Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man Show
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Jul 11, 2026
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Episodes
What To Do If Your Wife Doesn't Want You To Invest 28.11.2020 27:47
Episode #281 Do you ask your wife first when making any big decision where money is involved? A lot of men are like that. And sadly, for some men, even if they really want to invest in improving themselves, they become hesitant to do so, because they think it would create a heated discussion within their relationship. In this episode, hear what Tim and Doug have to say about this and learn some ti...
Revisit: A Quick Way To Overcome Shame 26.11.2020 9:09
Episode #280 Are there any areas in your life where you feel like you're not doing as well as you could? Perhaps an area where you feel shame? Most men we work with have shame deeply rooted in major areas of their life like their business, their relationships, and their health. The sneaky thing with shame is that it STOPS us from taking action. It STOPS us from making the changes that we want. And...
How Important Is Safety To A Woman? 24.11.2020 21:25
Episode #279 Do you know what the #1 most important thing is to a woman? Is it respect, safety, desire...or is it affection? Emotional safety is the most important aspect of a relationship for women. Women want to be provided for emotionally. That's what will make them feel safe in themselves, and in their environment. There can be no desire without emotional safety. And it must come first. In thi...
"If I Had A Gun To Your Head...." 21.11.2020 25:46
Episode #278 Are you constantly struggling to meet your goals? Always trying to figure out how to make enough money each month? In today's episode, Doug walks us through an exercise he uses with the men in The Brotherhood that has helped them achieve their 6-month goals in just ONE. All we ask is that you approach this exercise with an open heart, an open mind, and a willingness to do the work. __...
One Man's Story - Meet Chris Loch 19.11.2020 39:20
Episode #277 Does your wife seem uninterested in you? Where are you at in terms of fixing her complaints about your relationship? You always thought that you'd have the time to fix the problems in your marriage...that's why you keep on prioritizing other things over your relationship. It's not how much money you make, it's the emotional connection that's important to women. If it's lost, that's wh...
The Less You Care, The More You Get 17.11.2020 15:45
Episode #276 When was the last time your wife came to you, asking about your day, flirting with you, or being very intimate with you? The more you keep your focus inward, the more your wife will be coming on to you. The more you work on yourself, the less you care about the external. That's when you really get more . Work on your inner game, keep leveling up...you'll become more and more attractiv...
Taking Stock of Where You Are In Your Marriage 14.11.2020 30:55
What level are you in your relationship? What is your model when it comes to marriage? There are 3 levels to a relationship. Level 3 means your marriage is outstanding. Both of you are playing full out in the relationship. Both parties are completely transparent in everything, and love permeates every day of your lives together. Level 2 means things are just fine. An average relationship when comp...
How Do You Decompress? 12.11.2020 24:17
Episode #274 Does your business keep you busy all the time? Do you have trouble "switching off" after work? What's your decompression routine? In martial arts, when leaving a dojo, bowing signifies that you're transitioning from your fight-energy into a different mode. In your business, it can mean you're leaving the work-energy behind to embrace what comes next. Increasing the transition time is...
Do You Have 2AM Friends? 10.11.2020 38:17
Episode #273 Who are your 2 AM friends? Are you someone else's 2 AM friend? We've all had that friend who you can call in your most difficult times and would pick up the phone no matter what. They've always got your back. Hold onto these people. At the same time, as a tree needs some leaves to be removed in order to grow, we must make sure that some people are allowed to fall out of our lives. Sp...
Are You A 'DEER'? 07.11.2020 27:12
Episode #272 Are you confident about your decisions? Are you insecure and worried about not getting approval from your wife? Unknowingly, men can become the beta in the relationship, especially when women start to make demands or test their partner. Men become more submissive. This is when the DEER appears: Defending, Excusing, Explaining, and Rationalizing. You only do that with someone you are s...
Revisit: Break The Rules! 05.11.2020 22:07
Episode #271 Success does not always mean having material things, making a lot of money, and getting that feeling of significance and respect from other people. Many financially successful people are unhappy because they became exhausted hustling and working hard thinking that these things will make them happy. There are so many rules in place that are holding them back and that makes their life m...
A Chat with Tim and Doug 03.11.2020 31:24
Episode #270 Are you living in excess? Are you beating yourself up too much? Learn more about your body. Refuse to accept something you don't want to accept. Go and try different approaches. See shifts occur. Reading a book is great, but without application, it's useless. When we see other people achieving great things, it really speaks to something that is innate within all of us - the desire to...
