The School Of Custody Podcast

Are you an unmarried father—or supporting one through the process? In this episode, we break down one of the most critical (yet commonly misunderstood) steps in securing your parental rights: establishing legal parentage. Many fathers assume that being present at birth or being involved in their child’s life is enough. But legally, that’s not the case. While mothers are automatically recognized, u...

Leading by Example: Navigating the Digital Age for Our Children's Mental Health" In today's episode of the School of Custody podcast, we dive deep into a pressing issue facing parents and children alike in the digital age: the mental health crisis exacerbated by excessive smartphone and social media use. Join us as we explore alarming trends affecting tweens and teens, as evidenced by the countles...

Are you spending endless hours documenting parental alienation—just in case you end up in court? You’re not alone. But is all that effort helping, or is it draining your energy and keeping you stuck in a state of survival? In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the emotional, legal, and personal costs of documenting alienating behaviors. While protecting yourself and your children is importan...

🎙️ Identification with the Aggressor: When Your Child Turns Against You Is your child acting aggressively, violently, or with hostility after you’ve left an abusive relationship? You're not alone—and there’s a psychological explanation that might help you make sense of it. In this episode, we explore Identification with the Aggressor—a defense mechanism in which children unconsciously adopt the be...

🎙️ Are You Being Falsely Accused of Falsely Accusing? Podcast Episode Description: 🎙️ Are You Being Falsely Accused of Falsely Accusing? In this compelling episode of The School of Custody podcast, we confront a damaging and all-too-common narrative: that survivors of domestic violence fabricate abuse to gain custody or control. If you’ve been accused of lying about abuse—or if you're fighting to...

Description: ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses real-life domestic violence incidents witnessed in public settings. In this powerful and emotional episode, we recount a disturbing moment that unfolded in downtown Philadelphia — an act of domestic violence in a public plaza, witnessed by bystanders and, heartbreakingly, two small children. Through this firsthand account, we explore what it...

DUI with kids in the car? Discover the life-changing consequences of custody battles. A must-hear.

🎙️ Episode Title: Help Alienated Kids In this episode, we reflect on a powerful video from the Anti-Aliénation Project titled "No One Is Helping the Kids Because the Experts Won't Work Together." Hosted by Madison McCain in conversation with Dorsey Pruder—both adult survivors of parental alienation—the video highlights the frustrating reality: children are being harmed while professionals argue ov...

In this episode, we explore how traditional discipline methods can backfire in high-conflict divorce situations and how understanding intergenerational trauma can shift parenting approaches. Inspired by the Family Separation Clinic and Karen Woodall, we focus on awareness, healing, and growth.

In this powerful episode, we uncover the hidden trauma of parental alienation. From a moment of reflection in Golden, Colorado, to Amanda Sillars’ inspiring work with EMMM, and “Lynn’s story” of abuse and legal failure, this is a call for awareness, advocacy, and change.

In this episode, we dive into the intersection of mental health and divorce—how diagnoses can be weaponized, the risks of untreated issues, and the emotional toll on both parents and kids. Learn about parentification, emotional regulation, and creating safe spaces for children. This is awareness, not advice—always consult a professional. #DivorceSupport #MentalHealthAwareness

Why does being a "good enough" parent sometimes lead to rejection? This episode dives into parental alienation, narcissistic abuse, and custody challenges. Hear Carmen's heartbreaking story and learn how courts often fail targeted parents. Spot early signs of alienation, protect your truth, and stay strong through high-conflict co-parenting. 

Children and teens who witness domestic violence carry lasting scars. In this episode, we explore their perspectives, the impact of seeing and experiencing domestic violence, and how to break the cycle. Learn to access support and understand how abusers manipulate healing. You are not alone—help is within reach.  Resources & Support:  National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233, www.sch...

Parental alienation happens fast, but you can protect your bond. This video covers essential do’s and don’ts—how to document alienation, enforce court orders, and stay a loving, stable presence. Learn what to say, how to handle false memories, and when to seek help. Alienation is painful, but giving up isn’t an option. Let’s rebuild trust together.      

"Domestic violence affects millions, but no one has to face it alone. This episode will explore the support systems available for victims and their children. Whether you or someone you know needs help, we’ll share information and resources that help.

"Family members can be a source of unconditional love and stability for children experiencing their parents' divorce. However, they can also unintentionally contribute to a child's loyalty conflict, which may lead to estrangement later in life. Choosing to offer support without taking sides can help maintain strong, lasting relationships."

For co-parenting, you should choose a neutral therapist, not your child's therapist.

Learn to identify what a loyalty conflict looks like.

How to lower conflict your child experiences due to the schedule. 

Understand your child's needs for love. 

Learn the pain of parent-child estrangement and stop it before it happens.

"Parents who lie and cheat to avoid paying child support are not only failing their children but also risking serious legal consequences. Beyond legal penalties, this behavior can damage your long-term relationship with your children and damage your reputation in your community. Providing for your child is not just a legal obligation—it's a moral responsibility.