The Strong Stoic Podcast

Most of us don’t wake up wanting to be selfish, impatient, or unkind. So why is being good so difficult? In this conversation, I sit down once again with Corey to explore one of the oldest questions in philosophy, faith, and everyday life. Beginning with Rudyard Kipling’s timeless poem If— , we unpack what it really means to choose goodness when life becomes uncomfortable. We discuss why ego fight...

Most people hear Walk on the Moon  and think about astronauts. I think about ordinary people doing extraordinary things. The father holding his newborn.  The recovering alcoholic walking into their first meeting.  The woman rebuilding her life after divorce.  The man finally leaving the job that’s been draining him for years. We all have a “walk on the moon.” In this episode, I use one of my favor...

We all know we should learn from our mistakes. But somewhere along the way, many of us confuse self-reflection with self-punishment. In this episode, I explore the difference between shadow work and self-loathing. Drawing from Stoicism, Carl Jung, Seneca, Dostoevsky, and Tolkien, I examine why looking honestly at our flaws is necessary—and why beating ourselves up for them isn’t. The goal isn’t to...

As we grow stronger, wiser, healthier, and more disciplined, a subtle danger emerges: contempt. It's easy to celebrate strength. It's much harder to remain compassionate toward weakness—especially the weaknesses we once saw in ourselves. In this episode, I explore a paradox at the heart of Stoicism: how to pursue excellence without developing disdain for those who are still struggling. F...

What happens when someone you love dies? In this conversation, I sit down with a returning guest shortly after the loss of his father. We explore grief, mortality, legacy, and the strange reality that every person we meet was once a child, a son, a daughter, and a dream in someone else’s mind. We discuss Stoic perspectives on death, why history remembers some people and forgets others, the danger...

Sometimes the hardest part isn’t the workout, the meeting, the difficult conversation, or the grieving process. It’s the first step. In this episode, Brandon reflects on a lesson shared by Jeff Nippard following the tragic loss of his partner and explores how a simple idea—just take the first step—can help us navigate grief, fear, depression, and resistance. Drawing on personal experiences from th...

Most extraordinary people are never famous. History remembers a few names — Marcus Aurelius, Churchill, Dostoevsky — but civilization itself is carried forward by ordinary people doing small things faithfully. Good fathers. Loyal friends. Honest workers. Men and women who plant trees whose shade they will never sit under. In this episode, I reflect on anonymous greatness, mortality, forgotten ance...

Most people think the worst thing in the world is being alone. But the Stoics made an important distinction between loneliness and solitude. Loneliness is the painful feeling of disconnection — the sense that you do not belong, that no one truly sees you, understands you, or stands beside you. Solitude, however, is something entirely different. Solitude is peace within yourself. It is the ability...

Most people are trying to fix symptoms instead of causes. You miss the gym and think you lack discipline. You eat poorly and think you have weak willpower. You feel exhausted and think you’ve become lazy. But what if those aren’t the real problem? In this episode, I talk about root causes — the foundational issues underneath the visible struggles in our lives. I use my recent work travel and disru...

Most people think Stoicism means being friends with everyone. It doesn’t. In this episode, we break down a hard truth:   not everyone is meant to be your friend. Some people, by their nature, won’t align with you.  Others, by their roles, can’t. And trying to force those relationships doesn’t make you more virtuous—it makes you more confused. We talk about: The difference between kindness and frie...

You’re busy. Life is good. Things are flowing. And that’s exactly when you’re most likely to forget something critical: You’re going to die. In this episode, I break down why thinking about death— especially when life feels good —is one of the most practical Stoic tools you have. We talk about: Why feeling good doesn’t mean you’re living well How comfort quietly leads to wasted time The connection...

You’re not overwhelmed—you’re unprioritized. In this episode, I break down why the feeling of overwhelm isn’t always about having too much to do, but about trying to hold everything to the same standard. We talk about: Why life always feels “too full” as you take on more responsibility The concept of being functionally clean, fit, and present When it’s appropriate to lower standards—and when it’s...

