Sharon Lamar | LDS Life Coach, AACC Mental Health Coach

The Single LDS Woman | Loneliness, Dating, Self-Confidence, Happiness

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Dating shouldn’t feel this hard. But for many single women, it does. And no one ever taught you how to date well. Endless swiping. Awkward first dates. Men who disappear, pull away, or waste your time. And the questions start creeping in: 🌀 Why is dating so frustrating? 🌀 Why does it seem so easy for everyone else? 🌀 How do you actually know if someone is husband material? Welcome to The Single LDS Woman podcast. I’m Sharon Lamar, a certified life coach and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints—and I help single women enjoy dating and choose a husband. Not by playing gam...

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Sharon Lamar | LDS Life Coach, AACC Mental Health Coach

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Latest episode

Jul 6, 2026

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Episodes

101. Struggling as a Single Mom? A New Way to Help Your Older Child Without Pushing Them Away - with Amy Fraughton 18.08.2025

This week’s episode is something special—a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation with parenting coach and podcast host Amy Fraughton, created especially with single moms in mind. If you’re parenting on your own—and feeling worn out, worried, or unsure how to really help your older child—this episode will speak right to your heart. Amy shares the powerful truth she discovered after years of parent...

100. The #1 Struggle Single Women Face - and How to Finally Fix It 11.08.2025

🎉 In this 100th episode of The Single LDS Woman, I’m answering the question I get asked the most: What’s the biggest struggle single women face—and what’s the real solution? Spoiler: it’s not dating, waiting, or even heartbreak. It’s your opinion of yourself—and that internal story is shaping everything. In this powerful milestone episode, I’ll walk you through why this hidden struggle is so pain...

099. Want Love? Here's What It'll Really Take to Get It 04.08.2025

You know how to budget for a couch or a vacation—but what about the things you want most? In this episode, we’re talking about the real cost of the love and connection you're longing for. Spoiler alert: it’s not money. It’s internal. Things like letting go of control, being open to the process, and having patience with yourself as you grow. Whether you’re hoping for a romantic relationship, healin...

098. Making a Big Life Decision? Here's What You Need to Know First 28.07.2025

Feeling the weight of a big life decision? You’re not alone—and you’re not as stuck as you think. In this episode, we break down the two types of confusion you need to recognize before moving forward. One kind leads to clarity and growth. The other? Keeps you circling the roundabout of indecision. You’ll hear real-life examples (including a very vulnerable one from my own journey), reflective ques...

097. Want to Change Your Life? Start By Changing This One Thing 21.07.2025

Want to change your life? It doesn’t start with a new job, a new relationship, or even a big spiritual breakthrough. It starts with one small thing most of us overlook completely: our thoughts. In this episode, I’ll show you how the unnoticed thoughts you repeat every day are quietly shaping your emotions, your actions, and the results you get in life. I’ll share the thought that kept me stuck in...

096. Stuck? How to Stop Waiting for Easy and Do the Hard Thing 14.07.2025

Still stuck between what you want and what it actually takes to get it? This episode is your wake-up call. We're diving into a one-sentence verse from 1 Kings that packs a punch—and reveals why so many of us stay halted between desire and action. If you’ve been waiting for life to feel easier before you take the next step… this one’s for you. Inside the episode: The sneaky trap of waiting for “eas...

095. Your Summer Playlist for Confidence, Joy & Love: The Top 5 Must-Listen Episodes 07.07.2025

☀️ Summer may be for slowing down—but your happiness doesn’t have to hit pause. In this fun, feel-good episode, I’m sharing YOUR favorites—the 5 most downloaded episodes from the past year—so you can keep building confidence, joy, and love all summer long. Whether you’re new to the show or ready for a refresher, I’ll break down the biggest takeaways from these powerful episodes—and I’ve created a...

094. The Rejection That Hurts Most? The One You're Doing to Yourself! 30.06.2025

Let’s be honest—rejection hurts. Whether it’s the guy who ghosts you, the invite that never comes, or watching someone else get the promotion you prayed for… it stings. But here’s the real truth: the most painful rejection isn’t when they say no—it’s when you reject yourself. In this episode, I’m showing you how self-rejection sneaks in, how it’s holding you back, and what to do to stop it. You’ll...

093. Single and Childless? How to Keep God's Command to Be Fruitful, Multiply and Replenish Without Having Babies 23.06.2025

Struggling with the command to “be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth” when you’re still single and childless? This episode will change how you see it—forever. In today’s conversation, I’m unpacking one of the most quoted scriptures and showing you how it applies to you—yes, even if you never marry or have kids. You’ll learn how being fruitful, multiplying, and replenishing the earth isn’t...

092. Stuck in the Spin? What Changed When Erin Said "Yes" to Coaching 16.06.2025

In this special episode, I’m joined by my coaching client Erin, who opens up about her journey from feeling stuck in a hamster wheel—busy but never really moving forward—to finding clarity, confidence, and real momentum in her life. We talk about what led her to coaching, what surprised her most along the way, and how things have shifted as a result. If you've ever wondered what it’s really like t...

091. Wish He'd Change? Here's How to Heal Even If He Never Does 09.06.2025

Father’s Day can bring up a lot—especially if your relationship with your dad, ex-husband, or any man in your life still feels painful. In this episode, I’m sharing three questions that can change your relationship—even if he never does. If you’re ready to take back your peace, this one’s for you. 💛 💫 WHAT’S NEXT? Choose your next best step 👇 ➡️ Become an Insider! Get weekly emails filled with...

090. The Single LDS Woman: It's Time to Say What No One's Saying About Singleness in the Church 02.06.2025

After 89 episodes, I’m making a bold change. In this special episode, I share why the podcast is now called The Single LDS Woman, why I’m narrowing my focus (not my heart), and what this shift means for you—whether you're LDS or not. If you’ve ever felt unseen in your faith community as a single woman, this episode is for you. 💌 I’d love to hear from you! What did this episode bring up for you? A...

