Douglas Tsoi

The School of Financial Freedom Podcast

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What does it mean to live a meaningful inner and outer life and how do our personal finances fit in that? We discuss money, personal & spiritual growth, budgeting, and how all of this relates to the life you were meant to lead. If you want to make financial and behavioral changes that lead to more empowerment, integrity, and gratitude in the world, listen in. Each episode is a lesson in the course Financial Freedom 1, with alumni explaining the principle and what it means to them years after the course. Links:www.schooloffinancialfreedom.comwww.douglastsoi.substack.comwww.douglastsoi.com

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Douglas Tsoi

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Latest episode

Sep 4, 2024

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Episodes

2.1 Status Roles and Tiny Details Exaggeration Syndrome 04.09.2024

This lesson is one of the most disagreed-with lessons in the course. The premise is, after a certain level of income, all spending goes to create a status identity. Another way to put it, after a certain level of income, all spending goes to getting approval from the people we want approval from and to feel a certain way about ourselves. SOFF grad Jessica talks about setting a goal to hit financia...

Lesson 3.6: Inner Locus of Control and Brain Food 28.08.2024

Is your financial security in your control or is it dependent on the economy, the stock market, or who’s controlling Congress? Is your financial destiny something you direct or a product of your family history and circumstances? Can you make choices that build a future you want, or does circumstance matter more? We get to the critical question of Locus of Control. We talk to Dawn Robertson, a rece...

The Three Vows: Devotion with Sarah Selecky and Ryan Henderson 22.08.2024

Earlier this year, I had an idea of a new podcast called the Three Vows. In it, I translate the traditional three monastic vows, poverty, obedience, and chastity into modern vows of voluntary simplicity, integrity, and devotion.  In this interview, I talk with my friends Sarah Selecky and Ryan Henderson, who run the Sarah Selecky Writing School. Sarah and Ryan use their wedding vows as an anchor f...

Lesson 3.5: Your Money or Your Life, with Christen Kelly and Jorden Cummings 01.07.2024

We get to one of the key concept in the financial independence movement: that we exchange hours of our life for money (i.e. jobs), so when we spend money, we're actually spending our life energy. So the idea is when we stop mindless consumerism, we can buy our future time. Christen Kelly and Jorden Cummings, recent FF1 grads and current FF2 students, come in and talk about their realizations a...

Lesson 1.3: Three Truths about Money, with Elle 24.06.2024

What are the benefits of financial independence? Is it worth the effort involved? What's wrong with working until normal retirement age? We address these questions with FF1 alumni Elle, a young primary care doctor. We talk about the sacrifices we make with paid employment: our time, our sense of agency, our personal ethics. Elle would not doctor the way she doctors, but for the requirements of...

Lesson 1.2: The Emotional Content of Money, with Lulu Cheng 17.06.2024

What if money wasn’t your real problem? What if your real problem was your relationship with money? Money is emotional. The unconscious beliefs and thoughts we have about money far outweigh the conscious ones. So much about how we deal with money is how we FEEL about money. Unconscious beliefs about money deeply influence how we live in the world.  FF alumni and executive coach Lulu Cheng comes in...

Lesson 3.11: Budgeting Needs, Wants, and Bullshit, with Andrea Kelly and Brett Lyon 10.06.2024

Almost everyone knows their annual salary, but 8 out of 10 people don’t know how much money they spend. Once you think about it, that’s incredible. This level of unconscious spending is the reason so many people live in financial fragility today. Andrea Kelly and Brett come in and talk about how they budget as a married couple with a newborn. They took FF1 separately and, after they moved in toget...

Lesson 1.7: Douglas's Story - Financial Freedom at age 42 03.06.2024

You may have read this on my  newsletter, but this episode is my story of how I reached financial freedom at age 42 in 2014.  The average American works 90,000 hours in their lifetime. I worked 30,000. In my 20 years of working, I only averaged $36k a year. But if you only spend $25k a year, the math works out:  How I retired at age 42 only making $36k a year. So I generally believe that financial...

Lesson 3.2: Inspiration through your Financial Manifesto, with Annie Bickerton 27.05.2024

Most people’s money problems are actually a lack of fundamental direction in their lives. I believe anyone in the middle class of America reach financial independence, if they know what they really want out of life. My dear friend Annie Bickerton joins me to talk about lesson 3.2, where students actually articulate what they want out of life. What's worth getting your finances in order for? St...

Lesson 2.2: Stress and Status in Capitalism, with Lindsay Kandra 20.05.2024

In this episode, FF1 grad and licensed therapist Lindsay Kandra talks about the how capitalism exploits the body's reaction to stress. We talk about economic insecurity, the stress cycle, and how they lead to hyper and hypo vigilance. Today's use of addictive substances and activities a widespread way of managing feelings of agitation and overwhelm. We discuss how consumerism may be the on...

Lesson 3.4: The Pyramid of Failure - Attitudes, Behaviors, & Systems, with Rachel Whaley 13.05.2024

This lesson is an important one: the one where we move from talking about all this personal finance stuff to figuring out how do we actually do it? FF1 alumni Rachel Whaley comes in and talks about setting up systems to do the work for us. She reminds us, "We don't rise to the level of our intentions, but fall to the level of our systems." Rachel talks about the systems she built: si...

