The Refined Mother

Meet my lovely "mentee" Brookelynne, in this episode. And listen in on our conversation about the unexpected benefits of having a mentor. Notes: Now that we're a family podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1zyDV4uGtZ3u8iUFbW46ZH John McArthur "Grace to You Church" Elisabeth Elliott Valerie Elliott Susanne J. Heck - "With the Master" Abbie Halberstadt - "M is for Mama" and "Hard is not the same t...

How do I encourage my children to play? They get bored so easily...They don't know how to entertain themselves...and why is play so important anyway? In this episode I share how vital play is for every aspect of your child's development. a child who has enough time to play is on track to be a healthy, well balanced adult. I also share some practical tips from my own experience as a mum, th...

In each of us is a necessity to create. Because we are made in the image of our Creator God. Creativity comes in all shapes and forms, from arranging scatter cushions on a bed, to making a toolrack in the shed. We often neglect this side of our personality...mainly because life is lived in a rush. Learn about the benefits of hobbies for you and your children, and glean some practical tips for how...

All through the Bible, we are called to obedience. As we train our children up in the faith, we have the wonderful opportunity to train them in obedience, too. To set them up for obeying God, but also to have a calm, orderly, respectful home environment. This is a practical conversation to help you decide how to navigate training your children in this area.

One aspect of life that we often overlook, or spend too little time on, is on training our children about money. How God sees it, and how they can learn to steward his gift well. I share practical examples from our own family - ways we made sure our children understood that money is a result of hard work, the value of money and the responsibilities of managing finances well.

Discover why it's so valuable to train your children to be contributing members of the family by implementing chores! Have more time, be more relaxed, and get more done...but most of all...equip your children to be successful adults.

A thought provoking conversation about patterns of a person who empowers those around them (Helping) and people who enable (or handicap). What feels good and right in the moment isn't always paving the path for future autonomy and success in our children or the people around us. A practical exploration with lots of real life situations discussed.

A wife who is truly happy is a bountiful blessing for her family. Guard against becoming so serious about life and your "To Do" list, that you are difficult to be around. Listen to find out how to resurrect your happy, carefree self who is so magnetic to everyone around you.

We are talking the Love - Respect effect of Ephesians 5:33. When you, as wife, learn how to truly show your husband respect, you ultimately become the recipient of all the love he has to give. Change your marriage into a God glorifying one, by changing the way you do things in small ways that really matter. This is a deep conversation with some personal stories for illustration.

Building on the last episode, this podcast gives further clarification of the Biblical concept of submission to the husband as head of the home under Christ. Filled with practical examples and frank conversation, it attempts to equip you with an understanding that encourages you to walk in obedience of the wonderful plan of God for marriage and families.

In this episode, we explore and unpack God's directives for us as wives. And why we can trust these directives to live a Godly wives. I share personal stories to help illustrate why submission is a good idea and encourage you to contemplate these truths for yourself.

How does a Godly wife raise concerns or issues in a way that honours God. When times feel tough, talking is HARD. This podcast acknowledges the messy, unpredictable nature of achieving transparency and finding understanding. Hear some practical steps to help you be courageous in choosing healthy communication in your marriage,

In the anticipation of the New Year, this podcast is an informal chat where I share some of my daily habits to start you thinking about the habits you would like in place for the New Year.

Family gatherings. Week long get togethers. So much love and so much fun...except when there is a "difficult" person involved. This conversation explores new ways to navigate and contemplate dealing with tough people to keep your joy, and shine Christ's light.

Pause and reflect on Christmas as we read scripture and think about the humble rescue plan that has eternal implications. Can we keep humble hearts and homes this Christmas?

"I wish my husband would help with the kids more!" In this episode we talk about common mistakes we can make, as wives which cause our husbands to be less engaged in parenting than God means for them to be. And ways we can reinforce them to be the strong fathers, they are designed to be.

Is your husband a "nice" guy? And are you unintentionally encouraging this character within him? What 's wrong with being a "nice" guy, anyway? In this short, focused episode, I explore answers to these questions, as well as investigate what we, as wives, really want (and need) from our husbands.

Continuing the conversation about cultivating a communicating family - a family who feel connected and invested in one another. A soft place to fall in a world full of challenges. In this episode, we discuss principles and practical considerations, that you are sure to find helpful.

Communication is the one of the foundations on which strong families are built. It's the key to building relationships with our children that enable us to speak into their lives and teach them and grow them in the Christian faith. Here are some thing to think about to ensure that you are a communicating family.

Great social skills are necessary for friendship, as well as every other area of life. We often presume our children will "pick up" these skills, and overlook being intentional about teaching them. Are there any areas you might be neglecting as you train up your child? Have a listen and find out as I go into detail - and then, enjoy setting your child up for success in their relationships and inte...

A topic that is not discussed enough. A failed friendship makes us feel that we have failed. This is an honest conversation about difficulties encountered and how to navigate them in a Christ like manner.

In this episode, we explore 10 ways to be a life giving friend and 6 things to avoid. Friendships are so important, and self reflection is necessary to help us become aware of our positive and negative tendencies where friendship is concerned. A very practical podcast.

Friendship for women is essential. In this episode, we discuss the evidence showing that women benefit from close friendships emotionally, spiritually and physically. So why is friendship placed on the backburner, when life would be lived more fully if it was nourished and tended? Enjoy some practical tips to kickstart putting friendship back in your life.

In this episode I explore how we set the tone in our home...and the tone we set either adds to, or diminishes our sense of overwhelm. I then explore some practical daily organisational tips for a relaxed atmosphere in the home.

Why is it so difficult for us to ask for help? This episode explores why we avoid doing this, yet feel frustrated with everyone around us when they fail to "see" what needs doing.