lead you to overgive, overexplain, change your plans, and leave yourself behind just to maintain access to someone else. Discover the difference between temporar...

You can lead a business, manage a full life, and still lose your entire morning to one text that feels off. The Unchased Life is for high-achieving women who understand their attachment style but still find themselves overthinking, chasing clarity, questioning their worth, and abandoning themselves when love feels uncertain. Hosted by Mara Palermo, this podcast explores anxious attachment, avoidan...