Erika Miley

The Soft Science

Health EN ↓ 168 episodes

I’m Dr. Erika Miley — licensed therapist, clinical sexologist, professor, and your favorite neurodivergent bisexual with a brain full of research and a mouth that doesn’t know when to stop. This show is for the curious, the kinky, the overstimulated, and the over-it. We’ll talk about sex without purity politics, trauma without turning it into your whole personality, and desire without apology.

Author

Erika Miley

Category

Health

Podcast website

sextalkwitherika.com

Latest episode

Feb 21, 2026

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Episodes

Mental health medications, Sex, and Side effects 09.08.2018

Don't forget to rate and review this podcast! In episode 18 of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, I talk about mental health medications and the sexual side effects of taking those types of prescriptions.  I also talk about how to cope with those side effects.  Sometimes when taking mental health prescriptions it interferes with sexual desire.  I talk about how to tackle that in a real way and give some s...

Sex Resources with Juicebox and Brianna Rader 02.08.2018

In this episode Erika talks about available reliable sexual resources.  For when you have question right now and want to get appropriate information.  Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/17   Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon   My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com   Corey Silverberg   https://www.corysilverberg.com/    HeyEpiphora   https://heyepiphora.com/  htt...

Sex! the Podcast : Sex and Energy w/ Michael Spencer 27.07.2018

In this episode Erika talks with Michael Spencer about the energy we have around our stuff.  This includes our feelings and memories we attach to our things.  This includes our sexual items, memories, or experiences.  Here's how to find Michael: https://letspurify.energy/ Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/16 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon Get help at my therapy practice:...

Sex! the Podcast : Sex and the Movies w/ Brandon Ruckdashel 21.07.2018

In this episode Erika talks with Brandon Ruckdashel who has starred in erotic films as well as televisions shows.  Brandon talks about some of experiences as well as some trends he has seen in his own dating life.   Find Brandon Ruckdashel in the world: https://twitter.com/brandonruck http://www.brandonruckdashel.com/     Get help: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com   Full show notes: www.sextalkwither...

Sex! the Podcast : Let's Save This Marriage Before it Needs Saving 13.07.2018

Let’s save this marriage before it needs saving: I referenced Dr. John Gottman’s book Seven Principals of Making a Marriage Work Here’s the Gottman Institute website and on their website you can find this workbook : https://www.gottman.com/product/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work-couples-guide/ Get help: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com   Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/14 Join...

Sex! the Podcast : Finding a Therapist with sanoMind creator Nestor Velez 30.05.2018

In this episode I get to chat with the amazing Nestor Velez about his app and project, sanoMind. Using his tool, get to know a therapist before you meet up with them for one on one sessions. I love, love, LOVE, his story, and I think you will to.  You can find more about Nestor and sanoMind at the full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/13 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon   Work...

Sex! the Podcast : Sex and Divorce Part 2 02.05.2018

In this episode, we get to sit down and finish our chat about sex and divorce. Consent is key, being comfortable, and communicating with your current partner. It can be hard to be back in the game but following a few tips can get you back on track for some great sex!   If you struggle with shame about your body, your sexuality, or need to process your personal life, I offer 1-on-1 Therapy. www.men...

Sex! the Podcast : Sex and Divorce Part 1 with Erika Miley 26.04.2018

If you enjoyed this podcast, please rate and review the podcast on iTunes or Google Play .  In this episode, I talk to you about sex after divorce or the end of a long term relationship. It's tough stuff, but we're all capable of getting through it. We go through a meditation and help you get back to your sexual self! You can find more help at www.mentalandsexualhealth.com   Full show notes: www.s...

Sex! the Podcast : Sex and Conflict with Erika Miley 10.04.2018

Today I get to spend some one on one time with you! I talk about how you can resolve conflict to get your sex life back on track! Learning the actions and sequences to your partner's "love language" is key to getting your romance on after a big row!  If you struggle with shame about your body, your sexuality, or need to process your personal life, check out my therapy practice: www.mentalandsexual...

Sex! the Podcast : Raising Kids Without Sexual Shame with Nekole Shapiro 03.04.2018

Today I chat with Nekole Shapiro, from the group "Raising Kids without Sexual Shame." She is a tireless advocate of sex positivity, body positivity, and helping others connect with their bodies and deal with shame. Talking to your kids at their level, in an honest manner is the key to helping them learn great coping skills to deal with shame about their bodies and sexuality. We all do it, and one...

Sex! the Podcast : Velv'or and Gentlemen's Rings with Jelle Plantenga 25.03.2018

Today I chat with the founder of Velv'Or, Jelle Plantenga, was looking for a stylish Gentlemen's Ring, couldn't find one, and started making his own. This lead Jelle to create Velv'Or which makes a plethora of rings to choose from!   You can find more from Jelle Plantenga and Velv'Or as his website: www.velv-or.com Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/8   Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika...

Sex! The Podcast : 5 Tips for Talking to Your Kids About Sex 19.03.2018

Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review on iTunes & GooglePlay! Today, we're talking about everyone favorite thing. Talking to your kids about sex, and I want to share 5 easy tips to make your job as a parent, a little simpler! Talking to your kids about sex is super uncomfortable, which is made even harder by the taboo in our society placed upon sex. Making sex ugly and shameful. Which is tot...

Sex! the Podcast : Sex, Gender, and Feelmore with Nenna Joiner 12.03.2018

In this episode we speak with the amazing Nenna Joiner, who is the owner of Feelmore, an adult lifestyle store in California. We get to talk about sex, gender, and building a sexual retail brand. https://feelmore510.com/   More info at: www.sextalkwitherika.com/6   Join our Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon  

Sex! the Podcast: Sex and Marijuana with Chris Kelly 26.02.2018

Today’s episode is about sex and marijuana. More about Sex Talk with Erika Miley here: www.sextalkwitherika.com/5     We’ve got a great interview for you today with Chris Kelly who is a marijuana executive.  We talk about marijuana research as it relates to sexuality.  So just a heads up this episode is not only about one taboo topic but two. So this is a friendly disclaimer that I am not suggesti...

Sex! the Podcast : Butt Stuff 101 19.02.2018

In this episode, we get to talk about what it means to try the "butt stuff" or anal play or anal sex. Foreplay, Masturbation, Penetration, Oh my! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/004   Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon   Consider the following things: Just like your genitals, learn what feels good, what works for you, and use lubricant. Start slowly! Communicate with your...

Sex! the Podcast: The Erotic Blueprint with Dr. Nazanin Moali 12.02.2018

Information not to miss! Find more about Sex Talk here: www.sextalkwitherika.com     Dr. Nazanin Moali's practice is located in California, and her website and contact information are all at:   http://oasis2care.com/     Her podcast is called Sexology with Dr. Moali check out the info here: http://oasis2care.com/podcast/     She gave you a great resource to read: Arousal: The Secret Logic to Sexua...

Sex! the Podcast: The State of Sex Education 05.02.2018

Biggest Takeaways You Don’t Want to Miss: 1.  My website it where you will find all this Sex! The Podcast www.sextalkwitherika.com   2. Contact me if you have questions or if you are a Washington State resident needing therapy. https://mentalandsexualhealth.com   3. In this episode, we talk about the state of sex education. Resources for sexuality and the statistics I referenced in today's episode...

Sex! the Podcast: Let me tell you about myself! 04.02.2018

Learn what this podcast originally was intended to do. Find more at www.sextalkwitherika.com  

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