The Self-Confidence Project

When women say they want an ambitious and driven man, what do they really mean? In today's episode, I share with you what women mean when they say they're attracted to ambitious men. If you found this episode helpful or informative please leave a review and share. With love, Kimberly p.s. don't forget to book your free dating strategy call with me. Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call ⁠...

Many of us have experienced a form of gaslighting in our relationships. This subtle form of emotional abuse can cause a person to question their own sanity. In today's episode, I talk about what gaslighting is, where the term came from, how you can know if this is happening to you and what you can do about it. With any form of abuse seeking support is incredibly important. If you found this ep...

Before getting into any new relationship, you'll want to understand the 10 essential questions before you commit to a new partner. Men, if you are single and dating you won't want to miss this episode. Whether you are newly dating or dating again after divorce these questions remain relevant no matter your age. p.s. don't forget to book your free dating strategy call with me, and if yo...

For those of us out there dating and trying to find love not many of us have asked ourselves what love means. How has the idea of love been shaped by our childhood experiences as well as cultural norms? In today's episode, I dive into the psychology of love along with a few different theories of love itself. If you enjoyed this episode please share it and consider leaving a rating and review....

Why are so many men in the United States single? In today's episode, I share five different perspectives as to why so many men are currently single in the US. Do any of these ring true for you? If you enjoyed this episode please share it and consider leaving a rating and review. p.s. don't forget to book your free dating strategy call with me, using the link below. With love, Kimberly Book Yo...

If you or someone you know is caught in a situationship, you'll want to tune into today's episode. A situationship is more than a casual hookup, but short of a committed relationship. It's a bit of a dating Purgatory if you ask me. It has no definition, no boundaries, and there isn't a clear path on where this relationship is going. In today's episode, I dive into what a situationship is and why y...

Many of us are wondering why the dating pool feels so toxic these days. For those single men out there that are dating and wondering why some of their experiences don't feel so good, you'll want to tune into today's episode. In this podcast episode, I share what a toxic person is, the kinds of things toxic people say, what encourages toxic behaviour in individuals, and a few things you can do to i...

Sometimes we need a good old-fashioned reminder of how to create a dating life we are proud of. Many single men are struggling to have the quality of dates and relationship experiences they are craving and often times it's because they're putting too much pressure on the dating experience itself. In today's episode, I share with you a few tips on how to improve your dating life as well as recommen...

Psychologist Greg Matos wrote an article for Psychology Today titled "The Rise of Lonely, Single Men" — about straight men being the loneliest they've been in generations. While some agree and others are offended, I want to share some reasons why men today are struggling with loneliness. I  also highlight the stark differences in relationships from the 1950s to today across areas such as gend...

Your dating experience is a big reflection of your overall life. When we date other people and have new experiences, our behaviours are reflected back at us. To the single men dating that need a few reminders for their dating journey, tune into today's episode where I share five dating perspectives and reminders that all single and dating men should know. Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call here....

Emotions are not the enemy, but we treat them as if they are! In today's episode, I want to peel back the layers of how you might be letting your thoughts and emotions dictate your results in life and your dating results. If you're a single man who is struggling with dating, you'll wan't to give this a listen. Please share and review if you enjoyed the show! Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call her...

Have you ever wondered why your date texted you and said "she didn't feel the spark or connection?'" Today's show explains to you a few reasons why this is the case! Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call here. Join The Club & Talk To Women with Confidence here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights reserved.

When we separate from our partners, it's not uncommon to long for a new connection. Many of us jump back onto dating apps or start meeting new people, and if done too quickly, it can welcome many complications into our life. In today's episode, I share with you a few considerations to think about before you start dating if you're currently separated from your spouse, but not yet divorced. Book You...

If you're single and dating in 2023, you'll want to learn about the dating trends and changes upcoming this year. Based on a Bumble survey of over 10,000 daters, I share what's happening in 2023 based on what daters like you, have to say about it. Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call here. Join The Club & Talk To Women with Confidence here. © 2021 The Self-Confidence Project Inc. All rights res...

Emotional boundaries involve separating your feelings from others. This is especially important as you date, get into new relationships and as you enter into the new year. You are the only one responsible to protect your energy and have strong emotional boundaries. If you've ever felt burnt out, exhausted or simply emotionally drained, you'll want to tune into today's episode. Book Your Free Datin...

If you're a single guy, you might dread the holidays, but I believe it's one of the best times in the year to boost your confidence, get out of the house, meet women and have fun. Today I share with you 3 simple reminders to keep you on track during the holiday season and maybe even create an extraordinary opportunity for you. Ready to learn more about working with Kimberly?  Applications for...

If you're newly dating around the holidays, you might be wondering what to do about gifts. Do you get a woman something? Do you not? If you did, what's appropriate? Today, I share what's appropriate and a price range for each stage of dating; from just "we just met", to casual dating with potential, to newly committed couples and long-term relationships.  Ready to find your dream relationship...

If you've recently gotten divorced or out of a significant relationship, you might be dating again and wondering why things aren't working out, despite being a nice guy. Many men fall into the trap of putting women on a pedestal. We all have idealized versions of people and often we fall in love with someone's beauty and positive qualities. Be careful you don't over-idealize and miss red flags tha...

It's really common after a breakup to start dating again and feel overwhelmed. The dating landscape has changed, we have new online dating apps popping up each week. Our culture is changing in terms of what women and men are wanting from relationships. In today's show, I share four common mistakes men are making when they start dating after divorce or after the end of a long-term relationship. Fin...

Think you might be suffering from a low sex drive? Some of us want sex more than others, so does that mean YOU have a low libido? Not all men are created equal and not every one of us thinks about sex every 60 seconds. In today's episode, I talk about some causes of a low sex drive in men , some implications for your relationships and what you can begin doing about it. Like the show? Do me a big f...

"It's the most wonderful time of the year." - Said the couples in love. But some of us don't love the holiday season because it can remind us of what we don't have.  That special someone. However, time and time again the holiday season has been one of the best times of the year to date! Plenty is happening in major cities and towns and it creates a romantic environment to get out and meet som...

While Love is Blind is a reality show crafted for our entertainment, it asks an important question: Is Love Blind? Can I fall in love without ever seeing the person? In today's podcast, I share my thoughts on the show and provide you with a few things to consider for yourself.  Join The Club. Get Access to The Club at 50% OFF (code: DATE50) and learn how to OVERCOME Nice Guy Syndrome and star...

In today's episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I share insights about dating and if you are lowering your standards . We talk about how you know if you have lowered your standards, the reasons why you do this and how you can overcome this . I also share an interesting fact about men and women and what happens when they have a need for sex.  This upcoming month of November 2022, get access...

You asked. I answered. Your best dating and relationship questions are answered!  In today's show, I answer: How do I get over my ex? How do I deal with intimacy issues years into a relationship? I’ve taken a multiple-year break from dating, how do I start again? How to stay positive while dating in this frustrating world?  What is love versus obsession? Dating? Download The Dating Handb...

This week on The Self-Confidence Project Podcast...I had the pleasure of speaking with David Edwards. After a 35-year career in the healthcare field, he had a series of epiphanies that led him to two years of research on the principles of life and earlier this year, he published his work in a new book this year titled “New You! Who Knew?”. David and I talk about his story, and what trust means in...