The Raw Report

In this powerful episode, Coach Wiggins sits down with a special guest Marine Coach Bell to talk about one of the most overlooked wounds in our culture: the dad deficit and the fate of the fatherless. We unpack what happens when fathers are absent physically, emotionally, spiritually, or mentally — and how that absence shapes identity, confidence, discipline, relationships, anger, purpose, and a y...

Men are done with the church. They say it failed them. But what if the real problem isn't the church — it's the man? In this episode, Coach Wiggins breaks down the hard truth nobody is saying: God never designed the church to save you. He designed YOU to build it. And until men develop the discipline, accountability, and character to govern themselves, they have nothing to bring to anything. This...

Most men treat a financial crisis like a curse. They panic. They retreat. They start making decisions from fear instead of faith and finances. In Part 3 of Broke Is a Behavior , Coach Wiggins flips the script — what if the crisis isn't trying to break you, it's trying to build you? This is biblical money principles applied to real-life pressure. Not prosperity gospel. Not "just have mo...

Debt isn't the enemy. Fear of debt is. In Part 2 of Broke Is a Behavior, Coach Wiggins gets raw about the financial tool most people are too scared to touch — and why that fear is keeping them broke. Being broke isn't just about money. It's a behavior. And one of the biggest broke behaviors is avoiding debt completely because nobody taught you how to use it — so instead it uses you. In...

You're not broke because of bad luck. You're broke because of bad decisions — and the first one is what you do with every dollar that comes in. In Part 1 of this series, Coach Wiggins breaks down the core mindset shift that separates people who build from people who burn: Are you treating your money like a seed or a snack? If you've ever spent your last and wondered where it went — thi...

Most men aren't broke because of bad luck. They're broke because they've accepted it. Coach Wiggins is done tiptoeing around it — God didn't design you to stay stuck, stay small, or stay comfortable in lack. This podcast is a raw, faith-driven call to men who are tired of making excuses and ready to walk in the abundance they were actually built for. No fluff. No filters. Just trut...

Men are lost — and nobody wants to say it out loud. Not lost in the way the world talks about it, but lost at the core. They don't know who they are, what they were built for, or why they're even here. Coach Wiggins breaks down the silent identity crisis that's destroying men from the inside out — and why the world's version of manhood was never going to save them in the first plac...

You’re sitting on the couch, but your mind is miles away. You’re at the dinner table, but your spirit is nowhere to be found. Being "present but checked out" is one of the most dangerous states a man can be in—and it’s a silent killer of marriages and families In this video, Coach Wiggins breaks down the reality of the passive man. We're looking at why you’ve checked out, the damage it...

Your faith isn't weak — your identity is broken. In this episode, I break down why most Christian men stay stuck, and it has nothing to do with praying harder or reading more Bible. The real battle is identity. Using David vs. Goliath and Paul's transformation, I show you the 3 identity lies destroying Christian men and how to rebuild from the ground up. This ain't surface-level motiva...

You've got the smile locked in. The voice is steady. Nobody in the room would ever know. But behind the performance — the leadership, the hustle, the "I'm good" — there's a version of you that's exhausted, overwhelmed, and quietly unraveling. Performing But Falling Apart Inside is the podcast for the ones who always show up strong but rarely talk about what it costs. Each e...

What happens when the job you gave your identity to replaces you with a better machine? For years, many people were taught to produce, perform, grind, and prove their worth through work. Then one day, the company downsizes, automates, restructures, or lays them off — and suddenly they’re left wondering, “Who am I now?” But here’s the truth: you were never created to be a machine in the first place...

Most people are losing in life — not because they lack talent, but because they can't communicate. They can't speak up in the classroom. They freeze in the boardroom. They shut down at home. And they wonder why doors keep closing. In this episode, we're breaking down why communication isn't just a soft skill — it's the raw advantage that separates the ones who get picked from t...

