The Recovered Dad Podcast

In today's episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, we tackle the top three myths surrounding porn addiction that keep men stuck in cycles of shame and struggle. Coach Yeadon and I share personal experiences, practical insights, and actionable advice to help listeners recognize these myths and begin the journey toward freedom. This episode is part one of a two-part series dedicated to exposing fa...

In today's episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, we're diving into one of the most challenging yet essential aspects of recovery: rebuilding trust in our relationships. This is a conversation that often feels terrifying, but it's also one of the most liberating steps we can take. In this episode, Coach Yeadon shares his personal journey—lessons learned, hard truths faced, and the powerful tool...

In this episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, I explore an intriguing connection between food and sexual urges in the recovery journey. Drawing from my own experience, I share insights into how binge eating and porn addiction often mirror each other, both acting as ways to sedate, distract, or regulate emotions. I discuss the emotional patterns beneath these behaviors, the role of self-disciplin...

In this episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, we discuss the power of new beginnings and the transformative potential of the reboot challenge. This episode delves into the importance of resetting, refocusing, and reengaging with recovery efforts to cultivate lasting change. We explore strategies for overcoming pornography addiction through community support, practical tools, and intentional acti...

In this episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, Coach Yeadon Smith and I talk about how to stay sober and on track with your recovery during the holiday season. We dive into the challenges that come with disrupted routines, holiday events, and potential pitfalls that can throw you off course. We focus on bringing awareness, planning, and intentionality to the chaos of the holidays. You'll hear pra...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, we uncover the underestimated yet foundational role of sleep in the recovery journey. Sleep isn't just about rest—it's the bedrock of clarity, resilience, and effective decision-making. Without it, even the best strategies falter. Coach Yeadon and I break down how poor sleep impacts recovery and share practical tools to reclaim this critical piece...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, Coach Yeadon shares a powerful story of his recovery journey, offering insights into the habits, tools, and intentional practices that have shaped his path to freedom from pornography. Reflecting on his two-year journey, Yeadon delves into the foundational importance of building healthy habits, understanding triggers, and practicing emotional aware...

In today's episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, we're diving deep into the essential topics of identifying our triggers and managing the conditions in our lives for lasting recovery. I'm with Coach Yeadon, and together we're breaking down how stress, loneliness, fatigue, and other conditions combine with everyday triggers, creating real challenges on the recovery journey. We'll talk about the i...

In this episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, hosts Matthew Sinkovitz and Yeadon Smith explore the critical topic of trigger management within the recovery journey. They dive into the concepts of "conditions" and "triggers" and how these influence our susceptibility to act out. By sharing personal experiences and insights, they demonstrate how understanding and managing these factors is essentia...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, Coach Yeadon sits down with Dr. Eddie Capparucci, a renowned author and expert on addiction recovery, to discuss the deep-rooted emotional patterns that fuel addiction. Dr. Capparucci, who has authored six books, including Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction, shares insights on how unresolved trauma and emotional distres...

In this episode of the Porn to Purpose Podcast, I am joined by my esteemed partner, Coach Yeadon Smith, as we dive deep into the power of purpose and the importance of discovering your "WHY" on the path from porn to purpose. We explore the significance of understanding your motivation as the foundation for real, lasting change. Listen in as we discuss the courage it takes to ask for help, the jour...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, Yeadon and I dive into the most common mistake in recovery: complacency. We explore how taking your eye off the ball when you're doing well can lead to relapse. Drawing from our personal experiences and recovery journeys, we highlight the importance of maintaining a consistent recovery framework and staying connected to a community. The conversatio...

In this episode, Yeadon talks about the concept of interrupting patterns that lead to addiction, particularly focusing on how environments can either sabotage or support your recovery. Drawing on insights from Dr. Joe Dispenza's book, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, Yeadon discusses how deeply ingrained routines and environments make it difficult to change destructive habits, like turning to...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, we delve into the concept of The Noble Lens, an approach and way of life central to the work we do in the Porn to Purpose community, particularly in our Liberation Bootcamp. I introduce this profound idea that involves shifting our perspective from objectifying women to honoring them with respect and nobility.   Top 10 Show Highlights:   [00:12] In...

In this episode of the ''Porn to Purpose'' podcast, Yeadon and I break down the inner and outer game in recovery from porn addiction. We discuss how technology, accountability, and emotional resilience work together to build a strong recovery framework. While limiting access to triggers is key (outer game), it's just as important to tackle the emotional and psychological reasons driving the behavi...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I dig into another conversation inspired by my work in the 12-step recovery community. I share my personal journey navigating the ideas in these recovery rooms, including the struggle I initially had with the concept of powerlessness.  Top 10 Show Highlights: [00:10] Introduction to the episode and inspiration from Sex Addicts Anonymous. [01:35] St...

In this episode of the 'Porn to Purpose' podcast, I'm diving into the essential topic of how to navigate the moments when you're struggling, feeling depleted, or edging toward acting out. This is a common experience in recovery, and I'll be sharing a framework I've developed through my personal journey and the work we do inside the Porn to Purpose community.   Top 10 Show Highlights:   [00:12] Int...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I dive into an essential conversation about tracking your days porn-free and whether using a sobriety counter is beneficial or counterproductive in your recovery journey. I share my personal experiences and insights gained from my journey and the discussions within the Porn to Purpose community, including the Liberation Bootcamp.   Top 10 Show High...

In this episode of the 'Porn to Purpose' Podcast, I dive deep into my own recovery journey. Since starting in 2019, I've experienced both highs and lows, but my commitment to getting back up and moving forward has never wavered. I've shared three key elements that have been crucial in my journey and might just help you in yours.   Top 10 Show Highlights:   [01:10] - Embracing Recovery: My journey...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I explore the critical distinction between active and passive recovery. This discussion emphasizes the importance of sustained engagement in the recovery process and how complacency can lead to setbacks. I share insights from my personal journey, highlighting that recovery is a matter of life or death and requires daily, active participation to mai...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I introduce you to one of the foundational tools of our community—the 4RAC Formula. I dive deep into the origins and applications of this powerful framework, designed to help you navigate the challenges of pornography addiction. I share my personal journey and the inspiration behind creating the 4RAC Formula, which emerged during a community challe...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I delve into a foundational conversation within the Porn to Purpose community: the Freedom Framework. Developed initially in 2019-2020, the Freedom Framework is a system designed to support and sustain long-term recovery from pornography. I break down the essential qualities and principles of this framework, offering listeners a high-level overview...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I delve into the crucial role of creating a recovery framework. This episode is a deep dive into the importance of having a structured approach and how it's a key component in maintaining long-term sobriety. I share insights from my personal recovery journey since 2019 and how a consistent framework can support emotional, mental, physical, and spir...

In this episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, we delve into the transformative journey of Yeadon Smith, a member of our community who has turned his struggles with porn addiction into a pathway toward a more meaningful and purpose-driven life. This episode provides deep insights into the challenges and breakthroughs that are part of recovering from addiction.   Top 10 Show Highlights:   [00:12...

In today's episode of the 'Porn to Purpose' podcast, I welcome Brent Dowlen, also known as the Fallible Man. Brent is a men's personal development and relationship coach, as well as the founder and host of the Fallible Man podcast. In this episode, Brent shares his journey of personal growth, the importance of aligning with one's purpose, and the significance of small, consistent efforts in achiev...