The Sexy Swinging Vampires

We talk about the Lifestyle on a podcast—but that doesn’t mean someone else gets to connect our stories to our real identities. When Brittany heads out to hear a band, an unexpected conversation leaves her wondering who knows about the podcast, what they’ve been told, and who else might be listening. That encounter opens up a much bigger conversation about discretion: what we share, who gets to sh...

Does size matter? We’re taking that question to sea. With three Bliss cruises behind us and our first November sailing ahead, we’re getting ready for seven nights aboard Wonder of the Seas. Brad is excited about the possibilities. Brittany is wondering how we’ll ever find everybody. And both of us are ready to see some familiar faces—and meet a few new ones. Before we board, we’re revisiting the m...

 Two nights, two lifestyle clubs—and two very different experiences. Brad and Brittany check out Fantasy Coop in West Jordan and The Sanctuary in downtown Salt Lake City, meeting future Bliss cruise friends from a Telegram group along the way. A quieter Friday brings easy conversation and a memorable night, while Saturday offers an upscale atmosphere, familiar social circles, and an unexpected enc...

Are you picky…or are you selective? Brad and Brittany know couples who proudly call themselves picky, including one couple nearly five years into the lifestyle who has only connected with a handful of other couples. They also know people whose preferences have changed dramatically with experience. Which got them wondering: what do those words actually mean? In this episode, Brad and Brittany look...

When exactly do you stop being a newbie? Brad and Brittany are approaching five years in the lifestyle, and somewhere along the way something changed. Situations that once felt intimidating became easier. Rejection stopped feeling quite so personal. Communication got better. Friendships grew. And eventually newer couples started looking to them for perspective. But here's the problem: there a...

What happens when the couple who helps build your confidence also brings out insecurities you didn't know you had? This week, we're finally joined by Glenn and Charlie, the Nashville Power Couple we've talked about for years and one of the couples who had a huge impact on our early lifestyle journey. What starts as the story of how we met turns into a much more vulnerable conversati...

What makes a couple say "yes" to something that most people would never even consider? This week, Brad and Brittany are joined by Big and Lil Texas , who share the story of taking one giant leap into ethical non-monogamy. As newcomers, they booked their first trip to a lifestyle-friendly resort, stepped far outside their comfort zone, and discovered that one decision would lead to unforg...

What happens when a Bull and a Unicorn stop searching for the perfect play partners...and discover they've found each other? In this episode, Brad and Brittany sit down with Belle and Braun to hear one of the most unique relationship stories in the lifestyle. Before becoming a couple, each had built their own reputation and experiences navigating ethical non-monogamy from completely different...

Ever wondered what really goes into planning a successful orgy? It's a lot more than people imagine.  Brad and Brittany welcome back Selene and Stone for a candid conversation about communication, trust, logistics, boundaries, and the surprising amount of planning involved with group play. They also share hot behind-the-scenes stories, discuss how they handle situations where not everyone con...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Ever wondered what really happens at a lifestyle hotel takeover? Is it all parties and play, or is there more to the experience? In this episode, we're taking you behind the sexy scenes of our weekend at the Luxx Takeover in Scottsdale, Arizona. From reconnecting with longtime friends and making brand-new connections to themed parties, live music, pool...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! We Wrangled a Unicorn or Two 🦄 What do vampires and swingers have in common? More than you'd think. In this episode, Brad and Brittany explain why they've always thought the Lifestyle has a lot in common with the world of vampires. From secret societies and late-night adventures to the idea that once you're in, you're never quite the sa...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! What happens when a one-time hookup turns into one of your favorite friendships? This week we're joined by our good friends Selene and Stone, a couple who prove that sometimes the best connections in the Lifestyle happen long after the bedroom door closes. We dive into how they survived their rookie year, the challenges of finding genuine people, and w...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW!  Brad and Brittany recap one unforgettable Lifestyle weekend filled with new connections, sexy chemistry, and the friendships that make the LS so much more than just hookups. From meeting the “Hot Vikings” through a Bliss Cruise chat group, to finally connecting with a couple they’d been chasing for nearly two years, this episode dives into how swinger frie...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Welcome back, Sexy Vampires… the Origin Story isn’t cooling off—it’s heating up. In Part 2 with Clay and Leanne, we pick up right where things left off. The poolside tension, the blurred lines, the “did that really just happen?” moment… yeah, we’re diving straight back into it. But this time, we go further. We talk about what happened after that unforgettab...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Labor Day weekend 2019… the night everything changed. What started as a casual pool party turned into a moment that crossed lines, sparked curiosity, and left all four of us wondering what it meant. Joined by Leanne and Clay, we relive the night that unknowingly kicked off our journey. And trust us… this is only Part 1 💬 Connect With Us  Send us a text or...

Send Brad and Brittany a TEXT or VM NOW! Brad and Brittany are back—and this time, we’re doing it our way. Welcome to the very first episode of The Sexy Swinging Vampires , where we officially reintroduce ourselves to the lifestyle podcast world. After stepping away from our previous show, we’re pulling back the curtain on what led us to leave, what we learned along the way, and why creating our o...