The Reinvention Era

Send us Fan Mail You're smashing it at work. You're there for everybody else. You're the woman who gets shit done. So why is looking after YOURSELF always the thing that falls off the list? This week on The Reinvention Era , I'm joined by the fabulous Carly Yue , weight loss and mindset coach, for a brilliantly honest conversation about high-achieving women, self-worth, people-...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how you can be an absolute bloody powerhouse in one area of your life and yet still find yourself second-guessing something as basic as sending a message, speaking up or saying no? In this episode of The Reinvention Era , I'm challenging the idea that confidence is something you need to find before you can start living differently. Because sometimes it's no...

Send us Fan Mail What kind of woman looks at a beach for sale in Indonesia and thinks, "Fuck it, let's buy it"? My guest this week, Sophie Foote, apparently. And she was just 26 at the time 😂 Sophie is an entrepreneur, investor, business mentor and the woman behind Business by the Beach, The Beach Club and One to Many. She's built businesses from scratch, sold them, reinvented...

Send us Fan Mail I’m ambitious as fuck. I want more . More impact, more experiences, more money, more rooms, more life. And I’ve learned not to apologise for that. But I’ve also noticed something else about achievement. We can spend months or years climbing towards something that feels absolutely huge... only to reach it, barely take in the view and immediately start looking for the next fucking m...

Send us Fan Mail I came home from Ibiza this week with thousands of thoughts, but one has followed me home way more loudly than the others: Belonging. And specifically, whether some of us have confused genuinely belonging with becoming really bloody good at reading the room, learning the rules and adjusting ourselves accordingly. In this episode, I'm exploring the connection between identity,...

Send us Fan Mail I cancelled something this week that I had publicly declared I was going to do. And it wasn’t because it failed or because nobody signed up (they did) or because I couldn't deliver it. I cancelled a masterclass I'd already announced, built, promoted and had people registered for because I finally admitted something to myself: I didn't actually want to bloody do it....

Send us Fan Mail What if you don't need more clarity, another strategy or one more bloody opinion? What if you already know exactly what to do? In this episode, I get called out on my own very convincing form of procrastination: productive avoidance . The courses, research, planning, tweaking and learning that all look incredibly bloody useful... whilst also conveniently keeping you away from...

Send us Fan Mail What if the woman you're waiting to be isn't coming? That isn’t because you're incapable of being her. Not at all. But because you were never supposed to wait for her in the first place. I'm recording this episode exhausted, emotional and still trying to process what happened last week at the very first Be You Now, my identity reinvention event for founders and...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when the business you've built looks successful from the outside... but feels completely wrong to live inside? In this episode of The Reinvention Era , I'm joined by the fabulous Jodie Hayward for a conversation that sits right at the intersection of two things we so often treat as completely separate: Who we are and how we operate. Jodie works where identit...

Send us Fan Mail What if the reason you keep making things harder than they need to be has absolutely f*ck all to do with having ‘high standards’? What if somewhere along the way, you actually learned that things only really count if they're bloody difficult? This week I'm sharing something very real and live from my own identity work. A conversation with one of my mentors uncovered a pa...

Send us Fan Mail What if you’re not actually scared of failing? What if you’re scared of people seeing you try... and then watching it not work? Because I think there’s actually quite a big difference. Failing privately is one thing. Abso-f*cking-lutely. But, saying out loud I want this , putting your hand up, launching the thing, changing career, starting the business, writing the book, going aft...

Send us Fan Mail We all love the idea of playing a bigger game don’t we? The bigger business. The book. The stage. The visibility. The opportunities. The money. The impact. We put it on the vision board, write down the goals and decide we're bloody well going for it. And then the game actually starts. Suddenly there are other people on the board. Decisions you weren't expecting. Rejectio...

Send us Fan Mail What if the biggest thing missing from your life isn't confidence, motivation or another morning routine... What if you've simply become disconnected from yourself? In this powerful conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Sally Berg , founder of Mature Eros , embodiment mentor and self-proclaimed Queen of Pleasure. Together we explore what happens when high-achiev...

Send us Fan Mail This week on the Reinvention Era, we're talking about something that most people completely overlook... The rooms you choose. And I’m not just talking about the physical spaces, but also the conversations, the people, the energy and the standards you surround yourself with every day. Because those things are never neutral. They either reinforce the identity you've always...

Send us Fan Mail You lead your team. Your house. Your clients. Your family. Your children. Sometimes, it feels like you’re leading every bloody person you come into contact with (even if you don't actually know them!) But when was the last time you properly led yourself ? In this week’s episode, I’m talking about the subtle leadership crisis so many capable, high-achieving people don’t even r...

Send us Fan Mail Most women don't burn out because they're weak (even though that’s quite often how we end up feeling when we do). It’s actually that most of us burn out because we've been taught that success means pushing harder, saying yes more often and putting ourselves last. In this episode, I sit down with award-winning health-led business coach Nikola Howard to unpack why the...

Send us Fan Mail "This isn't the story of the year everything finally worked out. It's the story of the year I stopped waiting for it to" A year ago, I thought I was redesigning my business. I wasn't. I was redesigning the woman leading it. Over the last twelve months I've broken my arm, needed major surgery, battled a post-operative infection, left a job I'd spe...

Send us Fan Mail Why "I'm Becoming Her" Might Be the Most Comfortable Lie You Tell Yourself  On language, money scripts and the identity you're building every time you open your mouth This week's episode came together from about four different places, and I'm not going to pretend it didn't. But it's also all kind of about the same thing: the words we use, th...

Send us Fan Mail There's a version of you who already knows exactly what she wants to do next. She's not waiting for the conditions to be perfect nor waiting for the fear to disappear. She's not waiting for a sign either.  She's just waiting for you to stop asking the wrong part of yourself for bloody permission. This week I'm getting personal, because I think this is one...

Send us Fan Mail A gorgeous human put her hand up at an event a couple of weekends ago, and asked if she was too old to change her career, start a business, and go after what she actually wanted. She was 47 years old. Forty-f*cking-seven. And I watched her ask it with genuine uncertainty on her face, the years of conditioning sitting right there in the room with her, whispering in her ear that she...

Send us Fan Mail Right, so this one started as a thought I had while driving with the roof down, which, for the record, is when literally all my best ideas happen (well, that and the shower!) I'd been thinking about legacy, and how we widely perceive it. Because we talk about legacy like it's something you build and leave behind. Whether it’s the career, or the body of work (or even the...

Send us Fan Mail You know that feeling when you've done absolutely everything right... and yet it still doesn't feel right? Yeah I see you. Well, you're not someone who just "can't have nice things".... You are basically running on a frequency that was built a long time ago, in a version of your life that no longer fits you anymore. And until that changes, you can wor...

Send us Fan Mail You've done it, haven't you? The career. The salary. The title. The financial independence that your grandmother couldn't even have dreamed of. You've built the life that ticks every box that society handed you, and you've done it f*cking brilliantly. So why does it feel like you're living someone else's life? This week's episode is for the...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is where the whole Reinvention Era identity series finally comes together. And honestly? If you’ve spent the last few weeks listening thinking, ‘OK Sare… but how do I ACTUALLY use this in real life?’ THIS is the episode for you. Because this is where we stop talking about identity theory… and start talking about what actually changes when you consciously redesign who...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is THE one. If you listen to nothing else this week, listen to this, because this is the one where everything clicks. Over the last few weeks, here on the Reinvention Era, we’ve gone all in on…. Your Inherited Self; who you were taught to be before you even knew about it. Your Survival Self; who you consequently became to operate and cope…. but also succeed. Your Sove...