089. Still Single and Still Hurting? You're Not Missing the Answer - You're Dismissing It! 26.05.2025

You’ve been praying for a husband for years…and nothing.  You’re faithful, you’re doing your part, and yet the loneliness still stings.  I came across a post that said, “Your singleness isn’t a problem to fix – it’s a space to flourish.”  I loved it.  But the comments underneath? Oof.  They broke my heart.  Today, we’re talking about what might be really happening when it feels like God’s ignoring...

088. Can You Really Change Your Life? Yes - But Only If You Know This 19.05.2025

Ever wonder why you start strong… but still don’t get the results you want? Why no matter how badly you want to change your life, you keep slipping back into old habits, old thoughts, and old patterns? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why change feels so hard—and what you need to know to finally break the cycle. With help from a surprisingly wise little lobster 🦞, I’ll walk you th...

087. The 4-Step Breakup Plan for the Most Toxic Relationship in Your Life (It's Not What You Think) 12.05.2025

Breakups are hard—but what if the one breakup you really need… isn’t with a guy, but with a toxic thought that’s been dragging you down for years? In this episode, I’ll show you how to finally cut ties with the lie in your head that’s been shaping your life—and walk you through a 30-day plan to break up and break free. This is the kind of breakup that leads to the life you desire. 💔➡️💪 Grab that...

086. You Were Made for More: Break Free from What's Holding You Back 05.05.2025

Ever feel like you're stuck in a life that’s smaller than the one you were meant for? In this episode, we’re talking about what’s really keeping you stuck—and how to break free. I’ll share one of my favorite stories.  If you are a dog lover, you will love the story. And I share an insight from Ether 3 in the Book of Mormon that reminded me of a powerful truth: You are a spirit daughter of God. You...

085. The 3 Rules That End the Pain of Singleness (and Bring Back Joy) 28.04.2025

Being single can be incredibly painful. I know because I’ve lived it. In this episode, I walk you through the 10 different kinds of pain you might be feeling right now—and I offer 3 soul-protecting promises that can start to shift your experience of singleness from painful to powerful. These aren’t tips or tricks. They’re rules to live by. And they’ve changed everything for me—and for my clients....

084. How to Quiet the Voice That Keeps Telling You "You're Not Enough" 21.04.2025

That quiet hum of “I’m not good enough” or “I’m doing it wrong”? It’s not just background noise—it’s shaping your life. In this episode, I’ll show you how to rewrite the painful narrative in your head using the surprising power of curiosity and compassion. Plus, I’ll walk you through a simple practice you can do today—and tell you what to do next if you’re ready to finally feel different. Let’s go...

083. You're Not Broken - But Your Inner Critic Wants You to Think You Are 14.04.2025

Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll never get what I want,” or “Maybe I’m just broken”? In this episode, we’re calling out that quiet hum of self-doubt—and I’m giving you the simple shift that can help you change it for good. I’ll share how one client moved from believing she was a mistake to finally feeling free—and how you can start making that shift too. If you’re...

082. Why You Keep Ghosting Yourself (and How to Stop Feeling So Poopy All the Time) 07.04.2025

Have you ever signed up for something—something you really wanted—and then completely ghosted it? Yep, I see you. And I’m not judging. In this episode, we’re talking about why that happens, why discomfort shows up right when you’re ready to change your life, and how avoiding it is actually keeping you stuck in the same poopy place. Let’s get real—and let’s get uncomfortable on purpose. Grab that d...

081. Why Happiness Isn't the Goal (and What to Aim for Instead) 31.03.2025

If you’ve ever felt tired of trying so hard and still coming up short on happiness—this one’s for you. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on a tough but powerful truth: your life was never meant to be easy... but it was meant to be joyful. We’ll talk about what joy really is, why diligence feels so exhausting sometimes, and how to stop chasing "happy" so you can start creating a life...

080. Your Past Is Lying to You - Here's How to Break Free and Finally Move Forward 24.03.2025

When was the last time you did something for the first time? And when was the last time you decided it would be the last time you let your past dictate your future? In this episode, we’re talking about breaking free from old stories, rewriting what the past means, and doing something bold and new—on purpose. Let’s get it! Grab that diet coke, put in your ear buds and let’s talk friend to friend. W...

079. Tired of Getting Nowhere? Here's the Real Reason You're Stuck (and How to Fix It!) 17.03.2025

You know that dream you keep putting off? The one you swear you'll get to "someday"—when you have more time, when you feel more ready, when the stars align? Yeah, that one. Well, what if I told you that the only thing standing between you and that dream is YOU? In this episode, I’m exposing the three sneaky obstacles keeping you stuck in place—and giving you the exact strategies to overcome them....

078. Stop Sitting on Your Dreams - Get Up and DO the Dang Thing! 10.03.2025

Hey my gorgeous friend. Are you stuck in learning mode, taking in all the self-help books, courses, and podcasts—but not actually moving forward? 🤔 It’s time to talk about the difference between passive action and massive action—and why one of them is keeping you stuck. In this episode, we’re breaking down how to shift from thinking about the life you want to actually creating it. 🚀 Plus, I’ll t...

077. Spoiler Alert: You Don't Need Motivation - Here's What You Actually Need 03.03.2025

Hey my gorgeous friend. Ever feel like you just need more motivation to finally get things done? Whether it's hitting the gym, starting that big project, or making a change in your life—you’re waiting for motivation to strike. But here’s the truth: Motivation isn’t the missing piece. And if you keep waiting for it, you’ll be stuck waiting forever. In today’s episode, I’m flipping the script and sh...

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