You start something new—and it feels wrong. Not clearly wrong. Just… off. In this episode, I break down why that happens and why it’s not a signal to quit—but a signal to stay. Your nervous system is still calibrated to your old environment. And if you’re not careful, you’ll try to reshape your new life to match the one you left. We talk about: Why your instincts are unreliable during change The S...

Most advice for your 20s is designed to comfort you—not prepare you. In this episode, I break down 12 lessons that don’t sound good… but hold up when life gets difficult. We talk about: Why integrity costs more than people admit The tension between ambition and relationships The loneliness that comes with leadership Why decisiveness matters more than certainty How comfort quietly weakens you And w...

Most of your life is going to feel… repetitive. Wake up. Work. Eat. Train. Sleep. Repeat. And if you’re not careful, you’ll start to believe something is wrong with that. In this episode, I break down why that feeling exists—and why it’s misleading. We talk about: Why movies distort your expectations of life The difference between monotony and meaninglessness How to actually enjoy the ordinary par...

Marcus Aurelius wrote, “The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts.” In this episode, we break down what that really means — and why it’s more psychological than poetic. Your character isn’t shaped by random thoughts. It’s shaped by repeated ones. The ones you rehearse. The ones you circulate. The ones you give attention to daily. We explore: How repeated thoughts build identity Why rese...

Money stresses almost everyone. But Stoicism doesn’t tell us to ignore wealth — it tells us to rank it correctly. In this episode, I break down: Why money isn’t arbitrary (it represents reciprocity and contribution) Why living below your means is philosophical discipline The Stoic case for saving and investing The difference between stewardship and obsession Why generosity requires order Wealth is...

Every man has his excuses. And the more vile the man becomes, the more touching the story has to be. In this episode of The Strong Stoic, we explore a brutal truth: no one thinks they’re the villain. From The Blade Itself to Game of Thrones to Breaking Bad , we examine how the human mind protects itself with narrative. We talk about: Why evil rarely feels evil from the inside How rationalization b...

In this episode of The Strong Stoic, I sit down with an active-duty Navy submarine officer to explore Stoicism through the lens of military leadership, conflict, and responsibility. We discuss: Why Stoicism isn’t emotional suppression The role of anger in leadership and combat How virtue makes you more effective — not softer Why roles matter more than feelings The connection between strength train...

Most people don’t fail at Stoicism because they don’t know enough. They fail because they don’t practice enough. In this episode, I talk about why I stopped buying Stoic books, why fiction pulled me back into reading, and how the real work of philosophy happens far away from the page. We explore the gap between knowing and becoming, why mastery takes decades—not weeks—and why repetition, not insig...

Our culture glorifies multitasking—but the Stoics would call it a mistake. In this episode of The Strong Stoic Podcast , we explore why doing more at once often means experiencing less. Drawing on Marcus Aurelius and Seneca, we examine presence, intention, and why even “productive” multitasking quietly erodes meaning. We’ll talk about: Why multitasking feels productive but isn’t The difference bet...

Not everyone regulates themselves the same way. Some people measure their actions by character. Others measure by consequences. In this episode, we explore the difference between internal and external regulation , why Stoics tend to be internal regulators, and why that can quietly lead to rumination and burnout if left unchecked. We cover: Why not everyone thinks the way you do How internal regula...

Most leadership failures don’t come from incompetence. They come from imbalance. Too much edge and people comply—but stop trusting you. Too much kindness and standards quietly collapse. Real leadership lives in the tension between humanity and consequence. In this episode, I break down: Why edge without warmth creates feaWhy kindness without teeth creates entitlement What “teeth” actually mean (an...

In this episode, Brandon sits down with an educator and school principal, Kyle Sarka, to explore Stoic resilience —not as brute toughness, but as endurance guided by wisdom . The conversation moves fluidly between Stoic philosophy , leadership , fitness , history , and modern life , examining what it really means to persevere when outcomes are uncertain and comfort is abundant. Rather than glorify...

In this episode of The Strong Stoic , I explore a Stoic paradox: the one making the most progress often feels it the least. Drawing from Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and real-world examples from leadership, fitness, and personal responsibility, this episode breaks down why conscientious people feel behind, why growth creates insecurity, and why feeling unstable doesn’t mean you’re weak. I talk abou...