Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman
The Rom Complex
Which came first, the romantic comedy or our messed up ways of thinking about love and relationships? Each week Sam Frontera and Shelby Schwieterman break down the romcom tropes that make their hearts sing and the ones that need to be tuned up. Listen to them talk about how these movies affected their relationships–for better and for worse.
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Jul 9, 2026
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Episodes
179. Crazy Rich Asians: No One Loves Free Stuff More Than Rich People 10.08.2023 58:09
It’s a blast from the recent past as we discuss 2018’s Crazy Rich Asians. Sam and I figure out we probably aren’t the first choice of dates for rich people, but that’s...
178. While You Were Sleeping (with Kerry Frances): Have You Ever Fallen in Love with Someone You Haven’t Even Talked to? 03.08.2023 1:01:23
This week we were joined by the talented Kerry Frances to discuss one of her favorite movies, While You Were Sleeping (1995). We talk love at first sight, living many love stories,...
177. Mystic Pizza: I’m Tellin’ You I Love You, and All You Love is My Dick! 27.07.2023 54:35
This week we discuss the disappointingly devoid of magic film Mystic Pizza (1988). We praise our editor, question a man’s motivations for talking negatively about his mother, and condemn a love interest...
176. Roman Holiday – Love Angle Too, I Suppose? 20.07.2023 56:52
Despite Sam’s aversion to Turner Classic Movies, we’re talking about 1953’s Roman Holiday. Wouldn’t you know it, this award-winning and beloved film is extremely enjoyable! We discuss sleepy girls, subtle sexuality, and...
175. Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again: When You’ve Been Defeated by Love, You’re Utterly Defeated 13.07.2023 57:05
The old people and young people come together in 2018’s Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again. Why do we need to see all the stuff we heard about in the first movie?...
174. Mamma Mia!: I Don’t Know How to Sing About Love If I’m Not Feeling It 06.07.2023 56:34
Are you in the mood for three dads? Great, because we’re talking about 2008’s Mamma Mia! That’s right, the exclamation point is right there in the title, and a bunch of ABBA...
173. Dirty Dancing: Havana Nights: In La Rosa, We Dance to the Tempo of Love 22.06.2023 55:26
How could we not follow up last week’s episode with 2004’s Dirty Dancing: Havana Nights? This sweet story about freedom from your parents and from a literal dictator (it’s totally about that)...
172. Dirty Dancing: If You Love Me, You Have to Love All the Things about Me 15.06.2023 59:11
We watched Dirty Dancing (1987) and had the time of our lives talking about it. Sure, we strayed from the topic a few times (anime muscles, last name meanings, the flying spaghetti...
171. The Princess Diaries 2: Royal Engagement: I am in Love with the Queen to Be, and I am Inquiring If She Loves Me, Too 08.06.2023 58:49
The year is 2004, and Chris Pine makes his theatrical debut in Sam’s favorite movie, The Princess Diaries 2: Royal Engagement. We talk rivals-to-lovers, the expertise of Shonda Rhimes, and dancing footmen....
170. The Princess Diaries: I Love Your Eyebrows. We’ll Call Them Frida and Kahlo. 01.06.2023 59:40
At Sam’s DEMAND, we are covering The Princess Diaries (2001)! We discuss Anne Hathaway’s performance, the weight of princessdom, and why a pizza is a perfect apology. For bonus content, please subscribe...
169. Chungking Express: We’re All Unlucky in Love Sometimes 25.05.2023 59:14
To celebrate Shelby’s birthday, we’re talking about one of her favorites: Chungking Express (1994). We discuss hot cop characters, Sam’s new findom hobby, and why it’s totally not that freaky to have...
168. The Notebook: I Think Our Love Can Do Anything We Want It To 18.05.2023 1:01:16
It’s finally time for us to discuss The Notebook (2004). We talk about lying down in the road, the little guy from Entourage, and loving someone with every thing you have. Also,...
167. La La Land: People Love What Other People are Passionate About 11.05.2023 1:00:55
We’re looking back at 2016’s La La Land! Is it as good or as completely obnoxious as we remember? We also talk about the DREAMERS, the TRAFFIC, and the BITTERSWEET PAIN of...
166. Saved!: I am FILLED with Christ’s Love 04.05.2023 56:53
This week’s topic of interest is 2004’s Saved!, a movie that is extremely of its time. We discuss our experiences with Christianity, insta-love, and praying away the gay.
165. Ferris Bueller’s Day Off: Nobody’s Ever Been in Love with Him 27.04.2023 51:45
It’s time for a classic not-quite-rom com, 1986’s Ferris Bueller’s Day Off! I could use a day off, am I right? No? Fine, we’ll keep working just for you, listeners. We talk...
164. The Lake House: I Saw Her. I Kissed her. I Love Her. 20.04.2023 58:44
How well do you remember the mess that is 2006’s The Lake House? Better than we did? We talk about deeply un-curious main characters, time science, and cats. The cats have nothing...
163. Easy A: I Realized That My Name Is an Anagram for “I Love” 13.04.2023 59:05
I just saw something on buzzfeed about Easy A (2010) and it not holding up, but I didn’t bother reading that, and you don’t have to read it either! Instead, listen to...
162. Balloon Animal: We Love Em Johnson and Katherine Waddell 06.04.2023 59:11
In this special episode, we are joined by writer/director Em Johnson and actor/producer Katherine Waddell to discuss their movie Balloon Animal (2022). We talk about the circus, ancient Shelby lore, and re-meet-cutes....
Bonus: Bridgerton S1E1: Diamond of the First Water 30.03.2023 24:52
Please check out this sneak peek at the first Bridgerton mini-episode from our Patreon! You can find more exclusive content at https://www.patreon.com/theromcomplex In this first episode of our Bridgerton bonus series, we...
161. Down with Love: Saying “I Love You” Was Also My Plan 23.03.2023 51:34
After Shelby reveals their deepest shame, we get into discussing Down With Love (2003). The twists! The turns! The secrets revealed! Oh, and don’t forget the iconic telephone call scene.
160. Only You: I Hope Someday I Have Somebody Who Loves Me That Much 16.03.2023 56:58
If you love impulsive liars like we apparently do, you might love 1994’s Only You starring Marisa Tomei and Robert Downey Jr. We talk about going over the top for love, self-tanning...
159. Singin’ in the Rain: Fit as a Fiddle and Ready for Love 09.03.2023 1:00:53
We discuss Singin’ in the Rain (1952) in this unusually trivia-heavy episode. Shelby defends the villain and Sam creeps ever closer toward listing the desired qualities in her perfect man. Hint: dancers...
158. Something New: The Point is, Love is an Adventure 02.03.2023 58:22
Today Sam and Shelby talk about the flirty and floral Something New (2006). We go over NOT telling women what to do with their hair, surprisingly sexy scenes, and how the size...
157. How Stella Got Her Groove Back: Did You Fall in Love with a Twenty-Year-Old Boy? 23.02.2023 50:46
Hey folks, how are we feeling about vacation romance? Ponder that as we discuss How Stella Got her Groove Back (1998). We talk about the age difference, letting your guard down, and...
156. Miss Pettigrew Lives For A Day: You’re All Playing at Love 16.02.2023 1:00:05
Oldruary (unofficial name because I hate it) continues with a movie set in oldentimes: Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day (2008). We also talk about Lee Pace’s height, Lee Pace’s age, and...
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