The Raw, Real & Rebelicious Podcast - with Michelle Rebelle Coops

Self-doubt, procrastination, insecurity, fear... we all feel that sometimes. But when it stops us from doing what we love and what we're here to do, you're making it too much about you. Consider the option that it's not about you at all; it's about all the people you can serve with your talents, wisdom, products... your magic. Who are you NOT to help them?

There's truth in the saying: you gotta put your money where your mouth is. Gotta walk the walk, talk the talk. But ever considered the reverse? For me, putting my money somewhere has always given me an incentive to make that investment worthwhile. YES. I would choose to consider this monetary investment as an energizer, knowing I would consciously act and speak accordingly. How do you consider you...

What if every single moment in your life could become so yummy, so exciting, so invigorating... what if even the shittiest moments could become moments to embrace. What if you could let every second penetrate your experience, so you can penetrate life with your strength? That's what this episode is about. Enjoy... 

Let's dive into becoming a Luscious Leader with the amazing Lorin Krenn. Follow his amazing content on Instagram (@lorinkrenn), subscribe to his YouTube channel, check his website lorinkrenn.com, or listen to the 'Awakened Masculinity Podcast' on iTunes or Spotify .  In this 1 hour episode we talk about modern-day leadership and how to integrate spirituality and sexuality in our every day business...

'I could NEVER do that, I'm too jealous.' That's what almost all people say when they hear about my polyamorous life. I wonder... when have we become so afraid of uncomfortable feelings? What if we could learn more about ourselves through these fears?

Is confidence a real thing?! Or is all this 'believing in yourself' mumbojumbo just here to annoy us and make us feel miserable? I went on a quest years ago. Here's what I found out. 

Your Personal Brand = who you are on the inside, expressed to the outer world and experienced by others. So tell me... what flavors are you expressing? Are you showing all of your qualities for the sake of yourself and others? 

Does life suck? Do people suck? Does the world suck? Do you think YOU suck? Well, my friend... you don't, but you may have been scarred and scared. Time to become a LEADER instead. A Leader of Life. 

I like to stir shit up. So yeah, I'll talk about braless titties, nudity, sex, love. It really isn't about those topics; it's about questioning the status quo and giving new meaning to our values. It's time to stop what we're doing and question the rules... so we can create our own. 

Do you simply accept everything you've been told is right? Do you follow the status quo, ignoring that inner voice that desires to express another truth? True Leaders live a life that's courageous and in line with who they want to be. Don't let your past define your future. 

Past experiences and trauma may have caused you to believe there's something wrong with you. But is there? No, my love, there isn't. It's nobody's fault actually. But... once you're aware of it, it is your responsibility to deal with this. Why? Because if you want to live, love, express yourself truthfully, being your most exquisite self, there's no escaping your own shit!

For a woman to allow a man between her legs, we need this: trust and safety. For a client to open up their wallet they need the exact same thing. In this episode I share some of my thoughts around trust, different levels of trust, and how vulnerability - with yourself and the other person - is key to preserve a sense of safety. 

Do we really act selflessly when we do something right? Or is there always an element of 'needing to be validated, wanting to get that confirmation that 'we did good'? In this episode I talk around our basic need to be seen, validated and recognized for our inner goodie goodie. Imho there's nothing wrong with wanting a little bit of validation ;)

How do you choose to look at the world? Yes, some things are sh*t. And there's not always a reason for it other than it being f*cked up. But you can still decide not to fall a victim, and decide to look at life's wonders by putting on the best pair of sunglasses there are: pink ones! 

It's so easy to say: "I don't care about other people's opinions!." But actually showing up congruently, is a whole different ballgame. Why do we care about other people's opinions so much? How can we step into our own autonomy even more? 

A client of mine shared his personal struggles with relating with me. He was forcing himself to find a solution for his marriage that they both didn't want to be in anymore. What stopped him? 

We all desire safety and belonging. We also all seek for freedom. How can you balance these two polarities? Our need to be accepted and fit in can sometimes lead to pleasing others. We cage ourselves by adjusting who we are...