The Sacred We

Episode Summary In the first episode of the Toe Curling Spiritual Sex Series , the hosts dive deep into the role of emotions and vulnerability in sexual intimacy. They debunk common myths that both men and women have been told about suppressing emotions during sex and reveal how true sexual alchemy emerges when emotions are embraced rather than repressed. The conversation explores how the masculin...

Courtney goes into the journey of the "awakened woman" and the importance of the feminine energy in sacred relationship, including the need to work through anger and frustration to cultivate a fierce love that can initiate and call forth the masculine. She emphasizes the importance of the feminine developing a strong relationship with her inner masculine, as well as being willing to be fiercely lo...

This episode explores how to move from needy, reactive, and controlling behaviors in relationships to sexually charged connection. It covers three key points: understanding young parts and how they can destroy relationships, recognizing when young parts are present, and learning how to get to know your wise adult self to cultivate sexually charged connection. Key Topics: Young Parts and Relationsh...

The podcast discusses the importance of understanding and communicating one's needs in relationships. It covers different types of needs, how to effectively express them, and what to do when a partner is resistant to meeting those needs. (00:00) Welcome to Together Podcast (00:17) Exploring Sacred Relationships & Parenting (01:15) The Skin Deep Card Game Experience (01:58) Our Partnership with...

Overview: The podcast discusses the "shamanic death" that couples often experience in sacred relationships. The hosts, Mike and Courtney, share their personal journey through this process and the insights they gained. They emphasize the importance of committing to the relationship, having a clear vision, and being willing to go through the challenging parts to reach deeper levels of love and intim...

In this solo cast Mike goes through what an uninitiated man looks like and what an initiated man looks like and what it is important for men to be a part of this process. If you are a man who is feeling frustrated and confused with why your relationships don't seem to last or you find yourself feeling lots of shame this is for you. If you are a woman wanting to understand men more this is also for...

We interview Miriam Martineau  mother, therapeutic counselor, parenting coach, with a focus on Parenting as a Spiritual practice and child development. Miriam beautifully lays out the imperfect practice of conscious parenting, the presence it requires, allowing our children to see our vulnerability and the importance of parenting from our truer essence. We also dive in to how the parent’s rel...

How do we nurture strong willed children and recognize them as powerful leaders? Mike and Courtney explore the healthy development of will, resistance, aggression, and anger in children and how as parents we can welcome and work with it. They dive in to their personal challenges and insights as parents of a strong willed child and as strong willed leaders themselves.  Community Link https://w...

In this episode Mike dives into a bit of the journey he has been on from codependence to empowered and free in relationship. He shares the right order of healthy development and how you can become active and empowered in the journey of relational healing. Also how this modality could be what actually gets all you are wanting. If this episode resonates and inspires you in a way to take more action...

Courtney Wren does a solo podcast taking us on a deep dive into Pre Conception and Conception. She speaks to women who are called to be mamas one day, mamas who are already parenting, and women who don’t plan to but are curious how their conception time is impacting their creativity and relationships now. She maps out both the mystical and the attachment and nervous systems view of this early time...

Courtney Wren and Mike Elliott talk Leadership. They explore the phenomena of leaders becoming relationally isolated and the cultural tendency for leaders to feel lonely. They dive into the root of this in development as well as what’s needed in order for leaders to return to the circle of support. They discuss the new earth way of leadership and the importance of impactful leaders having relation...

Courtney Wren and Mike Elliott share their view of what it is to embody and create the New Earth Family in the west right now. They  discuss the key as being reconnection relationally with self, each other, the earth; a deep attuned listening required to feel what is here and to then birth something new. They share their new ways of father/ masculine and mother/ feminine that are being woven....

Courtney Wren and Mike Elliott interview Sarah Wildeman a Leadership & Relationship Dynamics Coach, Community Builder and founder of Our Common - a coaching and consulting practice focused on helping Whole Systems thrive. They discuss Re-Villaging, reweaving community into our lives in an individualistic cuture. We discuss the relational skills needed, the challenges, and the qualities th...

