The Unbecoming

  Give it back to yourself!!!   Yes yes yes all the love, light, inspiration we have been giving to others our entire life.   How do we do this?  Especially when we are our biggest critics, our own inner bullies, judgers, condemners?   Well my friends listen & hear how to dive deep within & travel to where you are calling for love because its time. Time to open your heart up to YOU!   JOIN THE UNB...

  We are here at the fork in the road with 2 paths that present themselves.  One path we walked & are very familiar with.  The other is the road we have dreamt about, one that always seemed far & distant but we know its calling us.   In this episode uncover that the road of fear is the deep sleep & amnesia of the mind, literally blinding you to the other path & keeping you hostage.  The work is di...

It is time to CLEANSE our mind of all the negative states, stories, beliefs & interjects that are harming you.   Out thoughts & words are so powerful we are always creating & most of the time we are not conscious of what we are thinking & the negative things we may be saying that is keeping us a loop of suffering. What does not feel good IS NOT TRUE OF YOU!!!  This is how you know where your mind...

FEAR NOT!!!  Is your FREEDOM whispering to you?  Are you tired & weary & ready for change & to set yourslef free?  Gain awareness of what you are prisoner too in your outside reality & in your inner world (your thoughts, beliefs & feelings).  When we become aware that we have a choice in this very moment to free oursleves from being hostage to the fear everything is going to start to change.  Your...

What are you identifying with in your mind?   When we give faith to the ego states we are in suffering, sickness, lack & limitations.   When we give faith to our Spirit we are in love, happiness, joy, abundance, wholeness, worthiness, limitlessness & fearlessness. We have complete dominion over our minds.  No one is forcing us to think & feel specific things.  No one is making us bully ourselves i...

Ego sees ego & Spirit sees Spirit   When we really start diving into our minds & how we are thinking & feeling we are able to connect the dots & see that our projections within are creating our perceptions on the without. It is changing our world.   Lets start to really be mindful of our own thoughts, beliefs, narratives that we are still holding on to that are not of love.  It is time to step int...

What is mine to see, feel, heal & release & what is not mine?  This is where you begin to discern everything that you are experiencing in your environment, especially what is harming you. When you ask the powerful questions; What did this trigger within me? What am I feeling in this moment? Then begin to give it to yourself & understand deeper what is left to release & what is not yours to take on...

Is it time to Walk Your Truest Path?  We all know on this journey we have jumped off of our path & maybe got lost for a bit in fear or the old ways of being.   The gift is that we always get back on the path of our light & Divinity because it is the journey we are here to walk.   Let's dive into why we wander off our path & how we can stay true to ourselves & our own personal journeys by feeling &...

It is time to awaken to the suits of suffering you still may be wearing.  The deepest roots of our suffering that come from childhood are the most familiar suits we go into still & the ones that you are ready now to shed.  They were the first ones we were taught to wear & now they are the last ones to release so we can return home to oursleves. The end of our suffering is our own choice.  Because...

The time of rebirth of your Deep Self, who you really are.  When we are on this journey walking this path of The Unbecoming we can feel sometimes like we are in a tug of war.  Our old self & who we are becoming, who we have always been deep down.  What ends up happening sometimes is confusion as we don't resonate with the old patterns, thoughts & stories but they are still popping up & showing up....

What seeds are you planting in your mind?   What thoughts, stories, beliefs, narratives, programs have been planted & are just running on default that you do not want to believe anymore? When you begin to start to really see what your mind & feelings have been creating & connect the dots to all of it, this is when you step into your true power & become the conscous creator that you are here to be....

Walking in the truth of you & a new way of being is the practice now.  The tug of war between our old selves, patterns, conditioning & beliefs has been happening.  We are being tugged so we turn back & cower.  It is time for us to step into our truest essence, our power & truth.  You are here for a reason, you have gifts & talents only you posess, you are so special & so needed in this world.  Whe...

Unveiling the Masterpiece & the Truth! The Unbecoming is the shedding of everything that is not you, the false suits, negative beiliefs, past pain & trauma & all that we have identified ourselves with. The journey back to the TRUTH of everything that is YOU is the great awakening.  As you journey deeper within you gain more awareness & continue to rise above the false beliefs & suffering.  As you...

