The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Like them or not, cell phones play an incredible role in our lives. In fact, most people cannot live without their cell phone. For all of the good that comes along with having the world in the palm of our hands, cell phones can also become a threat to our marriages. In this episode, Rusty and Heather discuss ways that cell phones can harm your marriage, but also how they can enhance your marriage....

If we are honest, we can all admit that our marriages need prayer. Whether your marriage is in a state of desperation, or you just desire growth in your marriage, turning to God is a great place to start. As you pray, remember that you don't have to enter the spiritual battle alone. There is no shame in asking other believers to pray for you and with you. Rusty and Heather want to intercede on you...

Rusty and Heather have learned from their mistakes, particularly the ones that led to infidelity in 2011. In this episode they warn couples of the dangers of selfishness, expecting your spouse to read your mind, ignoring your spiritual growth, and no longer having fun together. These mistakes, among others, can lead to devastating problems in marriage. So, Rusty and Heather remind us to also avoid...

Rusty and Heather know a thing or two about making mistakes in marriage. In this episode, they discuss what they wish they could go back and tell themselves at the beginning of 2011 before an affair almost destroyed their marriage. Unsafe communication space, inattentiveness, and unrealistic expectations are just a few marriage mistakes that you should avoid in 2024. Take advantage of The Redeemed...

Rusty and Heather wrap up their popular Christmas movie series discussing "Family Man." In marriage, it's easy to look around and think "the grass is greener" somewhere else. Chances are, the life you always wanted is the life you are living. Sometimes you just need a shift in perspective. Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/ NEW Survey - https://form.jotform.com/233415831856157  

Much like the movie "Christmas With The Kranks," Christmas often creates chaos and stress in marriages. Rusty and Heather discuss how busyness creeps into their own marriage and share practical ways to introduce peace into your holiday season. Learn how to be a team this Christmas season in ways that will carry on throughout the next year. Website - https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/

Back by popular demand is the Christmas movie series. Throughout the month of December, Rusty and Heather discuss crucial marriage lessons that they have learned from their favorite holiday movies. Unmet expectations seem to be a theme around most marriages during the holiday season, and it is certainly a theme in the classic Christmas movie "Jingle All the Way." Learn how to combat unmet expectat...

It is not always easy to be thankful for your spouse and your marriage. Having an attitude of gratitude toward marriage is sometimes challenging. Rusty and Heather share some practical "do's and don'ts" of a thankful marriage. Learn how to improve your marriage by being thankful for your spouse. Website: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRedeemedMarriage/ I...

Join Rusty and Heather in this powerful episode as they discuss the initial steps of rebuilding a relationship when trust has been shattered.  In this episode, Rusty and Heather introduce the 4 S's - Stop, Sever, Secrets, and Sand - a practical guide for couples navigating the difficult journey of rebuilding trust. Discover the importance of putting a stop to harmful behaviors, severing ties with...

In this episode, Rusty and Heather dive into a topic that's often overlooked but holds immense significance in the health of any marriage: self-care. Join them as they discuss the connection between self-care and becoming a better spouse. This episode includes ten practical suggestions that can breathe new life into your relationship. Rusty and Heather will guide you through actionable steps that...

The kiss is such an important part of culture. Everyone remembers their first kiss, and every marriage ceremony concludes with the kissing of the bride. Once married, kissing can certainly be a part of foreplay that leads to physical intimacy. But there are so many other benefits of kissing. Unfortunately, kissing more often seems to decline through the married years. Rusty and Heather share a fun...

The words "I'm sorry" can be so powerful to your spouse. Unfortunately, so many people have trouble saying those words, and some people rarely admit when they are wrong. Rusty and Heather discuss the healing power of an apology, and also 3 problems that may come along with an apology done wrong. Be sure to check out our brand new website! https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/ Also, follow us on all...

Protect your marriage at all costs. After experiencing devastation in their own marriage through betrayal, Rusty and Heather learned the danger of not safeguarding their marriage. In this episode, they name some specific "demons" that you can't defeat as long as you enjoy playing with them. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TheRedeemedMarriage/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theredeemedma...

The first year after a betrayal is crucial. Rusty and Heather discuss steps that they took during the first year after the affair confession that led to a Redeemed Marriage. Even if you are beyond a year out from hurt or betrayal, working through these resources for the next year can move your marriage towards restoration.

The Road to Redemption is a long journey with lots of steps. In the second part of this series, Rusty and Heather share details of the early days after Heather's confession of infidelity. They share things they did right and also things they would have done differently. The blueprint may not be the same for every couple healing from a betrayal, but Rusty and Heather have a story of reconciliation,...

When an affair or some other betrayal happens in marriage, you find yourself asking "now what?" Very few people talk about their experience, and every situation is different, so it is hard to find a blueprint of next steps. Rusty and Heather have walked the Road to Redemption after an affair, so they at least know what worked for them. In this episode, they openly discuss the very difficult days i...

So many marriages are stuck. So many marriages are settling for mediocrity or even just being roommates. So many marriages are lifeless. Rusty and Heather pull out their list of practical ways to have a life giving marriage. Your marriage can experience a transformation, and it can begin with these steps. Be sure to follow The Redeemed Marriage on Facebook and Instagram . Sign up for our email lis...

After a marriage crisis such as an affair, why do couples stay together? How does a faith background affect the decision to stay together? Why do many couples choose to stay together and then settle for a lifeless marriage? Rusty and Heather discuss these questions, and the hope of a transformed marriage.

Anyone that has been hurt knows that certain things can trigger memories associated with that pain. After a painful experience such as infidelity, triggers are usually frequent and intense for quite some time. Although the passing of time helps, triggers can resurface unexpectedly much later. Rusty and Heather battled triggers following their journey through an affair, and they learned quite a few...

The Redeemed Marriage has rolled out a new look. But, there is much more behind the brand than just a new logo and new photos. Rusty and Heather share their re-brand journey, as well as the practical, personal, and spiritual meanings behind the brand. Also, they discuss new marriage resources and several exciting things still to come.

August 23, 2011 - the date of Heather's confession of her affair. On the anniversary week, Rusty and Heather reflect on the emotions that still come up each year, and also give a list of things that are different about their marriage 12 years later. Sign up for our email list here: https://www.theredeemedmarriage.com/ Take our marriage survey here: https://form.jotform.com/220146510912040

If you have been married longer than 24 hours, you have probably asked yourself the question, "Did I marry the wrong person?" Did you grow up believing there is one "right" person for you to marry and you think you made a mistake? Rusty and Heather discuss soul mates, divorce, remarriage, and what to do if you start feeling like you married the wrong person. Website - https://www.theredeemedmarria...

In a follow-up episode to last week's topic, Rusty and Heather discuss moving beyond the hurt after betrayal. Specifically, hear Rusty's thoughts on being able to regain physical intimacy with Heather after her affair. While every story is different, Rusty and Heather share openly about their own personal journey of moving beyond the hurt in order to give hope to broken marriages. Website: https:/...

Physical intimacy is such a crucial part of a marriage relationship, but it is often a difficult subject for couples. Many couples have painful baggage in this area, whether it is from pre-marital relationships, or betrayal and unfaithfulness during marriage. Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of physical intimacy, their healing in this area after infidelity, and even an incredible resource...

All healthy marriages need boundaries, especially when it comes to relationships with members of the opposite sex. How extreme do those boundaries need to be, and what do you do when jealousy becomes the motivation for boundaries? After walking through an affair that started with a disregard for certain boundaries, Rusty and Heather share great insight into protecting your marriage through appropr...