The Southern Triad

Send us Fan Mail In this episode we will be answering a listener question involving play partners, specifically at BDSM events. How do people establish trust in a new play partner they may not know well or even have just met? We will give our opinions and share some past experiences to hopefully help guide anyone with questions on how this all works in the BDSM lifestyle.  Please feel free to emai...

Send us Fan Mail Join us to hear what a Ds relationship means from each of our perspectives. We share how we apply dominance and submission to all parts of our relationship and life, both inside the bedroom and out. We may even attempt to ruin the way you think about your grandparent's relationship, or at least slightly disturb you. Either way, it's a good time! Please feel free to email...

Send us Fan Mail This is definitely one of our favorite podcasts so far. Join us to hear some fun, any potentially scary, facts about the three of us. We will share details about our personal and sex lives as well as some strange situations we've found ourselves in. Hopefully this will help everyone understand us a little better and why we love this crazy life! Please feel free to email any q...

Send us Fan Mail Learn about the pros and cons of being in a throuple or a triad. Every relationship has its ups and downs, but we will discuss hurdles specific to relationships including three people as well as the positives. As always, we will get sidetracked and end up discussing everything else along the way.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we answer some of our most commonly asked listener questions! We give a little more insight into our relationship, how we became the Southern Triad, and hopefully clear up some questions many of you may have. We also tackle some light criticism we have received from listeners. We love sharing our journey with you guys, and try to be as transparent as possible. As always...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we answer some of our most commonly asked listener questions! We give a little more insight into our relationship, how we became the Southern Triad, and hopefully clear up some questions many of you may have. We also tackle some light criticism we have received from listeners. We love sharing our journey with you guys, and try to be as transparent as possible. As always...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we talk about how we have serious discussions as a triad. We describe how we somehow manage to avoid having arguments turn into yelling matches. Effective communication is important in any relationship, but especially in a relationship involving three people- two of which are women! Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we discuss our recent trip to Savannah for a play party with one of our favorite BDSM groups. We will talk about some of the more extreme play that goes on in these parties and the safety measures that are taken to ensure everyone goes home in one piece and happy.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we discuss our favorite BDSM toys and implements. Find out what our newest addition to the toy cabinet is, and even hear what it sounds like. We will also give a little life update on what has been going on personally for each of us.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail We have a special guest in this episode: Shane and Shelby's daughter, Grace. She shares her immediate thoughts when she found out about Lindsey joining their relationship, and her perspective on the relationship now. We also discuss some cringeworthy moments that we'd like to forget, and how we all get along in a very unordinary family dynamic.   Please feel free to emai...

Send us Fan Mail Learn how we navigate as a relationship of three outside of the lifestyle. We will discuss hard topics such as jealousy and doubt, as well as shed light into our daily lives. This episode is intended to give a very honest view of how life works as a part of a triad. As always, we will share the good, the bad, the *fun*, and the ugly. Please feel free to email any questions or comm...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we discuss subspace, how to get there, and the experience from two different perspectives. We will also describe Lindsey's first, quite recent, case of sub-drop. Another important topic in this episode is aftercare. We delve into the importance of taking care of your sub and how to make the experience last even after playtime is over.  Please feel free to email any...

Send us Fan Mail **Spoiler alert: this episode is very serious, and may not be quite as entertaining as most others. However, we feel that this is a necessary conversation for anyone who is interested in dabbling with BDSM. Learn about the steps that should be taken before you play with someone for the first time. We will discuss how to obtain proper consent, the difference between soft and hard l...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we will discuss various methods of playing, and different types of kink. While we can't include everything, we will definitely describe our favorites, including impact play, electroplay, temperature play, orgasm control, and a few others. We also have a poll in this episode, so be sure to email us your answer at thesoutherntriad@gmail.com. Please feel free to...

Send us Fan Mail Learn how we incorporate BDSM protocols in our relationship. We discuss how our behavior changes depending on the environment. From relaxing at home, to the bedroom, to family gatherings, we will explain how we maintain a sense of respect and hierarchy of authority at all times. Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we look back on how Lindsey became a part of the relationship, and the origins of our Triad. Hear how we met, began dating, and ultimately grew into the Triad that we are now.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail Learn how we each first became introduced to the world of BDSM. We will be discussing lifestyle groups, play parties, and exactly what kind of people you will find within. The goal of this episode is to lay the path for anyone curious about BDSM and explain what steps to take if you are interested in exploring your kinky side.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments t...

Send us Fan Mail Meet The Southern Triad! We will introduce ourselves and give a little bit of background on who we are and how we live. Our goal is to take you on our journey with us, help better your understanding on BDSM, and share some spicy details along the way.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com 

Send us Fan Mail Meet us, The Southern Triad! A husband and wife, and their girlfriend, navigating the BDSM lifestyle. Get a glimpse into our lives not only as a relationship of three people, but also how our dynamic works as Dominant and submissives.  Please feel free to email any questions or comments to thesoutherntriad@gmail.com