The Rosie and Roula Show

49. We’ve seen it, dads disappearing for 30-minute bathroom breaks while moms barely goes 30 seconds. But why? Is it really in their DNA, or have they just mastered the art of sneaking in alone time? Roula brings in scientific (questionable) reasoning, while Rosie calls BS on the whole thing. We’re talking: ⚡ The great toilet escape, why some people take their sweet time ⚡ The hunter-gatherer ex...

48. We're diving into the hard-hitting questions today: are drinks technically food? Rosie accidentally sparks a full-blown existential crisis over a simple Instagram post, and Roula—while snacking on a mandarin—throws some serious millennial shade. From soup dilemmas to the ultimate smoothie debate, we try (and fail) to get to the bottom of this completely unnecessary but strangely fascinati...

47. What culture do you call your own? The one you were born in or the one you’ve grown? In this episode, we dive into the tension between cultural pride and assimilation. Rosie wrestles with the question, “What even is my culture?” while Roula reflects on the challenges of making connections in a country where people don’t often invite you into their homes. We’re talking: ⚡ The Lebanese culture...

46. Rosie swears she's stubborn, but Roula's not so sure. In this episode, we unpack what stubbornness really looks like: when it’s a strength, when it’s a roadblock, and how to tell the difference. From cereal debates (milk first? Seriously?) to pushing back on bold design choices, we get into the nuances of standing your ground versus staying open-minded. Is stubbornness just another w...

45. One word, endless meanings: Roula gives Rosie a crash course on "yalla" and why context is everything. From bedtime routines to moments of impatience, we break down how tone, culture, and emotion shape language. Plus, Roula shares how Dutch directness threw her for a loop—and why words like "prima" just don’t cut it.  Tune in and let us know: is there a word in your languag...

44. Who says getting older means getting boring? Not us! This episode kicks off with an intense love affair—with mandarins—and quickly turns into a deep dive on why fun shouldn't stop just because you hit a certain age. Roula shares insights from a midlife women's group, tackling why so many relationships lose their spark and what to do about it. Rosie talks about losing yourself in a re...

43. We all know that person—the one who can’t help but turn every conversation into a competition. You’re sick? They were sicker. You had a bad day? Theirs was worse. It’s frustrating, dismissive, and honestly, just plain annoying. But is it always intentional? Roula and Rosie dive into why people one-up, when it’s harmless versus downright rude, and how to handle it without losing your cool. Plus...

42. Roula’s red lipstick sparked an existential crisis—kind of. In this episode, we dive into the unspoken social dynamics of the school pickup zone, the weirdly persistent power of peer pressure (even as adults), and why something as simple as lipstick can make you feel like you stand out in all the wrong ways. Rosie questions whether Roula is having a midlife crisis, while Roula insists it'...

Some say it’s just affection. Others think it crosses a line. In this episode, we get into it. Roula says it’s a hard no (hello, germs and boundaries), while Rosie questions if we’ve just been conditioned to see it as romantic.   We’re talking:   ✨ Is it harmless or confusing for kids?   ✨ The hygiene factor—should we be worried?   ✨ How culture shapes what feels “normal”   Where do you stand?...

Why do women have to pick a title that reveals their relationship status, while men just get Mr. for life? In this episode, we get into it. Rosie has a full-blown what the hell?! moment, while Roula breaks down the history (it’s as ridiculous as you think).   We’re talking:    Why women get stuck with Miss, Mrs., or Ms. and men just don’t   The hidden power of titles (hierarchy, social status, and...

Breakups and divorces: soul-crushing endings or the start of something better? In this episode, we get real about what comes after love ends. Rosie swears it’s a full-on phoenix moment (rebirth!), while Roula digs into the messy but crucial part—accountability. From heartbreak and nostalgia to leveling up and learning what not to do next time, we’re unpacking it all. If you’ve ever wondered, Can I...

Marriage, a romantic fairytale or just a contract? In this episode, we get real about the highs, the lows, and the absolute chaos of love and marriage. Rosie talks about her experience, while Roula explains how her first marriage felt more like a practical deal to make the love story possible. We break down the weird stigma around divorce, why it’s not always a failure, and how it can actually be...