Courtney Wren and Mike Elliott go in depth into Imprinting, including the Morphogenic ‘knowing’ field and genetic intergenerational patterns in the DNA. Understanding imprints, how they play out in relationship, and how we can become conscious allies in transforming them IS a relationship game changer! They explain what makes up our imprints and how our imprints interact. They give real examples o...

Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren interview Taylor Tosczak ~ Feminine Embodiment coach~ and Thomas Scott ~ Executive Men’s Coach. This is another conscious couple both pioneering in the world of entrepreneurship, coaching and living conscious relationship. We dive in to: how business and relationship can be/ are interconnected, the boundaries that are needed to hold both business and relationship in...

Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren get real: Love does not just happen. It’s something we cultivate, practice and choose to act on. They discuss the practice of authentically choosing love, the intersection of the primal nervous system and our consciousness, self love as key to choosing love, and they challenge you to take radical responsibility for what you are showing up for. They also share loving...

Mike Elliott & Courtney Wren interview Gloria Zhang. Based out of Canada, Gloria Zhang (@bygloriazhang) is an award-winning therapist, intuitive healer, who helps high achievers reclaim and heal their inner child. Gloria hosts the global sensation, 'The Inner Child Podcast,' a self-help series which has captivated audiences across the globe, accumulating almost 2 million downloads. Gloria enjo...

Courtney and Mike dive in to the Nervous System and Trauma. They discuss: that we all have trauma and it shows up in our relationships, how relationship heals collective and generational trauma, the small and big traumas that shape our level of relationally and intimacy, how trauma in the nervous system distorts our expression of love and core essence, how we are designed as primal animals for rel...

Mike and Courtney interview their soul friend and epic human Dr Kevin Preston TCM. Dr. Preston has so much experience supporting people with chronic illness, optimize the medicine within and activate the changes they are ready for. We dive in to how our health is relational. We cover: relationship inside our bodies, how our relationships impact our bodies, and regeneration- how to regene...

Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren hit the record button as they processed their pattern of conflict when their power clashes. They take turns sharing their inner experience, active listening, holding space, and piecing together  what ends up playing out between them. They find clarity and understanding in the process. Allow their process to teach and guide you in how to have a similar...

Courtney Wren & Mike Elliott share how they navigate the places together that are especially different and can be triggering.  Why differences can be so triggering in our attachment & nervous systems How to work with the triggers  Cultivating appreciation for how the differences enhance your life How embracing differences IS what Love is all about 

Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren  have a deep dive conversation with couple Autumn Skye (Artist) and Neo Corbett (change maker). They intimately share about the soul of their relationship, what they are co creating and how they came together . We cover the terrain of conscious beginnings, having gratitude for the ways our past relationships helped us grow and what it can look like when we enter...

Mike Elliott & Courtney Wren interview Mel Cassidy a relationship coach. We Dive in to non-monogamy and polyamory, detoxing and unwinding from patriarchy and the nuclear family, what is required to consciously navigate non-manogamy, attachment and trauma healing in non-monogamy , that the same healing challenges arise in non-monogamy and msnogamy and how authentic relationship is a radical act...

Mike Elliott & Courtney Wren interview Andrea Parker and Mel Mills a same sex couple who love deeply, are cocreating a heart led life, have a business together and are devoted to fun. We discuss being in  business as a couple, calling in your partner, staying connected and in fun during difficult times, journeying as a same sex couple, and disagreements about loading the dishwasher. ...

Mike Elliott & Courtney Wren get into what for many is the most  crunchy place in relationship. This is also the place of greatest transformation and deepest healing when we can show up together. They cover topics including How to consciously create your couple bubble/ new family culture, how to bring your partner into your family, how to have boundaries, how to be allies, receiving...