The Soul'd Out Show with Chris & Tam

Everyone says trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship…but where's the line between privacy and secrecy? In this episode, Chris and Tam tackle one of the most debated topics in modern relationships: how much privacy should exist between committed partners? From phones and passwords to personal space and social media, they're having a real conversation about trust, boundaries, and maintain...

Everybody wants to be successful…but what does success actually mean to you? In this episode, Chris and Tam have a real conversation about success, happiness, purpose, and how our definition of “making it” changes as we grow, experience life, and become more honest about what truly fulfills us. Because the truth is, you can look successful on paper and still feel unhappy, unfulfilled, or disconnec...

Everybody loves the phrase “relationship goals”…but what are we really comparing ourselves to? In this episode, Chris and Tam have a real conversation about social media, relationships, perception, pressure, and the difference between what looks good online and what actually works in real life. Because the truth is, most people only post the highlights. They don’t post the disagreements, hard conv...

Everybody says communication is the key to a healthy relationship…but what if the real issue is that you and your partner are wired completely differently? In this episode, we’re breaking down DISC in a real, relatable way, and showing how personality styles impact the way we communicate, handle conflict, make decisions, and show up for each other in love and in business. We’re sharing our actual...

What happens when the job you thought was secure… suddenly isn’t? In this episode, we’re having a real conversation about getting fired, navigating career transitions, and what it looks like when life forces you to stop, reflect, and figure out what’s next. Chris and Tam share personal experiences about losing a job, what it felt like in the moment, the emotions no one really talks about, and how...

Life gets heavy sometimes. Work pressures, family responsibilities, business demands, and everyday challenges can all show up at once. In this episode, Chris and Tam talk about what it really looks like to support each other when life is life-ing, without trying to fix everything or carry the weight alone. And why understanding how your partner experiences pressure can make a big difference in how...

Money conversations can bring up a lot: beliefs, expectations, pressure, and sometimes even tension. In this episode, Chris and Tam dive into how our upbringing, values, and personal experiences shape the way we think about money and responsibility in relationships. From traditional roles to modern partnerships, they explore how mindset often matters more than income and why alignment around money...

Everyone says they want honesty, but what does that really mean in a relationship? In this episode, Chris and Tam unpack the difference between being truthful, open, and brutally honest. From relationships and friendships to business and public life, they explore how honesty builds trust, and how discernment protects peace. This is a real, grounded conversation about communication, maturity, and k...

As the year comes to a close, Chris and Tam slow things down and reflect on what this season has taught them — individually, as a couple, and as partners in life and business. In this episode, they talk honestly about growth, lessons learned, what they’re proud of, and what they’re intentionally leaving behind. From love and communication to building CLEAR and planning for 2026, this conversation...

Dreams look different when you’re building a life and a business with your soulmate. In this episode, Chris and Tam unpack what it really means to dream together, set goals together, support each other’s growth, and stay aligned while navigating love, work, and purpose. You’ll hear real talk about: How to blend two visions without losing identity The power of shared goals How you keep each other m...

Your past doesn’t disappear when you enter a new relationship, but it can be healed, rewritten, and transformed. In this episode, Chris and Tam open up about how past relationships, heartbreaks, and experiences shaped who they are today, and how they created space for something healthy and new. You’ll hear real talk about: Healing old emotional wounds before (and during) a new relationship Letting...

Navigating love as a blended couple is beautiful…and sometimes it can be a little complicated. In this episode, Chris and Tam get real about what it’s like merging two worlds, adult children, grandkids, families, traditions, expectations, and all the holiday energy that comes with it. From balancing traditions to setting boundaries with extended family and managing old relationships, they share ho...

Friendships shift when your relationship gets serious — and nobody talks about it enough. In this episode, Chris and Tam go deep on how to balance friendships, protect your relationship energy, and set respectful boundaries without losing yourself (or your people). They break down the real dynamics that show up once you’re committed, including changing friend groups, how much access people should...

They live together. They love together. And yes… they work together too! In this first full episode, Chris and Tam dive into what it really takes to build a healthy relationship and a thriving business as a couple. From clashing communication styles to early growing pains, they get honest about the challenges, the surprises, and the beautiful lessons they’ve learned along the way. They also open u...

In this Introduction Episode, meet Chris and Tam, soulmates in life, love, and business, who are inviting you into their world. Learn how they met, how a wrong text message sparked the connection, and why they decided to open their conversations to the world. What does grown, intentional love sound like? Real conversations about love, life, partnership, purpose, and building something meaningful t...