In a world full of opinions, distractions, social media pressure, and constant confusion, too many people are letting outside noise shape their inner life. In this episode, we break down why protecting your mind matters, how unnecessary voices can pull you away from purpose, and why not every sound deserves your attention. Sometimes growth is not about doing more, it’s about muting what never shou...

Passive-aggressive men often think they’re protecting themselves by avoiding direct conflict, hiding how they really feel, or using silence, sarcasm, distance, and mixed signals to make a point. But in reality, that kind of behavior doesn’t protect them—it slowly works against them. It damages trust, weakens relationships, creates confusion, and keeps them trapped in cycles of resentment, pride, a...

A lot of men say they’re lonely, but few want to admit they’ve been hiding behind screens instead of building real relationships. You can’t keep choosing comfort, isolation, scrolling, and surface-level connection, then wonder why nobody really knows you. Friendship takes effort. It takes showing up, reaching out, having real conversations, being dependable, and learning how to be present in other...

So many young men feel behind before life has even really started. They look around, see everybody else winning online, and start believing they’ve already missed their shot. But the truth is, a lot of them aren’t behind—they’re just confused, distracted, pressured, and comparing their beginning to somebody else’s highlight reel. In this episode, we break down why so many young men feel lost early...

What you refuse to confront in private will eventually spill into your relationships, your purpose, your leadership, and your future. In this episode, we talk about how passive behavior may look harmless at first, but over time it starts costing you peace, progress, respect, and results. Avoidance has a price, and sooner or later somebody pays for what you won’t address. This conversation is for t...

A lot of people are frustrated because they keep trying to use an old version of themselves to step into a new season. The mindset, habits, survival tactics, and routines that got you through one chapter of life may be the exact things holding you back in the next one. In this episode, we break down why growth demands change, why comfort can become a cage, and why evolving is not betrayal—it’s obe...

Unforgiveness feels like strength—like “I’m not letting them get away with it.” But really it’s you drinking the poison and expecting them to feel sick. In this episode, we expose how unforgiveness quietly drains your peace, hijacks your focus, and keeps you chained to people who aren’t even thinking about you. We’ll talk about why we hold on, what it’s costing you, and how forgiveness isn’t excus...

Everybody loves the idea of purpose—until it’s time to put skin in the game. In this episode, we’re pulling the mask off “someday faith” and calling out the lie that dreaming is the same as building. Because a dream you refuse to work is just a wish with church clothes on. We’re talking about the difference between vision and vibes , why procrastination often shows up as “waiting on God,” and how...

A lot of people are grinding hard… but can’t tell you what they’re aiming at. In this episode, we expose the trap of staying in constant motion with no target—working, hustling, planning, posting, surviving—yet still not moving forward. We’re talking strategy, direction, and the difference between effort and alignment. Because if you don’t know the goal, your “hard work” can turn into a lifetime o...

Comparison isn’t just insecurity… it’s evidence. Evidence you stopped running your race and started clocking somebody else’s lap. In this episode, we expose what comparison really does: it steals gratitude, rewrites your identity, and pulls you out of the lane God gave you. If you’ve been feeling stuck, salty, or silently competing with people you don’t even know—this is your wake-up call. Your as...

Change isn’t the enemy — comfort is. In this episode, we get honest about why so many of us say we want better… then panic when better requires movement. We’ll talk about the real roots: fear of failing, fear of losing control, fear of being exposed, and fear of becoming responsible for the life you’ve been praying for. If you’ve been stuck in the same cycles, this is your wake-up call: God didn’t...

Isolation feels safe… until you realize it’s just silence wearing a mask. In this episode, we draw a hard line between peace (which restores you) and isolation (which slowly drains you). We talk about why people disappear when life gets heavy, how pride and pain keep you “cool” but cut off, and what it actually looks like to heal without hiding.

Being exhausted isn’t evidence of purpose. In this episode, we break down why hustle can become a mask—and how men end up grinding for approval, not assignment. You’ll get a clear definition of purpose, a reality check for your current grind, and one practical drill to start doing intentional work instead of burnout work .