The Rainie Howard Show

Rejection comes from a belief that you’re not wanted or that you don’t feel like you belong or connected. The emotions of rejection can lead to shame and feeling like a victim. This mindset causes feelings of helplessness and blame. Understand that you can overcome these emotions by renewing your mind.   As you believe so shall it be done Focus on what you desire Be nicer to yourself “Why does it...

Do you put lots of energy in trying to make another person happy? Do you feel like you can’t say no when someone needs your help? When others are in a bad mood does it impact you? If you answered yes to any of these questions you may struggle with people pleasing.  Realize you have a choice; you can say no if that’s your decision Create boundaries and set your priorities  Never feel bad for self-c...

Your relationships have a great impact on your entire life. They impact your alignment with God, they affect your confidence, peace and your clarity. Toxic relationships will cloud your vision and distract you from personal growth.  Be with people who are good for your soul Stop allowing your loneliness to reconnect you to toxic relationships. It’s just like drinking poison because you’re thirsty....

Your past relationship trauma may cause you to subconsciously block love. Love requires faith, commitment and a open heart to receive.  Let go of the defensive mode: guarded energy will block you from being approachable Stop assuming everyone is like your ex  Take time to heal: when you’re still broken it’s hard to be your loving kind self “Even after manifesting some good in your life, you can sa...

The things that people do is a projection of their own reality. When you become immune to the actions of others you protect yourself from feeling like a victim due to emotional suffering.   Don’t take it personally  Grow your self-worth. Don’t attach your identity to others Ask: Is this an emotional trigger or are you upset? Prioritize your self-care Set Healthy Boundaries and let go of people ple...

It’s not selfish to make yourself a priority. It’s necessary.  Quote: If you are not being treated with the love and respect you deserve, check your price tag. Perhaps you’ve marked yourself down. It’s YOU that determines what you’re worth by what you accept. Get off the clearance rack and get behind the glass case where Valuables and kept. Bottom line, VALUE yourself more.   Accept yourself Forgi...

Now you can take full control over your life and make the decision that serves you. Learn to make a decision and stand on that decision with confidence and peace. It’s a process. Allow it to unfold. Trust that it’s all working together for your good. Guard your mind and focus on the path laid out for you.   Ask yourself; how do you desire to feel? Then align with that feeling… Don’t make any perma...

Often times when emotional pain is felt some people choose to ignore it, suppress it and even numb it.  We allow time to go by without addressing it. We avoid dealing with it.  That pain is seeking your attention. Understand you can love the pain away.    You can decide to change the story  Eliminate the victim mindset  Problems are not permanent  Accept responsibility (what they did may be their...

Fall in love with the process of becoming the very best version of yourself and you will attract healthy whole relationship.  Healthy relationships start with becoming a healthier you  Saying No when you mean it, is a form of self-love You are responsible for the energy you surround yourself with  Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainieho...

We often compare ourselves to others, compare ourselves to our past success and our past failures, our past wins and how good things use to be. We get lost in what was that we don’t allow ourselves to receive the possibility of something new and better. This thinking leads us to striving for what we once had and striving for what we see others have. It’s time to free yourself from this pattern of...

What’s for you is for you. You don’t have to chase, beg, and fight for it. That energy will cause you to block it. Money is one of the biggest excuses we make to not allow ourselves to receive what we really want. By looking at your current situation you stop yourself from even considering the possibility of having what you desire. Creating wealth has less to do with focusing on money but more to...

Sometimes growth feels like you’re losing when you are actually aligning and expanding. Growth can often lead to ending and letting go of some people and things. Growth isn’t always packaged in rewards. Growth often feels very uncomfortable You’ve never been this version of yourself, be patient with yourself Learn the power of silence Get your "Learn to Love Yourself Bundle" click this l...

So many people want to be rich but being rich is based on circumstances. Rich is a matter of what you see in your bank account and the pursuit of being rich can have too much of an influence on your emotions. Wealth is a mindset Wealth is not about having lots of money, it is about having a lot of options Don’t focus on your income, focus on your impact.  Napoleon Hill- “If you can’t do great thin...

You don’t have to do it the way they did it. You don’t have to appeal to what they like. You don’t have to live to please them. You don’t have to travel in their lane. Don’t let them compare you. You are uniquely you.  Stop shrinking to fit places you’ve outgrown Don’t hurry it, savour it Even if you can’t see it, it’s all working out for you. Walk with trust If you rush it, you’ll ruin it Only ma...

Do you struggle with money blocks? It's time to allow financial abundance.  Stop dwelling on the past Stop focusing on your current financial status Feel the feeling of abundance Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard YouTube: @rainiehoward Website: https://www.rainiehoward.com Store: https://www.reall...

You don’t get what you want, you get what you allow yourself to receive. Do you struggle with feelings of unworthiness or low self-image? Connect to love Acceptance Joy Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard YouTube: @rainiehoward Website: https://www.rainiehoward.com Store: https://www.realloveexist.com Sp...

You can’t be disappointed and get what you want… Learn how to pray effectively and attract what you desire.  Be Aware of your words and emotions when you pray Be Aligned to what you desire to receive Be grateful for what you have Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard YouTube: @rainiehoward Website: https:/...

You are the observer of your thoughts… Don’t receive negative thoughts as who you are… Stop identifying yourself with negative thinking… Direct your emotions…don’t let your emotions control you Allow the energy to move through don’t fight or resist Be good to yourself Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard...

We often become detracted by negativity and the lack of what we desire…. today’s message is all about reprogramming your mind to attract what you truly desire.  Know exactly what you want… Ask with your thoughts, words and action… Take time to quiet your mind through meditation Visualize and feel as if it’s done Trust and receive it Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@r...

Learn how to; Make Feeling good a priority  Return to your natural state of peace and calm  Let go and allow it to come  Have fun and follow the bliss  Expect it and know it’s already done Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard YouTube: @rainiehoward Website: https://www.rainiehoward.com Store: https://www....

You don't have to struggle in order to succeed. You don't have to be in pain in order to enjoy peace. Today's message will inspire you to come out of the struggling mindset.  Come out of the struggling thoughts…  When you settle in anything you keep the struggle alive… Why are you ok with settling?... Let yourself happen, let yourself be Don’t let instant gratification make you forg...

We teach people how to treat us. Are toxic emotions connecting you in your relationships?  What is connecting the relationship?  Learn how to properly heal from toxic emotional bonds,  Toxic emotions: guilt, fear, boredom, pity Healthy emotions: joy, excitement, gratitude Be intentional with listening and using discernment in relationships... Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email:...

Learn the 5 secrets to manifesting,  Know what you truly want. ... Focus on gratitude and positive self-talk. ... Be intentional with communication. ... Visualize success. ... Allowing is key. Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard YouTube: @rainiehoward Website: https://www.rainiehoward.com Store: https://...

Life can be overwhelming and many are struggling trying to fix things. Learn how to let it be, allow peace to flow and live a more calm life. Want to connect with us? Reach out to us online! Email: contact@rainiehoward.com Instagram: @rainiehoward Facebook: @rainie.howard YouTube: @rainiehoward Website: https://www.rainiehoward.com Store: https://www.realloveexist.com Speaking/Coaching: https://ww...

In this episode of the Rainie Howard Show, Rainie and Patrick discuss the influence of society's gender role expectations on our thinking and our relationships. Topics Include: Stay at home moms Differences in parenting expectations for each gender Career and financial norms for men Societal expectations around childrearing  Creating a family vision and mission Holding space for your partner...