The RTWV Podcast

The quiet 11pm loneliness of holding the line — and how to know if your standard is wisdom or fear. Watching everyone else move on can make you question your own standards. This episode breaks down the real difference between wisdom and fear, shares a story about a standard that needed clarifying instead of lowering, and makes peace with the cost of holding the line. 0:00 — Cold open 0:45 — Intro...

A real message Coach Vikkie received this week, word for word — and the honest episode it became. Tired of waiting doesn't mean your faith is failing. This episode sits in the exhaustion first, then walks through what to actually do with it: building a real life now, protecting your peace from comparison, and telling God the truth about how tired you really are. 0:00 — Cold open 0:45 — Intro 2:00...

“Wait on God” isn't the only honest answer to this question — and today Coach Vikkie gives you the rest of it. If you've asked yourself why you're still single more times than you'd admit out loud, this episode goes past the Sunday school answer into the patterns, the grief, and the fear that often hide underneath the question. Real talk, no shame, with a story and a prayer to take with you. 0:00...

Sex is often reduced to a physical act, but in Christian relationships, it carries emotional and spiritual weight. In this episode, we have an honest and balanced conversation about sex, boundaries, and God’s design for intimacy. We explore why sex is not just physical, why it is reserved for marriage, how it affects emotional attachment, and how to navigate desire with wisdom and self-control. Th...

Why are so many genuinely good men and women still single? In this episode, we explore the deeper reasons behind modern singleness. This conversation challenges the assumption that being single automatically means something is wrong. We talk about intentional dating, emotional healing, compatibility, timing, and how modern dating culture affects meaningful relationships. This episode will help you...

We live in a generation that rushes everything — including love. People meet today, commit tomorrow, and start planning futures they barely understand. We rush titles, intimacy, emotional attachment, and decisions that are meant to shape our lives for years. In this episode, Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much?, we slow things down and ask the hard but necessary questions. Not to judge, not to s...

Love is one of the most desired experiences in life — yet one of the least understood. Growing up, we were taught how to want love, how to dream about it, and how to chase it. But nobody taught us how love actually works, how it exposes wounds, how it demands maturity, or how it requires responsibility beyond feelings. In this episode, What Nobody Told Us About Love, we have an honest, eye-opening...

They said the words. They made the promises. They made you believe in “forever.” And then , they left. Without warning. Without closure. Without explanation. If you’ve ever been left questioning, “Was any of it even real?” this episode will help you process what happened without losing your peace. Because sometimes, love doesn’t fail — people do. In this raw, Spirit-led episode, we talk about: 💔...

Different name. Different face. Same story. You promised yourself it would be different this time — but somehow, you found yourself back in the same kind of heartbreak. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. In When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt, we uncover why cycles repeat — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. You’ll learn how old wounds can shape your choices, why...

They lied. They ignored you. They manipulated you. They didn’t choose you. And yet… your heart still misses them. Why? In this deep, Spirit-led episode, we uncover why our souls often cling to the very people who hurt us most. From trauma bonds to unmet needs to confusing pain with love, this conversation will help you make sense of the ache — and begin to break free from it. You are not crazy. Yo...

You prayed. You cried. You fasted. You even blocked them… But your heart still misses them. In this honest episode, we explore what it really means when you can’t stop thinking about someone God already asked you to release. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re still holding on, this is for you. Whether it’s soul ties, grief, memory triggers, or unfinished feelings, we go deep — without judgment. Yo...

This episode isn’t for the faint-hearted — it’s for the honest-hearted. What if the common pattern in all your failed relationships… is you? Not in a way that brings shame, but in a way that brings healing and growth. In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we unpack the courage it takes to look inward, how to identify harmful behaviors, and most importantly — how to break the cycle and...

What if the question you’ve been asking — “Are they the one?” — is actually limiting your clarity? In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we flip the script and dive into better, wiser questions that lead to real peace in godly relationships. ⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction Why this conversation matters. Letting go of pressure, confusion, and false expectations. ⏱️ 02:30 – Why “Are They the On...

What do you do when you truly believe God told you someone is your spouse… but now they’re engaged to someone else? In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we dive deep into this often unspoken struggle and explore how to discern between divine direction and emotional attachment. We talk about what to do with that belief, how to heal if you’re wrong, and how to move forward in peace and...

You’ve done everything right — prayed, waited, stayed faithful — but you’re still single. In this episode, we get real about the struggles of waiting on God for love. Why is it taking so long? What should you be doing while you wait? Is God silent or is He preparing you? Let’s talk about the delays, the doubts, and the deep lessons in the waiting season. This is for every single person who feels l...

In this episode, we dive deep into a tough but important question: What if the one you love isn’t the one God chose for you? You’ll learn why feelings alone aren’t enough to confirm a relationship, how to recognize when God’s peace is missing, and why God sees what we often can’t—the true heart of the person we love. We’ll talk about how disobeying God in relationships can delay your purpose and w...

Dealing with Arguments in Relationships In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common challenges couples face—arguments. Disagreements are normal, but how you handle them can either strengthen or weaken your relationship. We’ll talk about healthy ways to approach conflict, how to communicate without hurting each other, and the importance of seeking resolution instead of “winning.” Tune...

In this episode, I talked about confusion in relationships. Listen, subscribe and share with your loved ones! Introduction to Confusion in Relationships (00:00:00) Viki introduces the topic of confusion in relationships and welcomes listeners. Spiritual Guidance in Relationships (00:00:53) Vikkie emphasizes the podcast's focus on God-centered relationships. Understanding Confusion (00:01:03) Vikki...

Hey Fam, this is the last episode on why trust matters. In this episode we discussed how to build and maintain trust in a Godly relationship. We also looked at how to heal from a broken trust in a Godly relationship.

In this episode, vikkie talks about why trust matters focusing on just the importance of trust in Godly relationships. Introduction (00:00:00) Vikkie introduces her podcast, emphasizes its availability on different platforms, thanks listeners for listening and sharing the last episode and urges listeners to subscribe. The importance of trust in godly relationships (00:00:44) Vikkie explains the fo...

In this Episode Vikkie talks about why trust matters. The episode focuses on the definition of trust and its foundation. Introduction (00:00:00) Vikkie introduces her podcast, emphasizes its availability on different platforms, thanks listeners for listening to her previous episodes and urges listeners to subscribe. Trust in a Relationship (00:00:46) Vikkie defines trust, talks about its dimension...

In this episode, vikkie talks about the true meaning love and what it truly encompasses. Introduction (00:00:00) Vikkie introduces her podcast, emphasizes its availability on different platforms, and urges listeners to subscribe. Defining Love (00:00:42) Vikkie discusses the diverse meanings of love, emphasizing its significance from a Christian perspective and contrasting it with the contemporary...

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