The Susan Winter Show

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here's what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game. The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn't. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. Here is the better line of thinking to assist you i...

Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner — but what you're really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here's the test: 1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so. 2. Know your ‘why.' What's the real reason behind your request? 3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You'll be blamed as being “less spiritual” for having a reaction to their...

Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward. These are the foundational principles: 1.Hope: 2.Filtering: 3.Communication: 4.Process:

Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools: 1.Accepting it's over 2.Separating ‘the dream' from reality 3.Trust LIFE to bring you love again.

What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule' for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.' 3. The Discovery Phase:The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility. 6. Th...

Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart. ·Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is based on genuine love and respect. ·Understand the...

Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this: ·Underlying Factors:Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life ·Break the Cycle:Learn how to break the cycle of being addicted to the drama,...

Are you agonizing over the fact that it's your fault for the breakup? Here's how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation:  ·Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free. ·How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation ·How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that your decision was right, or take action to get yo...

You did everything right — were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here's how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets.

Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here's how to shift your mindset and free your fear

   Monogamy, or Not? Which is the right choice for you? If you don't know what you want, you'll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that's right for you.

   Struggling To Let Go? No one said letting go was easy, but here's how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find love again. 

   They enjoy your company but don't want to commit. What should you do when they like you, but not enough for a relationship? Here's the answer.

   How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here's how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease.

Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there's something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem. Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute you're up in the hopes that you've met somebody, th...

   Are you an over-giver? Feeling unappreciated, burnt out, and resentful?  Here's how over-giving hurts your relationship and what you can do about it. Learn to create a balance between giving and receiving for a healthy, happy partnership.

   How To Overcome Fear of Rejection And Allow Love Into Your Life: Are you sabotaging love by being more afraid of rejection than filtering for the right kind of partner? If you don't know what you want, you will get what they give you. Here's how to set the stage for allowing love into your life and having the type of relationship that's best for you.

How do you repair your relationship after someone cheats? Rebuilding trust and a life together is a concerted effort for which both partners must be truly committed. If you've chosen to stay, then choose to move on. Here is how to rebuild after cheating:

Wish love could be simplified? How do you know if the person you're seeing is worth dating? Here are four signs that prove your date is in alignment with you and your romantic goals.

You're ready to date — but the pickings are slim. Your location and preferences offer a limited selection from which to find your right match. If you're finding 'not ready' and 'not available?' Here's what you can do to increase your dating pool options: 

Happily married, but feel like you never ‘explored' single life? Before you destroy the solidity of what you have, consider these healthy options to satisfy your curiosity.

Wondering how to get over someone you never dated? Are you caught in a loop of obsession and can't seem to break free? Here's what's really going on — learn how to stop wanting them and open up to someone who is available and interested

What is the ‘slow dating process?' Learn the formula to creating a long-lasting love. 

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