Lesson 3.9: Get Rid of your Debt First! with Cedric Justice 09.05.2024

As one FF student said, "any debt based financial transaction is a poor person giving a rich person money." It's also Present You asking Future You to pay for current consumption. If you are in debt, you literally owe life hours to someone else. It restricts choices, agency, and ties you to a system extracts more from you that it gives. In this episode, we talk with Cedric Justice, w...

Lesson 3.1: Self Determination and the Stockdale Paradox, with Rachel Shadoan 11.04.2024

“You must combine optimism with brutal honesty and a willingness to take action.”  - Admiral James Stockdale Many people don't pay attention to their personal finances because they don't want to participate in capitalism. But there is no not-participating. In this Rachel Shadoan talks about the idea that you don't have any excuse for being bad at money. Ignoring your finances doesn&#39...

Lesson 2.4: The Story of Stuff, with Kurt 04.04.2024

Spending is not only about personal finance, but also environmental destruction. FF1 alumni Kurt talks about the connection between personal consumption and climate change. People who believe in climate change have higher carbon footprints than those who don't believe in believe change because, simply, they have higher incomes, and spend it. But the planet doesn't care what you believe, on...

Lesson 3.3: Owning Your Vision of the Future, with Jon Marro 27.03.2024

“Knowing what you want is the ultimate life skill. It is worth more than talent or hard work. It is almost worth as much as luck. Have it, and disappointment is still probable, but on your own terms. Lack it, and you will be done to and acted upon.” Financial Times writer Janan Ganesh In this episode, artist and FF alumni Jon Marro talks about the importance of imagination and vision of the person...

Lesson 3.15: The goal is not knowledge. The goal is change, with Ivellisse Morales 26.03.2024

“You’re never ready for what you have to do. You just do it. That makes you ready.” - Flora Rheta Schreiber Commitment is an act, not a word. Further, I would argue that commitment eventually becomes not even an act, but a state of being. It’s not a thing you do; it’s who you are. To be fully committed is to allow yourself to be shaped by what you are committed to and, eventually, to become one wi...

Lesson 3.7: Your Financial Mindset is Your Financial Destiny. Attitudes and Behaviors of the Millionaire Next Door, with Barbara 21.03.2024

The “Millionaire Next Door” is a national study of the 3.5 million households in America with a net worth of over $1 million. 80% are first-generation wealthy, i.e. they did not inherit it. A significant percentage of them are “blue-collar wealthy,” people who own businesses that “could be classified as dull-normal…welding contractors, auctioneers, rice farmers, owners of mobile home parks, pest c...

Lesson 2.3. Poverty, Race, Status, and Conspicuous Consumption, with Jessie Dunley Jr. 14.03.2024

The intersection of race, status, and consumption is sensitive and complex. Because I teach personal finance, I’ve wrestling with what I think of all this for years. In this episode, I bring in Jessie Dunley Jr., a Black alumni of SOFF, to talk about how growing up Black and poor in Texas affected his consumption and savings habits when he became an adult. In this episode, Jessie talks with wisdom...

Lesson 2.8: Getting Started on Reducing Spending, with Emma Dotta 12.03.2024

Emma Dotta is the youngest person to have ever taken FF1, which means that she was able to pick up financial ideas and habits very early on in her life. In this episode she talks about how she reduced the major slices of a personal budget: housing, transportation, and groceries and in that creativity, lives in nature, surrounded by community, eating the best food in the world. Emma talks about spe...

Lesson 2.6: What is Enough? with Danielle LaSusa 01.03.2024

"What is enough?" is the animating question of the entire Financial Freedom 1 course. I explore the idea of lagom, the Swedish word meaning "just the right amount with Danielle LaSusa, PhD in philosophy, coach, and writer of a book on the meaning of motherhood. We explore the perpetual state of dissatisfaction we have under capitalism. Or is the hedonic treadmill simply the First No...

Lesson 1.6: You Know Everything Already, with Hanna Dornhofer 24.02.2024

Personal finance is common knowledge: spend less than you earn. Everyone knows this. But why don't people do this? FF alumni Hanna Dornhorfer took Financial Freedom when she was 25. Five years later, she and I explore the question why she was able to buy a house and save for the future when others her age don't. Aligning her spending to values and committing to caring for herself in the fu...

Lesson 3.10: Budgeting Tools and Consciousness, with Whitney 24.02.2024

What budgeting tool do you use? Learning about personal finance is idle chatter unless you actually do the work. FF alumni Whitney talks about tracking expenses, the four principles of You Need A Budget (YNAB), and how it relates to consciousness, choice, and freedom.

Lesson 1.4: Savings Rate. When Do You Want Financial Freedom? with Paul Spencer and Kim LaFever 22.02.2024

Financial freedom is when passive income equals monthly spending. This episode is an intro to the math of personal finance. FF alumni Paul Spencer and Kim LaFever reached financial independence five years after taking FF1. In this episode, we learn the numbers behind how they did it and what they are doing now. They talk about how learning about FIRE disrupted their assumptions about their work, t...

Lesson 2.9: The Power of Stories; What's Your Narrative? with Naomi Veak 22.02.2024

A change in your finances requires a change in how you see yourself. Contamination vs. redemption stories. FF alumni Naomi Veak talks about how both sobriety and personal finance changed her life. She talks about how confronting her trauma and seeing how unconsciously she was spending both her time and money allowed her to live more freely and joyously.

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