The Smart Divorce Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin talks with Nila Mistry - Nila is a Financial Life Planner and a Certified Money Coach. She works with professional women to live a life with more peace, security, freedom and possibilities through Life & Financial Planning. She can be found at 07866 493517 nila@prosperitylifeplanning.co.uk Want to talk? Book your FREE discovery call click this link  https://Prosperityli...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin talks to Family Consultant and Relationship Therapist, Kim Crewe. They discuss how Kim helps couples who are separating, divorcing and onwards. Kim helps not only with moving couples through the process amicably but also helps them to move into a coparenting relationship. Kim Crewe is an experienced Relationship Therapist, Divorce Coach and Family Consultant who specialises...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin is joined by Naomi Woodford, who is a divorce recovery coach. They talk about recovery and beginning their new chapter positively. They also cover how past traumas, including childhood traumas, can impact relationships and did affect her adult relationships and marriage. They also discuss some of the steps you can take to stop this from happening. Naomi says: "As a Div...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin welcomes TV parenting expert and author Sue Atkins to the podcast in this very special bonus episode. Sue’s latest book “The Divorce Journal for Kids” was released this week and is already award winning. They discuss how the book came about, how it can be used and how to navigate being a parent going through divorce. Sue also offers some brilliant advice about telling the c...

Send us Fan Mail Something different this week to finish Series 3! Tamsin speaks to fellow financial planners, Lottie Kent of True Financial Design and Ceri Griffiths of Willowbrook Financial Planning. They discuss why, when and how you might need to work with a divorce specialist financial planner when you're getting divorced. You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or book a fre...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin speaks to Dave Child from Sale Insurance Services about all things insurance. If you have never researched insurance before, it can be a minefield. Dave gives some hints and tips about how to ensure you are properly protected and will be able to claim when you need to. He will also discuss some common pitfalls. Dave Child: MD of Sale Insurance Services est. 2003 One of the...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin speaks to divorce and business coach Helen Slater about being enough. Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planer with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight. You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using ht...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin speaks to Paulette, who has come through divorce recently and wants to share her experiences. She talks about the importance of self care and of using the right professionals. She also speaks of her experiences of working with Tamsin and the benefits she found. Paulette - Independent social worker and trainer, specialising in fostering and adoption. Part of an inter racial...

Send us Fan Mail The government have recently announced a voucher scheme for couples who want to use mediation to resolve their family disputes. Tamsin speaks to mediator Maura McKibbin about how to make the most of your mediation sessions.  Maura is a specialist family mediator who dedicates her practice to keeping families out of court and who routinely integrates emotional and financial support...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin speaks to divorce and business coach Helen Slater about how to start thinking about and designing your future life. She talks about some tools for goal setting and thinking about what you want from your life. One of my favourite ideas is about the stories you are telling yourself.  Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planer with over 20 years experience. She works with couples...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin Caine talks to Susan Leigh about how to handle anxiety whilst you are negotiating with your ex, either in mediation, directly or with a financial neutral.  You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or book a free initial chat at https://calendly.com/tamsin-caine/15min.  You can contact Susan at lifestyletherapy@outlook.com or visit her website at www.lifestylether...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin speaks to Daniel Bell about mortgage affordability. How many years accounts do you need, what income will lenders take into account, how do they view loans and credit cards and are all lenders the same? You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or book an initial chat at https://calendly.com/tamsin-caine/15min.  You can contact Daniel at daniel@bellfinancialsoluti...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin Caine talks to Susan Leigh about the feelings of failure when relationship breaks down. How we can deal with these feelings and move on.  You can contact Tamsin by email at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free 15 minutes at https://calendly.com/tamsin-caine/15min. You can contact Susan at lifestyletherapy@outlook.com or visit her website for more information at www.l...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin Caine talks to mortgage consultant Daniel Bell about where to go, what to look for and why your bank or existing lender may not be the best place to start when you're looking for a mortgage. You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial chat at https://calendly.com/tamsin-caine/15min.  You can contact Daniel at daniel@bellfinancialsoluti...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin Caine speaks to Carole Nettleton from Price Slater Gawne about the family home. What are the options, why you might choose one over another, what the courts might say and why it is vital to take professional mortgage advice. You can contact Carole Nettleton at Carole.nettleton@psg-law.co.uk or 07958 028069. You can contact Tamsin at Tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or on 07975 922...

Send us Fan Mail What is Spousal Maintenance? Are you entitled to it or will you have to pay it? How is it calculated? How long is it payable for?  Tamsin Caine talks to Katie McCann, the founder of Lowry Legal. Katie specialises in all aspects of family law, but with a particular interest in high net worth divorce, private children matters and wealth protection, including pre and post-nuptial agr...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin speaks to Daniel Eames about how Brexit will impact ex pats living in the UK and British ex pats living in the EU, and the things they may want to do before the end of the year. Daniel is a partner at Michelmores LLP and the current chair of the international committee of Resolution (the national organisation of family law professionals). He is responsible for Resolution&ap...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Tamsin is joined by Michelle Hoskin. Something a little different in that Michelle and her partner Martin weren't married but they did have a daughter together and share a family home. Michelle talks about the importance to her of starting with the end in mind, which in this case was remaining friends.  Director of Financial Planning and Chartered Financial Pl...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Tamsin is joined by James Hourihan. James divorced 10 years ago. He talks about the importance that counselling played in his path to dealing with the grief of divorce. He also discusses the early days of separation and how taking a break from constant communication could assist with gaining closure more quickly. Director of Financial Planning and Chartered Financi...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin meets Alisa Peskin-Shepherd, a collaborative attorney based in the US, to discuss collaborative divorce and how things have moved on from where they began. She has some great advice for those who are newly separated and may help you to consider collaborative law as an option for your divorce. Director of Financial Planning and Chartered Financial Planner Tamsin Caine has a...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Tamsin welcomes Katya Willems to discuss the way in which she has changed her working life since divorcing 5 years ago. She also talks about the part that taking expert advice has helped her to come through divorce with a positive mindset. Director of Financial Planning and Chartered Financial Planner Tamsin Caine has a strong background of over 15 years within th...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Tamsin is joined by divorce coach Danielle Barbereau. Danielle talks about how she helps clients who are struggling in the initial stages of divorce to move to a place where they can see a future life after divorce. Director of Financial Planning and Chartered Financial Planner Tamsin Caine has a strong background of over 15 years within the financial services prof...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Tamsin is joined by Christopher Foster, who is himself a financial adviser. He speaks of the importance of taking professional advice, even if you think that you know what you are doing. He also shows how it is possible to resolve things amicably despite your emotions and end up with a happy ever after as he has recently married a wonderfully supportive lady. Direc...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode Tamsin is joined by Scott Hadden. They discuss the benefit of choosing the right lawyer to support you through the process, not rushing and how Scott used travel to get him through his divorce. Director of Financial Planning and Chartered Financial Planner Tamsin Caine has a strong background of over 15 years within the financial services profession. She began Smar...

Send us Fan Mail Tamsin meets Dan Hill. Dan is a specialist in emotional intelligence who originates from the US. They discuss his journey through divorce 25 years ago. Although he and his ex wife settled an amicable divorce without the need for court, he talks about the influence her lawyer had on destabilising the process. He also talks about the settlement and how the easiest option for dividin...