Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman
The Rom Complex
Which came first, the romantic comedy or our messed up ways of thinking about love and relationships? Each week Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman break down the romcom tropes that make their hearts sing and the ones that need to be tuned up. Listen to them talk about how these movies affected their relationships–for better and for worse.
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Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman
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Oct 15, 2026
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Episodes
164. The Lake House: I Saw Her. I Kissed her. I Love Her. 20.04.2023 58:44
How well do you remember the mess that is 2006’s The Lake House? Better than we did? We talk about deeply un-curious main characters, time science, and cats. The cats have nothing...
163. Easy A: I Realized That My Name Is an Anagram for “I Love” 13.04.2023 59:05
I just saw something on buzzfeed about Easy A (2010) and it not holding up, but I didn’t bother reading that, and you don’t have to read it either! Instead, listen to...
162. Balloon Animal: We Love Em Johnson and Katherine Waddell 06.04.2023 59:11
In this special episode, we are joined by writer/director Em Johnson and actor/producer Katherine Waddell to discuss their movie Balloon Animal (2022). We talk about the circus, ancient Shelby lore, and re-meet-cutes....
Bonus: Bridgerton S1E1: Diamond of the First Water 30.03.2023 24:52
Please check out this sneak peek at the first Bridgerton mini-episode from our Patreon! You can find more exclusive content at https://www.patreon.com/theromcomplex In this first episode of our Bridgerton bonus series, we...
161. Down with Love: Saying “I Love You” Was Also My Plan 23.03.2023 51:34
After Shelby reveals their deepest shame, we get into discussing Down With Love (2003). The twists! The turns! The secrets revealed! Oh, and don’t forget the iconic telephone call scene.
160. Only You: I Hope Someday I Have Somebody Who Loves Me That Much 16.03.2023 56:58
If you love impulsive liars like we apparently do, you might love 1994’s Only You starring Marisa Tomei and Robert Downey Jr. We talk about going over the top for love, self-tanning...
159. Singin’ in the Rain: Fit as a Fiddle and Ready for Love 09.03.2023 1:00:53
We discuss Singin’ in the Rain (1952) in this unusually trivia-heavy episode. Shelby defends the villain and Sam creeps ever closer toward listing the desired qualities in her perfect man. Hint: dancers...
158. Something New: The Point is, Love is an Adventure 02.03.2023 58:22
Today Sam and Shelby talk about the flirty and floral Something New (2006). We go over NOT telling women what to do with their hair, surprisingly sexy scenes, and how the size...
157. How Stella Got Her Groove Back: Did You Fall in Love with a Twenty-Year-Old Boy? 23.02.2023 50:46
Hey folks, how are we feeling about vacation romance? Ponder that as we discuss How Stella Got her Groove Back (1998). We talk about the age difference, letting your guard down, and...
156. Miss Pettigrew Lives For A Day: You’re All Playing at Love 16.02.2023 1:00:05
Oldruary (unofficial name because I hate it) continues with a movie set in oldentimes: Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day (2008). We also talk about Lee Pace’s height, Lee Pace’s age, and...
155. Something’s Gotta Give: Women Your Age Love That About Me 09.02.2023 57:35
Another week of Nancy Meyers? You better believe it, baby! This week we’re talking about Something’s Gotta Give (2003), but we’re also talking about HUMOR, Pedro Pascal, and being fully vulnerable in...
154. It’s Complicated: But He’s Still in Love with You 02.02.2023 58:25
Enough with those youthful ingenues from last month! This month it’s all about those characters with a bit more life experience, starting with 2009’s It’s Complicated. We discuss the delightful Meryl Streep,...
153. Fire Island: You Tell Me You’re in Love with Me 26.01.2023 54:13
We love enjoying a movie even more upon re-watch, and that’s exactly what happened with Fire Island (2022). It’s a Pride & Prejudice homage that makes exactly as much reference as it...
152. Meet Cute: Love Is Real. This Is Not, It’s Very Fake, It’s Inorganic. 19.01.2023 58:40
Shelby is back on her time travel bs because we’re talking about Meet Cute (2022)! I didn’t feel like listening back through the episode to help me remember what we talked about,...
151. Rosaline: That’s Not How Love Works. It Isn’t Rational. 12.01.2023 59:32
Please ignore the fact that I (Shelby) recorded using the wrong microphone input and instead focus on our discussion of 2022’s Rosaline! We talk about our plot expectations, what it would take...
150. Something from Tiffany’s: I Love That Something Beautiful Always Comes Out of the Mess 05.01.2023 1:00:42
New year, new movies, same Sam and Shelby fun! We’re kicking off 2023 with Something from Tiffany’s (2022), another movie in a long line of movies about a widower with a child...
149. Falling for Christmas: My Followers Will Love it 24.11.2022 58:51
It’s the Lohanaissance baby! We’re talking about Lindsay’s new movie Falling For Christmas (2022) and boy are we excited. There’s selective amnesia, there’s a curly-haired child, there’s a real Santa–everything you could...
148. Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen: Leaving Behind My Beloved City 17.11.2022 53:22
LiLo is in her teen acting prime in 2004’s Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen! We discuss life bits, trash day in New York City, and never missing out on the opportunity...
147. Get A Clue: The Man She Loves is Missing 10.11.2022 55:25
Do you remember where you were when 2002’s Get a Clue came out? If not, don’t worry–we’ve got you covered. That’s right, WE know EXACTLY where you were. On this episode, we...
146. The Parent Trap: But This is an Emergency. Dad’s in Love. 03.11.2022 56:58
We’re kicking off Lindsay Lo-vember with some double trouble because we’re talking about The Parent Trap (1998)! We discuss the ridiculous parenting arrangement, crying children, and whether Meredith was the villain. Enjoy...
145. Clueless: I Am Totally Butt Crazy in Love with Josh 27.10.2022 58:34
AS IF we’d be talking about 1995’s Clueless on this episode. Wait, we are? Oh. Yeah. I knew that. Come to hear about the film, stay to hear Shelby and Sam debate...
144. The Hating Game: Hating Someone Feels Disturbingly Similar to Being in Love with Them 20.10.2022 1:01:43
Newsflash: we read books. Often, those books are adapted into movies, which is why we’re talking about The Hating Game (2021). Sam and Shelby discuss their disappointment in the lead actor, their...
143. The Beautician and the Beast: I’m Not Afraid to Fall in Love 13.10.2022 1:02:41
Listen up divas and dictators, because we’re talking about The Beautician and the Beast (1997). We discuss gruff men, arranged marriages, and a very special announcement. Talk to the hand!
142. The Ugly Truth: Especially When I’m in Love with a Psycho Like You 06.10.2022 1:00:36
You’re the best, listeners. Not happy with that? Too bad, it is, just like the movie we talk about in this episode, The Ugly Truth (2009). We talk about vulnerability, holding men...
141. Barb and Star Go to Vista Del Mar: I Love You with All My Fart 29.09.2022 58:00
Closing out Silly September we have Barb and Star Go to Vista Del Mar (2021)! Shelby and Sam giggle their way through discussions of friendship conflict, Floridian decor, and harnessing your own...
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