What is the false self?  It everything that we have identified to be who we are but its everything that is NOT us.  Our suffering is the belief in this false self & identifying with it.  This is The Unbecoming & this journey.  When we begin to see everything that hurts us & doesn't feel good within is NOT who we are, this is the beginning of the REMEMBERING of the Truth of You. Unpack & learn the...

Everything that triggers us is teaching us.  We don't think this is true or fair really, but it is exactly this.  All of your triggers are your teachers they are happening for you to love yourself more, heal wounds, stand in your authenticity & not allow anything thats harming or hurting you.   When we start to look at our triggers as lessons & get curious with ourselves we understand the deeper p...

Time for us to REMEMBER who we are & to drop into our hearts, to trust & follow that.  We are so very used to following our minds, pros & cons, worst case scenario's, what's logical etc.  We get so used listening to this, that & the other we can not hear the quiet whispers of our heart. As we walk this path beginning to follow our heart & intuition it is a practice, so give yourself grace. We lear...

So many of us may feel like we are a victim & everything is happening to us.  We may even feel powerless, helpless & frustrated with how is just so hard at times.  Todays episode is going to help you shift perspectives from "life is happening to me" to "life is happening for me" because it is. This statement will change everthing for you.  When you are able to see that everything is happening for...

When can my empathy become my achilles heel?  How does that even happen? Of course we want to be loving, kind, compassionate, forgiving & have our hearts open.  But sometimes we can do this with specific players in our lives that are using our empathy as their weapon to hurt us & trample our hearts.   What was the most interesting for me when I awoke to this, is that underneath all of the overgivi...

Why is it so hard for us to forgive?  Why do we hold grievences for years & years against those who hurts us.  Why do we condemn them quietly in our minds & hearts?  Why do we not forgive ourselves?   Lets dive deep into why we struggle to forgive & what it does to us when we do not forgive.  This path is about living your best life & in love & this might be the lingering piece that is blocking yo...

Why do we still feel guilt on this path?  When will it be done?  Will it ever go away?   When we start practicing being authentically us, we sometimes find ourselves feeling more guilty because choosing ourselves is not as familiar as dimming our light & not being us. Its much easier, more familiar & comforfotable to go into patterns & behaviours of our old way of being that are harmful to us, tha...

Why do we hold on to people, identities, jobs, or things that cause us suffering.  Why do we stay in places that are harming us.  Why do we wake up to the same ground hog day or dread of not loving our life?  Sometimes we do not even see that we are holding on to things that are not serving us & are actually harming us.  We can sometimes think this is the only way, or this is what we have to do be...

The unkown, so many unkowns & this is why we stay stuck & not moving, even when we are unhappy & unfulfilled.  We get comfortable in the suffering, the mudane or even the dread.  Stepping out of all of this takes courage, awareness & faith in ourselves & for most of us this is where we struggle.  It's much easier to put our faith in everyone & everthing else but ourselves.  We sacarafice our happi...

We so often & so very easily get pulled into our old familiar, comfortable & seductive ego suits even thought they DO NOT FEEL GOOD.  It can happen in seconds & before you know it we are in the clouds & can not see anything but what this suit & this lens is showing us.  How do we stop & not get pulled in by anything outside of us or within us?  In this episode get ready to bring it all in, & becom...

How do we surrender?  What does it mean to trust & allow life to show us what's next?  How do I stop pushing, controlling or being attached to the outcome?  In this episode you will start to understand what it might feel like to trust, follow your heart, have faith & know you will be held as you take inspired actions toward your destiny.  So many of us are living our lives just SURVIVING our days...

Gain awareness & understand why it is so hard to fully love oursleves.  We think we love ourself but we don't realize how much we are harbouring against this love, the fear we hold & so much more blocking us from us, which is why we don't feel it deep within.  Until we go deeper & uncover all the blocks & barriers we will continue to not feel happy, fulfilled & truly feeling love for our deep self...