The Sacred We

Join our new Masterclass offering for couples wanting to reopen their hearts after conflict.  👉Sign up HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/rupture-and-repair What does radical self-love actually look like when life refuses to cooperate? When you're in the middle of a custody battle that drags on for 13 years? When your son goes no-contact for six and a half years and you don't know where he...

Join our new Masterclass offering for individuals and couples wanting to reopen their hearts after conflict.  👉Sign up HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/rupture-and-repair In this episode of The Sacred We, Mike and Courtney go into some of the most honest, vulnerable territory they've shared yet. Mike's shadow: the numbness and freeze that comes from losing two primary attachments before...

Want to turn moments of conflict into opportunities for intimacy? 👉Sign up for our couples list HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe Your children are not just watching you. They are becoming you. This is not a conversation about perfect parenting. It's a conversation about the invisible field that lives between you and your partner -- and how that field is shaping your children's nervou...

Want to turn moments of conflict into opportunities for intimacy?  👉Sign up for a FREE guide to 3 Somatic Practices for Deeper Connection HERE: https://www.thesacredwe.com/deeperconnection You want him to open up. He wants to open up. So why isn't it working? In this episode of The Sacred We, Mike and Courtney Elliott go deep into one of the most painful and confusing dynamics in modern rela...

Curious about our new Masterclass?  👉Sign up for Seen & Heard a Sacred We deep dive: https://www.thesacredwe.com/Heard&Seen If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Tune-in Call with Courtney What happens inside your body when you don’t feel heard? Your nerv...

Ready to go deeper? Join Mike and Courtney on June 8th for a 90-minute live deep dive on the To Be Seen and Heard Framework. 👉Sign up for Seen & Heard a Sacred We deep dive: https://www.thesacredwe.com/Heard&Seen If you clicked this, some part of you doesn't feel seen. This episode starts by honouring that ache — and then it gives you a map. In this raw and deeply personal solo episode, M...

Ready to do the relational work — not just the individual work? Mike and Courtney's 2:2 couples container holds both of you, tracks the patterns in real time, and wires you toward connection. 💛 Work with Mike & Courtney 2:2 → ⁠https://www.thesacredwe.com/thesacredwe ⁠ What if the most well-intentioned support you're getting is quietly wiring you further from your partner? In this disruptive,...

Curious about Mapping your Imprinting with Courtney? If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Tune-in Call with Courtney What if the relationship patterns you keep repeating aren't about the person you're with — but about what's already written in your body, your DNA, and...

If something's pulling you toward this work, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Schedule Here You long for it. You might not even have words for it yet. But something in your body knows — motherhood was never meant to be done alone. In this intimate solo episode, Courtney sits down with her closest mama-sister...

Curious about Evolutionary Relationship — The Initiation? If something's pulling you toward this program, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Schedule Here What does it actually look like to go from stuck, disconnected, and in the deepest grief of your life — to a love that radiates so strongly, people stop you...

Curious about Evolutionary Relationship — The Initiation? If something's pulling you toward this program, let's talk. Book a free, no-pressure call to explore whether it's the right fit for you and your partner - Book Your Call → Schedule Here Most couples don't ask for help until the relationship is already bleeding. In this episode, Mike and Courtney Elliott get personally vulnerable about what...

If you are feeling the pull to join our couples program Evolutionary Relationship- the Initiation, but also have some specific questions please connect with us. Book Your Call → ⁠ https://calendly.com/transform-rxg/evolutionary-relationship-discovery-call⁠ The Attachment Truth Every Parent Needs to Know What if the moment your child seems "totally fine" without you is actually the most important s...

If you are feeling the pull to join our couples program Evolutionary Relationship- the Initiation, but have some questions, let's hop on a no- pressure call to feel into it together so that you and your partner can get clear on what the program is and whether it's a good fit for you. Book Your Call → ⁠ https://calendly.com/transform-rxg/evolutionary-relationship-discovery-call⁠ Are you feeling lik...