The Magic Cure 31.10.2020 20:16
Episode #269 How is your wife doing? Are you watching out for warning signs? Do you have a methodology to fix problems in your relationship, or to cure your wife's "migraine"? Identify the pattern and the method, and do something about it. This "migraine" causes distance and separation in the relationship. Learn the triggers and find ways to remove them. Help your wife to be better, step up, and...
Revisit: Be A Man 29.10.2020 23:31
Episode #268 Women want to be led by a man who knows what he is doing and knows where he is going. Part of this comes from feeling secure with the person who's leading her. She needs to know that her partner is man enough to be a strong foundation for her and for their family. In order to become The Powerful Man that your wife needs, you should first recognize where you are now and know where you...
How To Get A Temperature Check 27.10.2020 22:03
Episode #267 How do you check-in? How do you stay connected? We should keep checking in regularly on people that are important to us because people change day by day. Are you growing as a man? When was the last time you checked on your wife? When you start to feel that you're not engaged or feel that it's meaningless to share anymore, that's a sign that she's starting to lose the connection. As a...
What To Do When Your Wife Is Always Wanting More 24.10.2020 25:57
Episode #266 Is your wife adding too much to your plate? What do you do when your wife is asking you to do so much? When you feel like your capacity is full, you tend to react quickly and differently. In this kind of situation, it is important to be firm with your boundaries and stand your ground. This will ground her in her femininity and allow her to surrender to your masculinity. Start a conver...
When Was The Last Time You Did Something For Yourself? 22.10.2020 21:28
Episode #265 When was the last time you looked at the stars or walked in the park? When is the last time you did something for yourself? Often guys feel guilty when they take time for themselves to fill their cup. They don't acknowledge the fact that letting themselves become empty makes them weak, and that's why they don't see the need for it. You must first honor the truth that you're weak and e...
Finding Other Men Who Are Doing The Work 20.10.2020 19:21
Episode #264 Are you having a hard time finding and connecting with men who are doing the work, like you? What conversations are you starting with people? If you're growing secretly or growing behind closed doors, obviously you will not meet anybody. They will not recognize you. There are tons of guys out there who are doing the work, you just have to show up and let them know that you exist. Exer...
Divorce Day 17.10.2020 22:38
Episode #263 Are things not going well in your relationship? What's your wife's primary complaint about you and the relationship? What actions have you taken to address this? Women often drop clues as they move through the marriage, you just have to notice them. Listen to her, and be a man to her, before it's too late. You need the proper tools to help you in the process of maintaining a healthy m...
Do You Turn To Business for Validation? 15.10.2020 24:45
Episode #262 Are you getting the validation and significance at home that you desire? Will you be able to choose between business and your relationship with your wife? Why choose if you can have both? Men tend to spend most of their time at work because it's where they can demonstrate their control, exercise their power, and feel their significance. Unfortunately, this often leads to broken relati...
How White Lies Take Their Toll 13.10.2020 23:35
Episode #261 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she will not approve it? You're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It...
Revisit: Do You Feel Empty? 10.10.2020 21:21
Episode #260 No matter how much money you have or how successful your business is…if you are not clear on who you want to be, you will still end up feeling empty. We become blinded by the norms set by society and end up following somebody else's guidance on how we should be living our lives instead of finding our own way. We end up striving for somebody else's ideas of what it means to be a man an...
Revisit: Giving Up The Crutch - A Life Without Coffee or Alcohol 08.10.2020 18:52
Episode #259 Are you a certified coffee addict or an alcohol lover? Reducing the intake of caffeine and alcohol, or totally getting rid of both, could make a great impact on your life. Especially in terms of large decision-making and how you perform in your business. Being dependent on coffee & alcohol tends to make people more unstable and anxious all the time. It also reduces your alpha brainwav...
To Porn Or Not To Porn 06.10.2020 16:48
Episode #258 Is your wife or your partner getting enough sex from you? Or are you just getting it off from your phone or your computer? How do you know when you're consuming too much PORN? Why do you watch porn in the first place? How does it affect us, men, really? One of the things a lot of people don't think about porn is the inhibiting effects it brings to us. For a lot of guys, it becomes HAB...
8 Ways To Increase Your Masculinity 03.10.2020 29:49
Episode #257 Do you feel like you're losing your masculinity ? Here are 4 ways you can get it back, and increase your masculinity. 1. Physical Activity such as running, biking, swimming, and lifting weights helps you raise your testosterone levels and can make you push yourself beyond your normal boundaries. 2. Get Out Of Your Head & Get Into Your Body . Bang on your chest. Slap your faces. Do int...
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