The Softy Podcast

What happens when the person behind a hair extension company starts losing her own hair? In this special solo episode of Softy, Meg sits down with Kristi and Eric Day, the founders of Drop Dead Hair Extensions, to talk about the moment their lives changed forever. After discovering bald spots and being diagnosed with alopecia, Kristi made the incredibly difficult decision to shave her head. We div...

This week, we’re sharing all of our current favorites—from beauty products we can’t stop using, to fashion finds we’re living in, and the snacks, drinks, and meals we’ve been obsessed with lately. Think of it like a peek into our group chat full of recommendations, random tangents, and the things that have made our lives a little better. If you’re looking to be influenced, this episode is for you....

This episode with Kail Lowry gets into everything—from her “fatherless behavior” tour and life after reality TV to baby daddy drama, 16 & Pregnant, teen mom2, and the wild ride that followed. We also dive into deeper conversations about life, purpose, healing, and what therapy has taught us along the way. It’s equal parts unfiltered, hilarious, and unexpectedly introspective. Come for the tea,...

Gabbie and Meg are back with plenty to say about the latest Teen Mom mess. In this episode, they break down the drama, discuss the headlines everyone is talking about, share their opinions, and have a few laughs along the way. If you love reality TV chaos and good gossip, this one’s for you. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.soft...

We asked you to send us the moments that made you feel like a “bad mom”… and wow, did you deliver. From funny parenting fails to the stories that still keep you up at night 🙂‍↕️😂😂 you are not alone!! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=MTBhZ3Vmd2hqOW1xNA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@t...

This week we asked you guys to send in your friendship breakup stories… and somehow almost every single one involved a best friend hooking up with someone’s boyfriend 😭 If you’ve ever gone through a friendship breakup, this episode is for you. Grab a drink and prepare to be stressed out with us. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the...

This week on Softy, we’re in our drama channel era. 🫖 🐸 We’re talking local lore, Facebook chaos, social media drama, internet behavior, and all the rabbit holes we somehow end up invested in. Very much “did you SEE this?” energy the entire episode. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=MTBhZ3Vmd2hqOW1xNA%3D%3D&am...

In this episode, we asked listeners to share the things they didn’t know before becoming moms, and the responses made us feel so seen. From identity shifts to tiny everyday surprises, this conversation is honest and full of reminders that none of us are alone in figuring it out as we go. Happy Mother’s Day! 💐🤭🩷🫶🏻 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c Instagram: https:/...

From influencer drama and fake lifestyles to clout addiction, brand deals, and the weird reality of internet fame we’re getting into all of it. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=MTBhZ3Vmd2hqOW1xNA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.softy.podcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-95xTxXPkP66 See Privacy Pol...

We asked for your questions… and you did not hold back. From silly to deep stuff to “should we even answer this?”—we’re diving into it all. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Kedtag Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=d2g5am9uZmM3ODg3 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.softy.podcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-91muDXnjpZG See Privacy Policy...

This episode is full of real, unhinged, in-salon stories from hairstylists who have truly seen it ALL — from chaotic clients to lice situations to hair literally melting off mid-service. It’s wild, it’s funny, it’s slightly traumatic… and you’re going to feel way better about your worst day behind the chair. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Kedtag In...

Meg is having a full blown identity crisis and Gabbie is here to remind her who she actually is. This episode turns into a conversation about authenticity, confidence, and the classic line: “I’m not intimidating… you’re just uncomfortable.” If you’ve ever felt like you had to shrink yourself to make other people feel better, this one’s for you. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlo...

This week on Softy, Gabbie gets very real about her past. We talk about what it actually looked like growing up as a teen who was partying, getting pregnant young, joining the Army, and two arrests 👀 It’s honestly kind of unbelievable hearing how many lives she’s lived in only 26 years. But this episode isn’t just about the chaos — it’s about how she got sober, what that process really looked lik...

Grab a snack and come sit with us. In this episode of Softy, we’re talking through the celebrities connected to the Epstein files — who was named, what that actually means, what’s confirmed, and what the internet may have run with. It’s not a conspiracy spiral, it’s our take on the power wrapped up in all of it. 👀 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Ke...

We took a short break at the start of the year while life was doing the absolute most, but the Softy girls are officially back. This episode we’re catching up and diving into listener submissions about why your boyfriends SUCK!!! From questionable behavior to full-blown red flags, you sent stories that had us laughing and/or gasping and sometimes relating tbh. If you like honest conversations, gro...

We’re playing “advice column” and honestly… we might’ve changed lives OR ruined them 😂 Gabbie, Meg and our special guest- Ally Nicole are answering YOUR questions: relationships, family, confidence, and some questions you’d only ask anonymously 🤭👀 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Kedtag Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=d2...

It’s that time of year where we all pretend we’re brand new people. In this episode, we’re doing our 2026 ins & outs—from trends and routines to habits and hard no’s—and talking through our resolutions. We’re reflecting on the year behind us, setting intentions for the year ahead, and reminding ourselves that we never have to wait for a new year to start being who we want to be! Spotify: https...

We’re talking all things Christmas — favorite traditions, memorable (and questionable) gifts, and the kind of wild holiday stories that only happen this time of year. We also get real about the harder side of the season: pressure, family dynamics, emotions, and why the holidays aren’t always merry and bright. If you’re loving the magic, barely surviving, or somewhere in between — you’re not alone....

You don’t have to live in a big city to build something big. ✨🩷 On the podcast this week, @heartandsoulbyallynicole shares her journey through the hair industry, becoming an influencer , and creating opportunities for herself in small-town Mississippi. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Kedtag Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igs...

We asked for embarrassing sex stories and you all said “bet.” Nothing bonds a community like sharing the most unhinged, absolutely-not-safe-for-family confessions! Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Kedtag Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=d2g5am9uZmM3ODg3 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.softy.podcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-91muDXn...

This week on the pod, we hosted a full-blown advice column about all things motherhood and relationships. We’re serving up the kind of guidance only two mildly-chaotic moms can. Grab a snack you meant to hide from your family and dive in. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3L7ttgzx6oYnlou19o3A8c?si=7uifBNHjSq2F715-Kedtag Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=d2g5am9uZmM3OD...

In this week’s episode, we’re opening up about eating disorders—what they really feel like, how they shape our relationship with our bodies. We keep it honest, with a little lightheartedness so it doesn’t feel so heavy. Think: real talk, shared stories, and a reminder that healing isn’t linear… but you don’t have to walk it alone. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.softypodcast?igsh=MTBhZ3Vm...

Welcome to Bible Belt Bruises, where we gently roast our upbringing while also validating the weird, wild, and confusing parts of growing up in church culture. If you relate, we’re hugging you through the screen. Make sure you check us out on other platforms and let us know how you enjoyed this episode. We’d love to hear from you so leave a comment and share any suggestions or stories of your own....

This week we’re joined by our friend @alongcameholly for a heart-to-heart on raising kids, body positivity, and dealing with hate online. We dive into the real side of social media, the pressure to “bounce back,” and what it actually means to model confidence for your kids. Grab a snack and hang out with us — it’s one of those episodes that feels like a group chat you never want to leave. Instagra...

In this Halloween episode, Meg and Gabbie read real paranormal encounters sent in by our listeners — from haunted houses and ghostly whispers to unexplained shadows that linger long after the lights go out. Make sure you check us out on other platforms and let us know how you enjoyed this episode. We’d love to hear from you so leave a comment and share any suggestions or stories of your own. Insta...