If you are feeling the pull to join our couples program Evolutionary Relationship- the Initiation, but also have some specific questions, or want to know more, let's hop on a no- pressure call to feel into it together so that you and your partner can get clear on what the program is and whether it's a good fit for you. Book Your Call → https://calendly.com/transform-rxg/evolutionary-relationship-d...

Are you in a relationship where your partner feels angry, demanding, or never satisfied — yet underneath it all, you know they just want connection? In this episode, we unpack anxious attachment in relationships — and why it often doesn’t look like anxiety at all. Instead, it shows up as rage, ambivalence, push-pull dynamics, emotional outbursts, and demands for connection that paradoxically push...

What if the part of you that feels weak is actually the key to emotional maturity, intimacy, and relational freedom? In this deeply personal solo episode, Mike explores how avoiding weakness, shame, and shadow parts of ourselves creates projection, defensiveness, and disconnection in relationships. Many of us try to build confidence, strength, discipline, and success to outrun the parts of ourselv...

Most of us have been told that unconditional love is the highest expression of a spiritual relationship. But what if that belief is actually killing your chance at true intimacy? In this episode, Mike and Courtney challenge the cultural narrative around unconditional love and propose something radical: that mature, evolutionary love is actually conditional. And here's what they discovered—this und...

🌱 If you’re feeling called to practice this work in real time, our flagship offering Evolutionary Relationship - The Initiation, price is increasing in two weeks—join at the current rate here. → If you’ve been told to take space, go into another room, and self-regulate before reconnecting with your partner, this episode may completely change how you understand intimacy. In the conscious relations...

Do you find yourself constantly trying to help, coach, or fix your partner — and still feeling disconnected, resentful, or exhausted? In this powerful episode of the Together Podcast, Mike & Courtney explore the subtle but destructive line between loving someone and trying to fix them. While fixing often looks like care, support, or problem-solving, it frequently masks anxiety, control, and an...

If you’ve been trying to “calm” your child in the name of nervous system regulation, this episode may completely change how you parent. In today’s parenting culture, regulation is often mistaken for calmness — but true nervous system regulation has nothing to do with suppressing energy, emotions, or vitality. In this powerful solo episode, Courtney Wren unpacks the biggest myth in nervous-system–a...

If you want more passion, polarity, and “juiciness” in your relationship, this episode is a real behind-the-scenes look at how masculine and feminine energies actually work in daily life. Many couples lose sexual charge not because something is “wrong,” but because their connection becomes neutralized over time. When the masculine and feminine poles aren’t consciously tended, relationships can sta...

If you’ve outgrown conventional relationship advice and are craving a deeper, more conscious way of loving, this episode is for you. In a world that emphasizes hyper-independence, self-healing, and “doing your own work,” many couples feel confused about how to actually grow together . Sacred relationship offers a radically different paradigm—one where love becomes a living practice of mutual evolu...

Are you frustrated with an avoidant partner who pulls away just when you’re trying to connect? In this deeply personal solo episode, Courtney Wren explores avoidant attachment, emotional withdrawal, and why pushing for connection often creates more distance instead of intimacy. Many people in conscious relationships feel lonely, unseen, or blamed for “needing too much” when their partner shuts dow...

Burnout, mental load, resentment, feminine essence, masculine presence—why so many women feel unseen (and how couples reconnect fast). There are so many women and mothers today who are wrung out—tired, irritable, overburdened, underappreciated, and quietly nearing the point of giving up. And there are so many partners who are trying, yet still feeling “never enough.” In this episode, I’m your brot...

This is not a conversation about sex — it’s a conversation about awakening. In this episode, we sit down with Emily and Rob for one of the most honest, soul-rattling explorations of sexuality, shame, intimacy, and true erotic awakening. We uncover: What parasympathetic / yin sex really is How to move from friction-based sex to regenerative lovemaking The meaning of “conscious cock” and why soft pe...