Roula hears it in a song and starts wondering… what does hot-blooded really mean? Rosie immediately pictures someone fiery and passionate, but the dictionary definition? Easily angered and sexually aroused. 😳 So why do men get to be fierce while women are out of control? We unpack the meaning, the double standards, and the one outfit that made Roula feel unstoppable. Let us know: Do you think ‘ho...

Ever feel annoyed when you do something nice for someone, and they don’t say thank you? Yeah, we get it! In this episode, we talk about why a simple thank you goes a long way and how it feels when it’s missing. Rosie vents about those who take without showing any appreciation, while Roula shares a story about someone who never bothers to ask how she is. Plus, we dig into whether we’re secretly peo...

35. Learning a new language is one thing, but speaking it with confidence? That’s a whole different challenge. Roula shares her journey of learning Dutch and the pressures of proving herself beyond her accent, while Rosie talks about her fear of mispronouncing French and avoiding speaking altogether. We unpack the quirks of accents, linguistic mirroring, and even the languages we dream in. Plus, R...

34. Music isn’t just sound—it’s time travel. In this episode, we dive into the songs that transport us, whether to childhood breakfasts, teenage heartbreaks, or moments of pure joy. Roula recalls the one song that got her through wartime in Lebanon, Rosie shares a musical memory that involves her dad and a dolphin, and we both admit to playing certain tracks just to have a good cry. What songs bri...

33. Why do we hesitate to say, "I look amazing today" or "I'm really proud of myself"? In this episode, we unpack the discomfort around self-praise and why sharing our wins isn’t arrogance—it’s self-belief. Roula reflects on her gym epiphany, Rosie discovers a newfound confidence in the mirror, and we call out the cultural baggage that keeps us from celebrating ourselves....

32. We’re getting real about body hair—leg hair, armpit hair, pubes, all of it! Do we love it? Hate it? Tolerate it? From cultural norms to personal preferences, we spill the tea on our own hairy (or not-so-hairy) experiences. Rosie confesses to her lazy shaving habits, while Roula sticks to her daily smooth routine like a ritual. Plus, we tackle the big one: pubic hair—why is it still such a *thi...

31. In this episode, we dive headfirst into the green-eyed monster, unpacking what it really means in relationships. Is it toxic, or can it actually be healthy? Rosie spills on past relationship drama, Roula gets real about her own jealous moments, and together, we figure out how to turn those feelings into something useful (hint: it’s all about communication!). Plus, unsolicited advice makes a re...

30. Can men and women really be just friends? In this episode, we dive into the complexities of male-female friendships. Why do people assume there must be something more? Why is it so difficult to maintain these friendships as we get older? Roula shares her struggles with finding genuine male friends, while Rosie reflects on past experiences where platonic lines became blurred. We explore societa...

29. Ever done something so embarrassing you wanted the ground to swallow you up? Yep, same. In this episode, we’re sharing our most cringe-worthy stories—like when I made a fool of myself (and my dog didn’t help) at a hardware store, or when Roula decided a rockstar’s table was her personal stage. We chat about why embarrassment feels so awful and how we laugh at it later. It’s funny, it’s awkward...

28. Ever wonder about the different types of crying? We sure do! In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of tears, from happy sobs during a movie to those awkward one-tear drips when you’re trying not to let it show. We talk about laughing till your stomach hurts, crying in private, and those moments when you just can’t hold it in. Join us as we spill the tea on life, emotions, and how w...

27. Ever get annoyed when someone asks, "Can I help?" especially when you’ve got it all under control? Us too! In this episode, we dive into why we resist help and what it really means when people offer. Spoiler: it's not always about the help – it’s about control! We get into the tricky dynamics of asking for help, setting boundaries, and how to say no without feeling guilty. Tune...

26. In this episode, we’re taking on the phrase that makes our blood boil: “Everything happens for a reason.” Really? Losing someone you love? Growing up in a war zone? No, we’re not buying it. We dive deep into why this saying needs to go, how it messes with accountability, and the ways we can take ownership of our lives without blaming fate.   We also get real about abusive relationships, bounda...

25. Ever wondered what truly makes an adult? We get into the messy, confusing, and sometimes hilarious differences between teenagers and adults. Is it just about life experience or something more? From realizing adults can be just as reckless as teenagers to navigating the tricky balance between authority and freedom, we’re diving deep into the realities of growing up. We don’t have all the answer...